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Quick serious girl advice...

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SKI-UH9
Posts: 157 - Karma: 10

ightt im gona try to make this as short as posible so hang in there cos i really need this advice. So basicly last weekend i met this girl hooked up and we really liked eachother. She only comes up on weekends so we only got to spend a few hours with eachother but we exchanged numbers. i get home and my parents flip shit for me being out so late and not telling them were i was going and i get my phone taken away. So the next day i get my bros phone text her like all night and find out she really likes me and she wantes to hook up like all this weekend, so im stoked. So i dont text her till i get my phone back wich is last night and she tells me she has a boyfriend wich just happened one day before. i was sooo pisses cos i really like her.

So this is were shit gets tricky for me.... she was really nice after she told me she has a boyfriend and says she still wants to chill with me this weekend at my mountain when her boyfriend leaves and if he goes to a different mountain for some reason. Another factor is her really hot friend is going to be there with her and she fo sho liked me as of last weekend and i could prolly hook up with her but i dont have like as good as a personal connection with her as the main girl.

Soo.. uhh the question is do you think i should hook up with her friend and probebly make her upset and maybe loose the wierd connection like thing we have goin. ( i cant explain this really) Or should i wait for main girls boyfriend to leave and chill with her and if im all is going well maybe hook up even though she has a bf? I know that souds like a dick idea but theyv only been goin out like 4 days so it wouldent be a real big deal? Or should i wait for her bf to leave and just chill with her and maybe get her to dump him for me if things go well, wich they will cos we are amazing together? im not sure so please help me. Im 16 and shes 17 and her friends 18. And i know i know this should be in lm but ladies men in dead untill like 8 and im leaving in a few hours to go skiing so i need it quick. Thanks +k

Mar 6 2009 4:19PM
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Tinga
Posts: 11349 - Karma: 2,333
ditch it dude. hot friend bad move and hooking up with a girl that has a boy friend bad move. sorry dude.
Mar 6 2009 4:22PM
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TZA.
Posts: 1462 - Karma: 181
3some :O
Mar 6 2009 4:23PM
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SeanTom
Posts: 7936 - Karma: 1,747
+ 1
Mar 6 2009 4:24PM
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ski@jaypeak2
Posts: 2802 - Karma: 429
Forget the friend hit on the chick with the bf,  the bf is a smaller obstacle then the fact that the other girl is the first girls friend and she is 18 trust me come 5 months she is gonna want nothing with a 16 year old
Mar 6 2009 4:24PM
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yelsel
Posts: 12967 - Karma: 3,451
not worth the drama. find someone else. sorry man
Mar 6 2009 4:26PM
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Mike34113
Posts: 1088 - Karma: 112
join the cult ladies men its great for advice plus people will give you good answers and not just fuck around with you
Mar 6 2009 4:28PM
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Mr.Panda
Posts: 17711 - Karma: 564

i tried the hot friend thing...  didnt work out so well after the inital sex.  tried doing the hitting the girl that is involved, didnt work yet im best friends now with the guy said girl cheated on...  life can be weird sometimes.

Mar 6 2009 4:29PM
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Barefootin_Fiend
Posts: 7618 - Karma: 4,727
I think you should hook up with both of them. Clearly this is the best decision. Not to mention that you'd be the fucking man if you pulled that off.

Otherwise just go for the hot friend. That still leaves this other girl as an option later on down the road.
Mar 6 2009 4:29PM
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SKI-UH9
Posts: 157 - Karma: 10
ok thanks im thinking if i hook up with the main girls friend its not like im going to be being a dick and hurting her cos she got a boyfriend insted of me.. Right? And shes prolly going to be with this bf for awile cos she told me shes liked him for awile and the guy dumped his previous girl for her. Idk. thanks so far +k and seriously the girls friend is 2 years older but last weekend she wanted me so badd. I could tell
Mar 6 2009 4:31PM
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eheath
Posts: 61588 - Karma: 122,914
You sound 12, suck it up and penetrate the other beezy.
Mar 6 2009 4:33PM
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SKI-UH9
Posts: 157 - Karma: 10

Im 16 and i decided if the girls friend is all over me like last weekend i'll hook up with her and if shes not vibeing really good i'll just chill with the girl who has the boyfriend and see what happens. Good idea right?

Mar 6 2009 4:40PM
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horner
Posts: 2439 - Karma: 1,578
Let your man parts be your guide.  You're 16 years old, do whatever you want.  5 years from now, you'll look back on it and realize how insignificant this situation really is.
Mar 6 2009 4:41PM
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bout_it
Posts: 1233 - Karma: 17
this is the right choice.
Mar 6 2009 4:56PM
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Golden.
Posts: 233 - Karma: 52
badidea. sorry man. but if you have to go after one, get the friend. easier pickings. and plus, nobody cares about the "connection". just get laid.
Mar 6 2009 9:42PM
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Mr.Panda
Posts: 17711 - Karma: 564
very good point...

plus, at 16...  people have a connection with their significant other for what?  like 2 weeks and then they hate each other until they graduate and then walk the runway at graduation with each other.  im serious, shit like that happens....  just go get your dick wet.
Mar 6 2009 9:46PM
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pmw
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keep the weird connection
Mar 6 2009 9:54PM
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DBAKE
Posts: 3031 - Karma: 340
WOW dude all I have to say is holy FUCK, that is exactly Wat is happening to me except im 14 the girls are a year older then me and ya im gona be hooking up with her friend.  this is weird.
Mar 6 2009 10:48PM
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crazyfuck
Posts: 5968 - Karma: -7
i fucking love you, Drew. will you be my boyfriend?
Mar 6 2009 10:51PM
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jayo.
Posts: 5015 - Karma: 34
pee in ones but and bang the other one like a hammer
Mar 6 2009 10:58PM
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wnab21
Posts: 1313 - Karma: 18
pee in ones but, bang the other like the hammer, all while wearing a robe and wizard hat
Mar 6 2009 11:06PM
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HR8938Cephei
Posts: 1411 - Karma: 46
winner
Mar 6 2009 11:07PM
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El_Barto.
Posts: 11661 - Karma: 24,361
either go for her and tell her sorta BF to go fuck himself or ditch the entire seen and buy a bag instead
Mar 6 2009 11:20PM
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Kornn101
Posts: 3534 - Karma: 25
for REAL.
Mar 7 2009 12:01AM
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thisandthatfilms
Posts: 7714 - Karma: 526
fuck the robe.... throw on a G-SUIT NIKKAHHH
Mar 7 2009 12:05AM
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gbirrd
Posts: 1475 - Karma: 20

for real bud

go to the mountian ski for the day. talk with them have a good time and just see what happens. u might find out this friend of her is really better or u get a good connection with her. and maybe with the other girl something will happen also. so go and have fun and see what happens. then tell us

Mar 7 2009 12:05AM
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TZA.
Posts: 1462 - Karma: 181
hahah omg WINN
Mar 7 2009 12:28AM
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EvanMeyer
Posts: 3820 - Karma: 3,443
at least you can spell.
Mar 7 2009 12:43AM
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uni-corn
Posts: 13846 - Karma: 651
Slip her a note.

Do you like me?

yes   no

(circle one)


Do that because that is what all middle school fucks do.
Mar 7 2009 1:21AM
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*LiNeLover*
Posts: 1224 - Karma: 256
no offence, but that says alot about you if you wanna hook up with a girl who has a BF, and even more so, that says alot about her if she is going to hang out or hook up with you if she has a BF... if you think she is a cool girl and you like her and would like to possibly date her, then look at what she is doing to her BF and think if you would want to be put in that situation if you were her boyfriend, would you really want to worry if she is lying to you or waiting for you to not be in town so she can go hang out with other guys?? uhhh sketchy...

 but if you just want to "hook up" with some one then go for her friend because if all you care about is "hooking up" then you really dont like the "main girl" or care about her.. just my opionion. dont hate.
Mar 7 2009 1:50AM
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Bpaddock
Posts: 376 - Karma: 204
juss fuck the hotter bitch man.
Mar 7 2009 1:56AM
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Download-My-Apps
Posts: 5069 - Karma: 1,017
HAHA winner!
Mar 7 2009 2:01AM
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looneygeorge
Posts: 633 - Karma: 14
dude, depends what you mean by hooking up... I fucked a girl who had a boyfriend, the boyfriend found out and wanted to slay my ass - long story short:
I beat the shit out of him because he wanted to kill me, screw rules: fuck her.
Mar 7 2009 9:52AM
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jayo.
Posts: 5015 - Karma: 34
^claim
Mar 7 2009 10:03AM
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BestDamnSkier
Posts: 275 - Karma: 14
++K That made me lol. Go for her friend or else you'll be that guy that hooks up with other guy's girlfriends.
Mar 7 2009 12:33PM
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Cloud.
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Mar 7 2009 3:50PM
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TechnoPotamus
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nice user name haha
Mar 7 2009 4:11PM
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Snowgoner
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coolest person i've ever met. i wish i could be just like you
Mar 7 2009 5:21PM
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