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aoe
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me + money problems + (x)gf problems + school problems + lack of motivation + dreams of doing something better in life = constant depression and stress. anyone else feel like life is fucking them over? this shit has been going on fo a while now and i cant deal with shit anymore. anyone ever tried st johns wart or other herbal depression meds or anything?





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Nov 1 2003 11:09PM
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Ds91260
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ive had good results with marijuana, but the key not no stress is easy, dont stress, let things go as they go, its easy once you let go





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Nov 1 2003 11:10PM
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aoe
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^ very true. but letting go of everthing is like getting your dick chopped off. its been with you so long you cant imagine living without it





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Nov 1 2003 11:12PM
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Nov 1 2003 11:12PM
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SkeeOrDye
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well, yeah, pot is great for it. well if u r still in hs, just think you got your life ahead of u to sort shit out, thats what i do, well i do both. first one is more fun though. just have fun, thats what lifes about right?
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Nov 1 2003 11:18PM
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aoe
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hs is a joke. collage is where shit really matters.





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Nov 1 2003 11:20PM
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Swirly999
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can't you get like grey hair and even lose your hair from chronic stress.



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our lives, but they'll never take our freedom?!
Nov 1 2003 11:30PM
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aoe
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wouldnt doubt it





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Nov 1 2003 11:31PM
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Itsbackfliptime
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yeah i have a lot of problems. I try to just let it go. It makes me happy for a little while.

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Nov 1 2003 11:33PM
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aoe
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yeah. i try to let stuff go but alot of it comes back. mostly financial and women trouble





'well it looks like we fucked up and killed the only son of god because we're fucking gay like gay porn'
Nov 1 2003 11:41PM
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Itsbackfliptime
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yeah women suck. But they rule so much at the same time.

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Nov 1 2003 11:44PM
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mattster
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yeah i feel the same as u man ecpt for some reson i keep worying over my parents divorce shit and i keep getting these lawers and social workers that the corts hierd cause my dad is fucking bent on proving that my mom is providing terrible living conditons but i dont and this shit sucks ass cause we have like no money i was sposta go get my skis yesterday but my mom had to fucking work so she could support the house and shit FUCK !
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Nov 1 2003 11:57PM
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Anson
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its cuz its fall, and not winter. everything seems better under snow. even the chicks are hotter
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Nov 2 2003 12:00AM
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Lateralis
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aoe, i got the exact same problems as you man, finally someone with the exact same shit, i fucken hate it, i am gettin grey hair now too for real, and i always have pain in my chest where my heart and stress can affect that shit too, it can be really serious but its so fucken hard to get rid of


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Nov 2 2003 2:27AM
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Sk3bUm
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the most simple solution is to set a date up with rosey palm... she can make all the stress go away
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Nov 2 2003 2:34AM
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Lateralis
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no the easiest way is to get rid of it is to say goodbye to the girl problems, thats the worst and i gladly did that yesterday


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Nov 2 2003 12:01PM
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MistaSkier
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Yeah, I've had a lot of stress and shit for the last year. It can really ruin everything, cause it makes you bitchy like a little girl, then your friends hate you, and all that shit. And I've had a spot of grey hair on the back of my head since first grade. It's pretty cool, but people always think I got something in my hair, when it's actually my hair.


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Nov 2 2003 12:38PM
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aoe
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yeah your definatly right. the girl problems are the worst. and the bad thing is mine is kinda unfixable. like when your dating someone that your not totally into, and your thinking about your last relationship that you fucked up and shes moved on but your still mad about her... yeah





'well it looks like we fucked up and killed the only son of god because we're fucking gay like gay porn'
Nov 2 2003 1:37PM
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blind_five
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You gotta sit back and think... 'Why should I let all this shit run my life... I'm gonna fucking take my life back.' Then just do it. Money shouldn't really matter unless you're living in a box in an alley. Money stresses people out when they compare how much they have with someone else who has more (a lot more). Unless the girl has a gun to your head or your balls in a vice, you can pretty much just leave her on the sidelines. Unless, of course, you're trying to get her back. But if so, don't wallow.

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Nov 2 2003 1:39PM
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SkeeOrDye
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by money problems, i think he means he owes people, like credit card or drug dealer, that shit will come back to your and cant be ignored.
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Nov 2 2003 2:39PM
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blind_five
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Ohhhh...

The leg breaking kind of money problems...

Well, he's SOL I guess...

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Nov 2 2003 3:09PM
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i hate cats.

my post was going to be differant but then my intelligent comment was taken away by my blasted short term memory. dang and blasted, FO REAL>FIDDY NUTS IN YOU MOUTH>LIKE A COW/for 1 hour/on sundays.
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Nov 2 2003 6:59PM
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Crystal-needs-a-park
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just shoot yourself, thats waht i did and it worked great.... whats that smell?
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Nov 2 2003 7:03PM
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Blue_Ice
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Hey dude, don't smoke pot. It'll make u feel good for a while but it can actually lead to depression and anxiety in the long run. So, if u're already stressed it aint gunna be good for ya.
Try listening to some good music and really absorb urself in it. Doing that can be a pretty good form of meditation. Exercise is a good stress reliever too, so have a ski or go for a run (do whatever u like). When you're stressed your immune system becomes suppressed, which means u're more likely to pick up colds and stuff. ..so make sure u eat good healthy food too and try to sleep enough.
All stress passes sooner or later, so just try and manage it the best way u can for the time being.
I study psych, so know heaps about stress...if u want any more advice just give me a yell :)
Nov 2 2003 8:58PM
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P-JO
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Did you try heavily drinking??

Simpsons - 'Alcohol, the cause and solution to lifes problems'




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Nov 2 2003 9:08PM
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skierdudeguy
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i am going to get clowned hugely, but i dont care. i just went to a church retreat. when i left, i considered myself religious. i realize, that i was not nearly as religious as i thought. i feel so good no, after this weekend, its amazing. i literally feel like a new person. if you havent already done so, i advise that you try and find god. before i left i was messed up, and i pretty much hated life. i feel GOOD now. it hasnt been this way since like 6th grade. now at least i feel good, and im loving it. find god. thats all i can say
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yeah this one time, I got really wasted, and took the most violent shit ever. serious. my ass and I fought for most of the night, but in the end I was vitorious, until that back stabber attacked after our treaty, and i had to get new boxers - lineskier03

just stand closer to the explosion. it will make it seem biggger.-aoe
Nov 2 2003 11:20PM
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skierdudeguy
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i feel so good now, not no
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yeah this one time, I got really wasted, and took the most violent shit ever. serious. my ass and I fought for most of the night, but in the end I was vitorious, until that back stabber attacked after our treaty, and i had to get new boxers - lineskier03

just stand closer to the explosion. it will make it seem biggger.-aoe
Nov 2 2003 11:21PM
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Crystal-needs-a-park
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god is an excuse
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you bettter still have my jagermeister shirt, or I'll fucking drive a train through your anus. – jibtech
numbers are for jewish investment bankers - sleezemcfly
Somedays I like it crunchy, other days I take it up the ass! - Lanemeyers
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Nov 2 2003 11:43PM
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for what?
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yeah this one time, I got really wasted, and took the most violent shit ever. serious. my ass and I fought for most of the night, but in the end I was vitorious, until that back stabber attacked after our treaty, and i had to get new boxers - lineskier03

just stand closer to the explosion. it will make it seem biggger.-aoe
Nov 2 2003 11:45PM
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Crystal-needs-a-park
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what do you need an excuse for?
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you bettter still have my jagermeister shirt, or I'll fucking drive a train through your anus. – jibtech
numbers are for jewish investment bankers - sleezemcfly
Somedays I like it crunchy, other days I take it up the ass! - Lanemeyers
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Nov 2 2003 11:47PM
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F5*
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I believe in God, God is the best, religion is fucked up.




'Kristi, your ass is so fine, im going to quit skiing just to fuck you' JF Cusson in blunt trailer
Nov 2 2003 11:52PM
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Crystal-needs-a-park
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why
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you bettter still have my jagermeister shirt, or I'll fucking drive a train through your anus. – jibtech
numbers are for jewish investment bankers - sleezemcfly
Somedays I like it crunchy, other days I take it up the ass! - Lanemeyers
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Nov 2 2003 11:54PM
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F5*
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I believe in God, thats my own belief. But religion is messed up, over the years it has been corrupted and changed. It is a fact becuase the church is run by people, and no one is perfect and everyone is flawed. Look at the ministers that were raping the alter boys.




'Kristi, your ass is so fine, im going to quit skiing just to fuck you' JF Cusson in blunt trailer
Nov 3 2003 12:16AM
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Crystal-needs-a-park
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no whats your proof of god
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you bettter still have my jagermeister shirt, or I'll fucking drive a train through your anus. – jibtech
numbers are for jewish investment bankers - sleezemcfly
Somedays I like it crunchy, other days I take it up the ass! - Lanemeyers
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Nov 3 2003 12:19AM
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newschooler14
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damn sounds like a bunch of us all have the same problems. I owe a bunch of money so i never ever have money of my own, i am going to court in a week and ill lose my liscense for ski season, plus lawyer fees and $800 ticket. I have to go again on nov. 25 for some other shit that will be a lot of $ too. I have got some girl troubles that are out of my hands and I have to live in WI which generally all around sucks.
What keeps me going is just think about what you can be doing a year or two from now. I just think about in two years or so ill hopefully be living somewhere with much better skiing and all these money and legal troubles will all be over and hopefully ill forget about this girl. Smoking tons of pot is helping me out too though

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Nov 3 2003 10:44PM
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SomeSkiGirl
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aoe, are you in college? If so you should go see a dr, especially if you have health coverage, they can get you on meds that will brighten your day
Nov 3 2003 10:52PM
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Detective
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Pick up your fucking droopy lip and get your shit together. Your stressed cuz you feel like your not making it to some level you should be at...so go fucking do it. Suck up that saucy vagina and do whatever it is you need to do. And when it's all done, things will go good and you'll be happy again.

If anyone knows that things can go wrong in a millasecond and can seem to really fucking suck it's me. But without the sour, you can't appreciate the sweet. So go make it sweet.
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Nov 4 2003 1:30AM
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aoe
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SomeSkiGirl yeah im in university. maybe I will go see a doctor. shits getting pretty heavy. maybe they'll give me some of the good neuron blocking stuff i hear about.





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Nov 4 2003 7:43AM
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Lanemeyers
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Dr.'s are all too prepared to prescribe meds these days.... I suggest you try and adjust your lifestyle first before taking pharmaceuticals. Smoking weed just makes me depressed in the mornings, great for relaxing and postponing depressing feelings though.... Just makes the mornings worse though, which I find the hardest part. It's easier to look at everything negatively as opposed to positively. You sort of have to kick your self in the ass, and get fired up.... Detective makes a good point about it. Get yourself out of this rut and throw down. You'll work your way out of the financial probs. Same with the chick problems. What is your family situation like? That has been the biggest crutch for me, the support from my Mom and Dad....

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Nov 4 2003 7:58AM
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aoe
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my familys really supportive. especially with the money problems. on top of university i owe about 5g and they managed to front me the money and told me not to let it worry me i can pay it back as i have the money. most of the stuff i have to deal with on my own though





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Nov 4 2003 8:01AM
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manus
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plain and simple, stay away from drugs and alcohol, while they will make you feel invincible for a while, they will in fact make everything worse.

Take some time to yourself, don't concern yourself with a gf right now, take some times to find yourself and define who you actually are. If you can do this a new gf will find you.

Set small goals, and meet them. Even if you don't complete your goals on time, get them done. It will help to give you a sence of accomplishing something, just be realistic and don't set major long term goals.

As far as money goes, set up a plan to get out of debt (or any other money troubles) be realistic, and set up a long-term plan that you can stick to.

A good thing to keep in mind is something I was told the first time I hiked a mountain, in by inch you make it a sinch, yard by yard you make it hard. Take things in little steps and they will get better.

And most importantly, do not be affraid to ask for help from friends and family, the ones that truly matter will be there through thick and thin.
Nov 4 2003 10:52AM
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SomeSkiGirl
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in addition to the meds, if you talk to someone - and there are usually lots of counseling and peer support staff at a university -it can also help (in addition to or in place of meds). If you want, I'll listen too.
Nov 5 2003 3:26AM
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