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Sex more fun for girls than it is for guys?

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Yauch
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I heard that for girls sex is alot more enjoyable then for guys. This is kind of wierd to think. But it was somthing about how they get alot more endorphins from their orgasm and it lasts like much longer or something.  maybe some girls are like a sex addicts or something i dont know.. what do you guys think
Apr 25 2008 7:20PM
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liukangkid
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people can easily answer that question
Apr 26 2008 9:45AM
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Shpadoinkle
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No, you can't. Every experiences pleasure differently. Men's brains and women's brains are very different.
Apr 26 2008 8:32PM
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rudager
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calm down, the average penis size is only 4 and a half inches.



and to make girls orgasms sound more intense, the VAG!! can clamp down on a dick during orgasm
Apr 26 2008 8:59PM
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DudeAbides
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hhahaha your fucked man. just awful.
Apr 26 2008 9:04PM
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theJIBmastaaaa
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I wouldn't mind.



No homo.
Apr 26 2008 9:07PM
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johnnypsunami
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she's right. Womens brain's are much smaller for example, and they lack the neurons that allow you to be good drivers and spot douchebag guys.
Apr 26 2008 9:10PM
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Shpadoinkle
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Spot on, ole' chap, spot on.
Apr 26 2008 9:18PM
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comeatmebro
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hahhaahahahah so true. soooooo trueeee


but seriously...girls definitely do i mean have you ever just watched their face having sex. you're just like jesus christ i'm just standing here doin alright and she is down there in god damn heaven. (ironic eh?) so yeah...girls ftw
Apr 26 2008 9:35PM
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bigolrig
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true fact.

Apr 27 2008 9:06AM
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NoTeefa
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I will attempt to anwser the original question.
Yes, its true (and yes they can actually measure these things). Women have longer lasting and more intense orgasms.
But the statment "yes, its true" is a generalization and depens on many conditions. First we have to assume that both the male and female actually achieve orgasm. Many women don't have their first orgasm until their mid to late 20's and early 30's ( which is why all the dude magazines like stuff and maxim tell you to go after older women. They are simply more sexually enlightened.)
Now you guys might be thinking "all the girls I've slept with have had orgasms". Well you have to realize that the younger women that are capable of attaining orgasms have a shitload more sex than the population of young women that can't, because it feels really good for them. Now, how do you guys feel when you have sex and don't cum?? Its really frustrating isn't it? Imagine if you knew that having sex was going to make you frustrated with yourself. It kinda kills your libido.
Now I've only dated one chick that couldn't orgasm. I actually dated her twice, back in high school when we were seventeen, and we got back together for a fling recently at the age of 24. Well when she couldn't orgasm back in high school I just assumed that it was my fault because I didn't know what I was doing. Now I KNOW that I know what I'm doing in bed, and when we slept together a few times recently she still couldn't orgasm. So I asked her about it, and she revealed to me that she's never had an orgasm in her life.

So to anwser your question. For the women who are capable of orgasm (especially simultaneous clitoral and gspot orgasms) sex is far more pleasurable than for us, BUT for a lot of the women (especially the younger ones that you guys are going after) sex can be a frustrating experience.
This is why it seems like some girls are really into sex, while others couldn't care less.


I'm curious if any females disagree with what I've said.
Apr 27 2008 9:45AM
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NoTeefa
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I'd just like to add something
If there's any women reading this that are sexually active, but have never had an orgasm, here's a little tip. MASTURBATION! pull your conservative head out of your ass and give it a try! No guy has a fucking magic key to unlock you and make you scream like a pornstar. You have to figure it out for yourself. If you can't make yourself cum then no guy can either.
There is a signifigant amount of literature on the subject of female masturbation. I'm sure there's even a Female Masturbation for Dummies book out on the market. Seriously though, if you're willing to experiment there's thousand of different products available to help you. Vibrators, stimulatory creams, aphrodesiacs, etc...
Apr 27 2008 9:55AM
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snwbrdmilf
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I don't disagree with you. But I do have a question now. So...if it's so much more enjoyable or a woman, then why are guys the ones who are such horn dogs? Because they don't get as much out of it, they want it more?
Apr 27 2008 10:04AM
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NoTeefa
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Well I don't know for sure. My belief is that its part chemical or hormonal but mostly cultural. These days women are raised and taught to not be the agressor. Women are trained to wait for Mr. Dreamy to come sweep them off their feet.
Also us guys get random boners all the time, even if we're not thinking about sex. Do women get randomly wet? Do your clits swell every once in while for no particular reason?
Those are serious questions, please anwser if you don't mind talking about this stuff.
Apr 27 2008 10:13AM
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Dylan_
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get a vagina, chop off you're dick and have you're boyfriend stick in in you're gooch, bitch
Apr 27 2008 10:26AM
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snwbrdmilf
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See, I don't think woman get horny as easily as men do. Like you said, you can get a random boner. Girls I think need something in order to trigger the hornies. While a girl may 'be horny' - she's not going to get wet unless stimulated.
Apr 27 2008 10:29AM
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Twinjibber77
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Theres enough females on NS, lets tart a study!!!!
Apr 27 2008 10:35AM
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NoTeefa
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I hope you're not talking to me.

I just watched something about a study where they gave women testosterone, and they reported having more intense orgasms. So the people who conducted this study hypothesized that MEN actually have the more intense orgasms.
This goes against another study that I read about where the endorphin levels in the males and females were actually measured during sex.
I think the main point to consider which nobody can really dispute is that in general men need to stop and rest after orgasm, whereas women can have sequential orgasms.
The time it takes to recharge varies from guy to guy. For me its about an hour, maybe longer, however, my old roommate claimed that when he came he wouldn't actually get soft. So after orgasm he would just change the condom and jump back in, he claimed that he has had 4-5 orgasms in a session before. 
Apr 27 2008 10:52AM
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Dylan_
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noo^ im talking to yauch the annoying fuck
Apr 27 2008 10:56AM
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snwbrdmilf
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Ok, so what about the many different kinds of positions. Women are the ones I believe who have to be more flexible. They get into more 'pretzely' positions, changing the different depths and angles. While they could have their leg up on your shoulder or wrapped around your back, you still seem to just be pumping. What does changing positions actually do for the male? What gets heightened?
Apr 27 2008 11:08AM
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Liam.Butler
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I don't know this one time I was to baked and I was about to throw up, and I think I experienced the female orgasm. My girl friend says thats not how it feels, I explained it to her but she don't know shit.
Apr 27 2008 12:45PM
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NoTeefa
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this can vary from guy to guy, because as you probably know, different guys have different penises.
My girlfriend actually has a whole book on this. It outlines which positions are good to try if they guy has a small penis, or a freakishly large penis. Or if the guys penis is straight as an arrow or curves up towards the sky. For example if the guy has a small penis you want to avoid positions where the penis can easily slip out. And if the guy has a freakishly large penis you want to try and use positions where he can't over penetrate and hurt his partner. My girlfriend has her most intense orgasms during basic missionary position. This is because my penis curves upward so when we do it missionary (especially if we put a pillow under her butt to exagerate the angle a bit) my penis rubs right on her g spot, and at the same time she has both hands free to rub her clit while I'm fucking her. This is so far the only way that I've been able to actually make her "squirt". Of course we like to do it in many different positions, my favorite is a modified doggystyle that just makes her ass look sooo good. It's good to cycle through a few different positions as you have sex so you don't just use the same muscle group the whole time.
As for the "pumping thing. As you know, making love is not strictly physical, there's a very mental component involved, and not just for the girls. When a girl wraps her legs around my back, or claws my back a little, or rubs her tits in my face, it makes me feel wanted. That's a good feeling, and it heightens my sexual excitement. Unfortunately due to our anatomy, women are always going to have to be the "pretzely" ones.
Now if we're in a position where I control the action, I like to mix it up between pumping and grinding. The pumping stimulates the male and the grinding stimulates the female. I've been with some girls that I couldn't let get on top  because all they would do is grind, and it would turn my dick into a wet noodle.
Guys aren't the only ones that can be bad in bed.
Apr 27 2008 3:05PM
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Shpadoinkle
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Are you THE Love Guru? HAHA!
Apr 27 2008 4:25PM
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TechnoPotamus
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you should be a sex therapist homie
Apr 27 2008 4:28PM
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skithebert
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i've experienced that as well.  without the up and down action I'm getting nothing.  i'm okay with that for a short time, but there's a limit.
Apr 27 2008 4:29PM
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Itsbackfliptime
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Interesting. I had a girlfriend that wouldn't have sex but loved to masturbate. Then I had a girlfriend that loved to have sex but wouldn't masturbate. The one that liked sex told me she had only had 2 orgasms ever.
Apr 27 2008 4:54PM
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NoTeefa
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Yea man, girls are weird as hell, especially when they're in high school.

I've been thinking about this a bit more and I've come up with a hypothesis. I believe that the reason men end up being the sexual agressors in our culture is because boys get a natural jump start on their sexual exploration. Young boys seem to discover masturbation and sexual pleasure in middle school, I believe this because this is what happened to me. As young as days old, boys get random erections, sometime in their adolescent stages they discover sexual pleasure by humping their mattress or by scratching their balls because they itch from the new hair growing on them. Girls don't become interested in sex until later, as the boys start to approach them. Most high school aged girls haven't even experimented with masturbation yet, while all the boys have been doing it for years already. I think this is the root cause of why guys seem hornier than girls, and usually have to be the agressors
Apr 27 2008 5:42PM
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peyton
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haha wow
Apr 27 2008 6:40PM
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Yauch
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why is that what you did?
Apr 27 2008 7:20PM
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theres_ghosts
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in da 1800s  why not as one of these sex change peoples
Apr 27 2008 10:41PM
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MistaFab
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how could you possibly think that sounded like a good come back? your a mess

Apr 27 2008 11:01PM
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saucybiscuits
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idk dude........ women have clits which is short for clitoris which is speciffically desinged for pleasure. nothing else but orgasm.
Apr 27 2008 11:12PM
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no_steeze
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have you stuck it in her pooper yet?
Apr 27 2008 11:16PM
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raddar
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buddy if these people were wrong you wouldnt be so insecure. and if you werent so insecure, you wouldnt feel the need to make comebacks to everyone who rips on you.
Apr 27 2008 11:17PM
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ValPow
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maybe we could conduct a ns test

get some guy and some bird from ns, film them and then have a vote on 'who looks like they are having the most fun'
Apr 28 2008 1:40AM
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NoTeefa
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actually no, but its not because she wouldn't let me, cause she totally would! It's just not something that I'm really into.
Apr 28 2008 2:13AM
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WillStart
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 i agree
Apr 29 2008 11:43AM
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FilmingBitch
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This is really interesting because when women go on birth control, which are female hormones (whether the pill, patch, nuva ring etc), one of the possible side affects is a lower sex drive. Which would actually make sense with this testosterone hypothesis.
Honestly I think it's a combination of things...
And you're right about the whole women should explore themselves thing. So key.
Apr 29 2008 12:16PM
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twix_182
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this was exactly what i was thinking when i saw this thread, but i forgot which people it was
Apr 29 2008 12:56PM
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pat_in_the_hat
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so god is standing in the garden of eden and tells adam and eve to come hether cause he has two last presents fot them. He says his first pesent is to be able to pee standing up. Adam, being the stupid male says that he wants that and he doesnt even care what the other suprise is. so he takes that and goes over to a tree and start to pee on it. meanwhile eve asks god what her suprise is. and then god pulls out the ability to have multiple orgasms durring sex. true story
Apr 29 2008 2:48PM
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Shpadoinkle
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But it can be very painful many months later.
Apr 29 2008 2:57PM
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Bean_Slc
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men like sex more because thats the way our brains are. Think about it, back in the cave days if each guy had sex with many woman the population would grow and our species would survive
Apr 29 2008 4:15PM
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Trashpuppet
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lets make a new show called "lets talk sex with Newschoolers"

Apr 29 2008 4:36PM
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