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Well when i was between 13-16 i mean we would laugh at people who fell but we wouldnt talk shit to them and such. when i was a kid i had mad respect for people older than me like i viewed them as superiors.
But to whoever mentioned the thing about younger kids being more rude i havent really noticed that here, but maybe thats because im in canada i dont know. im a swimming instructor and i have taught hundreds of kids and i can pretty much remember every one of them that i wanted to drop on their head because they were cocky. most of the kids were really chill and if they werent they were the whiners that were like I DONT WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAANAAAAAAA
I work as a teaching assitstant in one of the high schools in my area and man... what a difference. I only graduated 6 years ago, but to see the change from then to now is crazy. I think a huge problem is the lack of authority both teachers and even parents have over their kids. When I was in elementry school it was legit to be afraid of pissing off your teachers because they could do something about it. Now kids pretty much have the freedom to negotiate with their elders and decide what's right and wrong for them. The whole system is complacent and holds firmly on to the idea of "what's right for you and what's right for me might be different and that's ok" and kids are taking serious advantage of it. Since when do 10 year olds know what is what is right and what is wrong? Don't get me started on parents. Ha ha. It scares the crap out of me to think in 20-30 years these kids are going to be running our countries and determining how society works.
Sorry for the rant.
when i was 15, me and my friends started to go out. but we were at home surely before 1 or 2 and just stood around in a corner hoping that noone older notices us. we wore old or cheap jackets (what i still do when going to a club) and drank a little but not to much. we knew that we were not old enough to get real drunk and we all become good guys...
and now, there are 12/13 yr old people jumping around on the dancefloor with their parents-bought quiksilver jackets, too drunk to notice anything but still try to fight anyone. i dunno how much cases of "teenie+alcohol=night in hospital OR grave" were in the national papers this year.
they are just out of control in my opinion, their parents just do not care like mine did. i hope this thing gets right back in track
I definitely believe it's the lack of corporal punishment and over-emphasis on tolerance and sympathy that is killing our kids. I don't mean tolerance like Gay, ethnic, or shit like that. I mean the vapid Politically Correct tolerance, like if a kid is busy lighting cats on fire, teachersa and parents will say "Oh, he's just acting out." instead of dealing with the problem by punishment or teaching. We have gotten into the habit of non-confrontation in everything, and kids don't learn that way. Also, have you noticed school is getting dumber? I know kids in the U of U that can't do long division, or are in Algebra 101 - you know, the stuff you were supposed to learn in 6th grade?
Reading is thrown out the window in English Classes, Math is dumbed down to accomodate those not good with numbers, Hell, my Science classes didn't even have labs, and PE now includes Dance Dance REvolution and they threw out the mile!!!! NO JOKE!!! Everywhere else in the world, England, China, Saudi Arabia, kids are getting an Education. In America, we get a mandatory Baby Sitting. There's a reason why we're being overtaken as a society, a culture, and a world power by everyone else in the world.
As for kids swearing, I swore some as a kid. I wouldn't say every other word, but def. a little. It's a rite of passage for kids because it's a taboo. Parents don't want you to do it, so you rebel. It's just human nature. If they're still doing it in a couple of years, then you should be worried. Otherwise, just be better than them, and they'll catch on to your attitude and ability. The way to get them to stop is not to kick their asses, but show them that it's just not what the best people do.
its true, im 16 and i notice kids that swear way too much
im not saying i dont swear but only if im really happy or pissed off. other wise i just hate it when kids use swears more than vowels
The biggest part of it is the way that parents raise their kids. Keep in mind that I'm only 17 but old enough to make my own personal decisions and know what is right and wrong.
From a really young age I was taught to say "please" and "thank you." My Dad likes to cuss but my Mom always told me that just because he did it, didn't mean that I had and that I shouldn't. If you want your kids to grow up to be respectful then take the TV out of the house and teach them the right way. You don't have to beat the kid because they say fuck, you just have to teach them.
i jsut graduated from high school this year..wait last year now...all the other grades were little shits, swearing, doing drugs, saying the had freaking sex in grade 8...the teachers even agreed, most are going to be super stressed from now on as well, won't be good
Parents have jsut become lazy or do the whole 9 - 6 or 7 job so they don't ahve times for their kids anymore, they do wahtever there kid wants and they grow up jsut to be litle punks, bring back the cane or soemthing lol