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Is this bad, what i kinda did?
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so, umm this chick, that i like, that likes me has a boyfriend already right. so anyway we were coming home from mt. baker cause of xc (8 hr. drive) and anywho, lss we did shit i wouldnt want my girlfriend to do with another guy.
im thinking its her bad, and kinda mine.
but whatever, +k for good anssweres
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honestly, i would say you should think things through a little more before you do them. you have been making threads recently questioning your morality. if you think weight the pros and cons a bit more before following through on them, then i think you will find yourself in a better position... my 2 cents.
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here's how i see it....
1.) you gave into temptation. i can't blame you, if she was pushing for it or willing as she obviously must have been then its hard to say no. while its not the right thing to do, you're only human, and everybody makes mistakes. everybody makes a lot of mistakes....that's life man. making mistakes, and learning from them.
2.) she let it happen. i'm sure it isn't the first time a guy has flirted with her or like made a move and tested the waters with her but she probably hadn't given in before. she made a mistake as well, and in my opinion it is up to her to tell her boyfriend about it if she chooses to. If she does tell him, or if he finds out, do not be surprised if you have to deal with a very angry person who probably will want to hurt you.
so what do you do?
- you learn from this experience, hopefully next time you will think with your head and not your dick and you will realize the consequences that could result from you doing that are probably not worth the pleasure you might get. while it will be hard to do that in the moment, at least you'll have been the before and be able to think it thru a little better. So i hope that kid doesn't come after you, or if he does that you have good interpersonal skills and can work it out instead of getting in a fight. Just think it out man, that's all you can do. But don't let it kill ya, it happened. its over with. move on.
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are they married?
if no then fuck that kid you didnt do anything wrong. shit happened. it happens. god doesnt hate you. roll with it cause its like god and everything. you dont want to go against his judgment now do you?
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come clean about it?
maybe he will be ok
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hahah, why would he be ok with it
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dude, girls are like hockey teams, just because they have a goalie doesn't mean you can't score.
if you don't really know the other dude go for it.
or just stick to my mantra and only go for girls with boyfriends so you never have to worry about them calling you back.
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haha thats funny
but i it was my girlfriend i would be pissed, id break up with her, and if he did know she had a boyfriend before you hooked up then id beat his ass.
but i guess theres nobody to blame but the guy for not satisfying her sexual appetite, some girls are just horny and need to have that taken care of more often than others
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If you know him, bad. Best friends? realllly bad. not at all? your fine.
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if he gets all bitchy about it just say she knocked you out and raped you
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what's this girls name charmander?
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What school are you from?
Cause my school was at that meet I believe...
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im from west valley, from spokane.
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oh, and for the record, what happenned wasnt very bad at all, its was just not real cool beings as she already had the boyfriend and all.
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Seriously? Is the dude your homey? If he isn't, fuck him.
Are you in highschool? If you are, give yourself a break....you'll make far worse decisions in which your ethics are compromised much further in the future.
This sort of comes across like a huge claim thread..."I'm such the man that this chick with a boyfriend was willing to throw it all way to hook up with me..but I'll frame it in the context of having a moral dilemma to not come across as a d-bag."
Sorry for the hate...this is just my general distaste for the majority of your posts shining through in a debatably inappropriate fashion.
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wow, no one even came close to calling this a claim thread until you did.
it does raise an eyebrow now, but charmander is in highschool.
and charmander, dude, if you dig the girl, and don't care much for the boyfriend its fine. Just remember she's now prone to cheating... if you call making out cheating. but I've noticed that girls that mess up for you are the best because they realized they messed up with the last guy and don't want to do that again.
lower your morality a bit here and you'll be fine, because honestly, I'm in my 4th year of college, and relationships still don't mean anything unless you're in a hurry for marriage, and i'm years away from that.
don't sweat the small stuff.
and wear a rubber.
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I completely disagree. Anyone who cheats, male or female, is prone to do so again.
I find that people who cheat are constantly looking at what else is available...or wonder if they could do better.
If you have a chick that you hooked up with you while she was dating someone else, and you believe that she wouldn't do you the same way if something better came along...well you're either incredibly naive or foolish...maybe both.
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I'd say nice work. If she was wanting to "do shit" with you then you is like well cool and shit.
I wish girls would do shit with me. I'm so lonely,
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I think it's funny how people ask NS about moral issues.
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maybe bulbasaur or pikachu?
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no big deal. shit happens all the time. if she was hot there is nothing to regret
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You have some pretty good reasoning there.
Keep in mind that if the girl is wililng to cheat on her boyfriend with you, if anything were to happen and they broke up and you got together, it's very possible she'd do the same to you.
PS.
ITS SNOWING RIGHT NOW
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thank you, and i agree with what you said. if she did it to him, she'd do it to you
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wait do you have a girlfriend? if not, it's no biggie but if you do then i think you should just tell your girlfriend that you made a mistake and it meant nothing and it would never happen again
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my friend, we will call him robert, hooked up with this girl who had a bf back home. This girl then told said boyfriend that she had hooked up with robert, and boyfriend sent bob a message on facebook saying that he knew that bob had hooked up with her and if he touched her again he would drive up to utah and kick his ass. robert was not phased, because he rolls deep with 9's and shit, but he responded to this joker that he was getting mad at the wrong person. He should be pissed at his girlfriend for doing what she did not at the guy, who was just doing what he was made to do, slay bitches. no response from said boyfriend. rob did not know they were still dating and the girl did nothing to make him think she was. clearly the girls fault and bob should not be blamed.
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