Replying to Anyone who studied law or knows enough about it

so we made a video and put it up on facebook n it was a day of us skiing kinda videoblog style n at then end of the day we got in shit from an RA in our rez for having our stuff in the hallway. now the only thing in the video is her voice saying no put it in your room. and then later in the video blog part of it we say shes a bitch. but she is never identified and her face is never shown. now there charging us harassing behavior towards a residents staff cuz they saw the video. now besides freedom of opinion i need something i can say like it doesnt show her face or identify her therefore its not harasment like something like that, basically i need to know if theres anyloop hole so i cant say its not harasment