Replying to Speeding ticket...fuuuuuck

coming home from VT in Mass i got lasered goin 86 in a 65.....$210...

this is my second ticket that ive gotten in Mass....and im from ct

my question is, is there anyway i can get around this bitch without my parents finding out?
is there any thing different cause im from another state?

i've heard insurance wont find out if no points are involved, and ct doesnt have a point system?

any advice besides 'slow down' would be much appreciated