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Gf is breaking up with me

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Tanner-D
Posts: 2061 - Karma: 4,116

I feel like shit i really really liked her. I feel so bad i dont even want to ski. what is wrong with me
sorry for sobbing to you guys jsut need some advice this is my first big break up

Aug 1 2008 3:35AM
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garrett.
Posts: 9304 - Karma: 3,670
ladies men.. if it really is over and there is nothing you can do about it, stay really active to keep your mind off it
Aug 1 2008 3:37AM
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-kk
Posts: 28 - Karma: 19
yeah, try not to sit at home and stuff.  just get out and chill with your friends.  there's no easy way out, but just don't sit by yourself.  your mind wont stop thinking about it.
Aug 1 2008 3:38AM
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Tanner-D
Posts: 2061 - Karma: 4,116
she made out with another guy and is breaking up with me
i wouldnt have even broken up with her because i realize people fuck up
i really would still like to be going out with her
Aug 1 2008 3:39AM
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messplay
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sorry man.
Aug 1 2008 3:42AM
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JamesR
Posts: 3396 - Karma: -12
    if you really feel that bad my best advice is to go outside and do something active(wait until tomorrow for that  i just realized its late) it will take your mind off her/the break up and physical activity just makes you feel great in general. good luck man just remember that even if it seems serious now, in the long run youll be fine. it could just be setting you up to find an even better girl.
Aug 1 2008 3:42AM
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Tanner-D
Posts: 2061 - Karma: 4,116
apparently there's more that i dont know
Aug 1 2008 3:44AM
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JamesR
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i dont really get it. she made out with some guy, so shes breaking up with you? sounds like some sort of lame excuse. Its easy to get attached, especially if its your first serious relationship but from what ive read, youre better off without her. cliche thing to say i know, but it looks to be true
Aug 1 2008 3:53AM
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Tanner-D
Posts: 2061 - Karma: 4,116
I want to do something about it but she is stubborn
Aug 1 2008 3:55AM
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KJones
Posts: 410 - Karma: 10
well you should try to find out what the more is. but in time you will get over her and realize there are other girls for you. it takes time, but just try to keep it out of your mind. dont sit around by yourself cause then all you will do is think about her. Good Luck man!
Aug 1 2008 4:00AM
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Tanner-D
Posts: 2061 - Karma: 4,116
thanks karma plus for everyone
Aug 1 2008 4:07AM
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Dr.Seuss
Posts: 758 - Karma: 16
That's pretty shitty dude, but you should definitely not waste any time during the day feeling sorry for yourself, because you will just think about her and about how she's probably out with friends and stuff. Just go out, have fun, and be a drunken slut. It's always hardest for the first few days, but it will get better.
Keep yo' head up homeskittle.
Aug 1 2008 4:10AM
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JamesR
Posts: 3396 - Karma: -12

k back at you and just dont forget to enjoy life. sometimes in moments like yours ,from my experience, you learn to appreciate the smaller/simpler things.

Aug 1 2008 4:12AM
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Tanner-D
Posts: 2061 - Karma: 4,116
well   i  am going to mammoth to bike tommorw
Aug 1 2008 4:12AM
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Swampy
Posts: 547 - Karma: 73
Word man, also try and go after other chicks you'll forget about her in a jiffy.  Plus from what I gather she sounds like a bitch, sorry dude.
Aug 1 2008 4:15AM
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g.muelheims
Posts: 457 - Karma: 110
dang that blows man. sorry to hear that
Aug 1 2008 4:24AM
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Alex_G
Posts: 11902 - Karma: 1,019
I know you feel horrible right now, but start bumpin that Dr. Dre right about now. Especally the album they call "The Chronic". Especially the song called "Bitches Ain't Shit". That's all I got to say dude, everything will end up fine bro.
Aug 1 2008 4:24AM
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Tanner-D
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hs this should be the official gf support thread
Aug 1 2008 4:32AM
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kiwi_as
Posts: 421 - Karma: 189
just follow her around all the time, watch from a distance. hiding in bushes and that sort of thing. chicks luv it when you do that. 7% of the time it works all the time
Aug 1 2008 4:33AM
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Tanner-D
Posts: 2061 - Karma: 4,116

maybe i will try that hahaha

Aug 1 2008 4:36AM
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sick-as-aids
Posts: 3453 - Karma: 1,007
dude wev all been there. i had a gf cheat on me once and it sucked so bad and i was so mad and down about it. but its like a year later and i really culdnt give a shit, a couple of days after i was getting used to the idea. it may not seem like it now but ull get over it, just ride it out
Aug 1 2008 4:50AM
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Franny
Posts: 3980 - Karma: 77
Buy something really nice like an iphone or new skis. That will brighten your day.
Aug 1 2008 7:28AM
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Silence
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best port of call.
Aug 1 2008 7:28AM
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Dylan_
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don't waste you're time she seems like a bitch ( sorry)
just go out with friends and do active things it deffinatly is a shitty feeling but once you're doing other things hanging out with other girls you'll relize you're having fun and you'll forget out her
Aug 1 2008 8:51AM
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charmander
Posts: 10636 - Karma: 370
hey man, i feel ya, just happenned to me, well sorta, differrent circumstances though, id say just go chill with some friends, smoke some nice ganj, watch some movies, go bikikng, go run, draw, listen to upbeat music etc.
Aug 1 2008 9:35AM
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natedogg789435
Posts: 1177 - Karma: 9
sounds like shes not really worth it. been there before
Aug 1 2008 9:55AM
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ChadThundercock
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i would feel the exact same way man, i really feel for you...

Aug 1 2008 10:28AM
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freestyler540
Posts: 13083 - Karma: 18,725
C'mon, lets get shitfaced
Aug 1 2008 10:31AM
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MESKI
Posts: 942 - Karma: 220
dont dread on it man, youll be alright in no time. it sucks bad at first but youll be good in no time. if shes cheated on you already dont even think about trying to work things out cause if you did work things out shell most likely do it again. Best of just gong your seperate ways. just try not to sulk around cause itll make you think about it too much. try to get out with friends and do some stuff. good luck with it man.
Aug 1 2008 10:34AM
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NICK.VT
Posts: 178 - Karma: 10

hire a bunch of hookers to take nude pictures with you and send them to your girlfriend.
don't know what that would prove but it would be fun.

Aug 1 2008 10:51AM
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Ryno
Posts: 31125 - Karma: 336
How old are you?
Aug 1 2008 10:54AM
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-Tristan-
Posts: 915 - Karma: 19
Thats what I was just about to ask, as soon as I read this. As much as it hurts, we've all been there. You'll just end up stronger for it. I feel like if you are under 20 at all though, this might be a bit of an exaggeration.
Aug 1 2008 11:10AM
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HeartBeatFaster
Posts: 723 - Karma: 26
It's a slap in the face when that happens but like the others have said, stay busy, chill with your best bros and have a good time. There are many fish in the sea...
Aug 1 2008 11:52AM
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Franny
Posts: 3980 - Karma: 77
You know what you do. Hire a stripper or a hot escort and pretend to go out with her with your ex seeing whats happening. That would drive her crazy.
Aug 1 2008 12:00PM
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gbrunch
Posts: 115 - Karma: -7

ur a pussy

Aug 1 2008 12:57PM
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-kk
Posts: 28 - Karma: 19
wow you're an ass ^
Aug 1 2008 2:03PM
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Reed.S
Posts: 1126 - Karma: 10
i would never ever EVER say no to skiing after that but thats just me
Aug 1 2008 2:35PM
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Barefootin_Fiend
Posts: 7618 - Karma: 4,727
I don't know if this has been said or not but sleep with lots of random chicks...then go kick it with your homies and have a good time...your xgf will be outta your mind in no time....

Aug 1 2008 5:05PM
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RICK_ROSS
Posts: 6983 - Karma: 3,343
haha,

dude your young, thell be another girl and if not you allways have your right hand
Aug 1 2008 5:26PM
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gbrunch
Posts: 115 - Karma: -7
grow a pair pussi.
Aug 1 2008 5:29PM
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Aaaron.
Posts: 11817 - Karma: 903
karma to the ground...
Aug 1 2008 5:33PM
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gbrunch
Posts: 115 - Karma: -7
suckaD
Aug 1 2008 5:38PM
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smooticus
Posts: 1798 - Karma: 27
Dude, im going to give you some good advice. Theres a problem with women, all they do is fuck with your mind, they mindfuck you.  I would say fuck her dude, i mean obviosly you like her but if shes gonna fuck wit you then dont try to hard if she changes her mind then so be it. But for now fuck bitches get money
Aug 1 2008 5:44PM
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[~_~]
Posts: 20239 - Karma: 1,273
I didn't really read what your problem is but I'm almost positive getting a puppy will solve all your problems.
Aug 1 2008 5:52PM
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Aaaron.
Posts: 11817 - Karma: 903
hahaha TRUTH
get a golden doodle
they are aweeesssome
Aug 1 2008 6:05PM
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kob_21
Posts: 30 - Karma: 10
thats shitty. i haven't been in that situation but im sure it sucks. but yeah if you wanna forget about her go out with your friends and lay your mack down lol. lots of fish in the sea bruda
Aug 1 2008 6:11PM
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