Replying to I choose not to drink or smoke...

 so im 18 and in college... this has been on my mind A LOT lately... k so i ski a ton and i know that drinking and smoking comes with the territory but i come from a father that is an alcoholic and have seen the gnarly stuff it does to you i have seen him so fucking shit faced that he was gunna beat my ass and he didnt even know who i was and the next day he doesnt remember a thing. now dont get me wrong some drinks are hella good but alcoholism is genetic and im scared that if i start i will turn out like my dad... as for smokin im sure is ballin but to me it just not worth it i dont ever want to try it i have no reason to. i got lots of friends that do and always ask me to smoke a bowl with them and i just tell them no and they respect me for it...
i kno im going out on a limb but i was wondering if there are any fellow NSers that are in the same boat as im in?
im only writing this because i see so many threads about being high and wasted and shit so thought i would post on my views... you can hate on me all you want i dont currr...
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