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Fellow Newschoolers, I need your help. I'm a very very aggressive skier in need of some new boots. I haven't been able to ski more than 2 days in a row this season due to incredible foot pain...My current boots are Tecnica Diablo Race 130 (stiff as fuck and tight as hell). I have a rather narrow foot and I'm looking for a freeride/freestyle boot that can handle the high speed carves, big mtn lines, and hard park landings. I grew up in race boots so I'm used to a stiffer flex but I'm willing to try something with a softer flex and I am wondering how a softer flex will affect my skiing. Does anyone have any suggestions as to what boots to look at? I know buying boots all comes down to the fit but I'm looking for some outside input. Thanks.