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Prayers, vibes, chi, whatever you do, please give it to my friend
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Im not one to make these kind to threads but I seriously think that my friend needs it. My friend Alyssa has just informed me that she is pregnant. I dont see her anymore in person because she moved to Florida but I talk to her a lot online and on the phone and I always help her out with her problems. I really dont know what to tell her though. So I ask, please please give your thoughts and prayers to her and give me some stuff I can tell her to calm her down. She is really scared and doesnt know what to do. So again, thoughts and vibes to my friend Alyssa. She needs it. Thank you NS
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yikes. has she told anyone but you?
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She told the guy who I can only assume is the dad. I didnt ask too many questions cause she needed comforting the most
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Dude that is so immature. That's not even funny. Obviously he is worried for his friend the least you could do is refrain from comments like that.
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tell her to start talkin to nurses if she knows any. or even tell her parents, which she'll eventually have to do.
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you can make some bank selling white babies
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fuck these threads.
good that she is moving to florida. she will fit in perfectly with all the other dregs of society.
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thats really gonna be tough for her.
but really, do they not teach kids about condoms anymore?
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shes 15....!?!?!?! and cant 100% identify the dad.
best piece of advice you can give to her is keep her legs closed
but vibe, that would be a bad situation
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I think they do, just not everyone uses them. My parents never told me but I am pretty sure that I was the result of a forgotten condom.
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Dude seriously. I know what she did was stupid but seriously, dont you have a little bit of kindness in you? She made a mistake and now she has to deal with it and im trying to help her get through it. You cant have a little sympathy for a girl who made a stupid stupid mistake?
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yeah i mean thats in a sense a blessing but in the sense she is 15 totally blows. +++++vibes man
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No no, I asked if she told anyone else and she said said yeah this guy named trevor. Im just assuming thats the dad. I didnt bother asking
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There was a girl in my hort class that was pregnant, left my school for a few months, had the baby and now is back.
She is 14.
vibes for your friend dude, I will try to remember her in my prayers.
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no. empathy isn't in my vocabulary.
she should have been more responsible with her body. and she is 15 for fuck sakes what is she doing having sex already.
white trash if you ask me.
p.s. vibes don't do shit.
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any respect i had for you just fell through the floor.
yeah she might have been irresponsible, and now that shes pregnant im pretty sure she realizes that. you dont have to go around being a complete dick/so disrespectful to the kid and his friend.
didnt you ever listen to your mommy? "if you dont have something nice to say, dont say it at all"
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She really needs to head to a clinic, such as Planned Parenthood. If she hasn't told her parents yet, she needs more support than her friends who don't know what to say. It's really in her best interest. Tell her to stay calm, things are easier to deal with that way.
And IMO I don't think she should have this baby. She is only 15, and no 15 year old should be a mom. For numerous reasons. She still needs to be a kid herself.
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I don't care if you disagree with what she did, but to say it like that? Low.
But for the girl, it really comes down to personal choice. What she does is entirely in her hands.
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oh jesus, t3dizzleedeee doesn't respect me anymore.
this is seriously the lowest point in my life right now. hit rock bottom. lost your respect.
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sorry if these have been answered i didn't read the thread...
why doesn't she just get an abortion? 15 is way too young to ruin her life. maybe call her and talk to her about the possibilities, and push her towards the abortion (or what you feel is right((abortion probably the best solution)). has she considered this?
anyways vibes to her and the father i suppose. but why make such a dumb mistake?
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seriously what the fuck is your problem? we all understand she made a stupid decision, and i'm sure she does too. but maybe you should try and be a little more mature, which i always assumed you to be and at least not be such an ass. sure you can state your opinion, but maybe try and be a little nicer, seeing this kid probably isn't in the best of situations right now. it's not his fault she got pregnant he is just asking for advice, don't take it out on him.
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The hell is your problem bro? Is all the sarcasm and hate nessasary? I didnt make this thread to start people getting mad. I started it so maybe I could get some advise to help a friend in need out and for at least people to think about a very confused worried and scared girl. I know for a fact that she does stupid shit and Ive told her its going to catch up to her. And now that it has Im not sticking it in her face going I told you so like you might to someone. Just do a favor and please contribute to the thread and try to help
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yes. this girl made a huge mistake and should be held responsible for it.
does that means she deserves your harsh judgments? no. who the fuck are you (people in this thread) to judge a 15 year old girl who you've never met in your life? For all you know, she could be your daughter one day.
i dont really believe in prayers or vibes, but i hope your friend deals with the situation in the best way possible and her life isnt as severly affected as it could be.
ns sickens me sometimes
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whatever, im done.
i just wanted to make it clear that i don't pray for morons.
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Youve made yourself crystal clear
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where did the minus button go for Karma?
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you gotta click the plus bro, then it will let you choose. give me a 0 please.
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Make sure she starts dealing with this soon, so it's not too late if she does decide to get an abortion.
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you don't have to like the girl man, but at least help the kid out. or don't fuck up his thread by posting shit about how stupid she is, we already got that when he said she was pregnant. i understand your thinking, but the kid needs help.
and for the karma button, you hit the plus sign first then the minus will appear...
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Uhhh this girl sounds kind of sketch. I'll send her vibes but really when it comes down to it I pretty much agree with what whattheshit has to say.
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Stop, back to thread topic. You should read my advice!
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^im reading, im readin!!
and i agree, although if i was a kid i don't think i'd want my parents to find out unless they had to. and once again has she considered an abortion? she really needs to, like ash said no 15 year old should be a parent. i am 15 and couldn't imagine getting a girl pregnant. i would probably be forced to kill the kid myself if she wouldnt. jokesssss
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yeah shes considered it but shes not really into it. She thinks what if one day, even if she does put it up for adoption, he or she becomes like a great scientist or something. she is fairly positive but just shes kinda breaking down. Im going to talk to her more tomorrow and tell he what you guys said cause its good stuff
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These clinics don't tell your parents unless you want them to. It's not their job to notify them.
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Yeah ashley is right. She needs to see a doctor and all that stuff.
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i've looked into it, but an abortion without any kind of insurance is like $300 at least, so it kinda costs some dough. other than that, having a baby she would definitely have to give it away. but goodluck to her and you and whatever happens, make it right.
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before everyone tells her to abort the BABY, she should look into adoption, i am speaking with great knowledge on the subject, i know from personal experience (my family has done foster care for many years and my sister is adopted) there are tons of family's that would love to adopt this BABY.
my best wishes to her.
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I see where your going. Using the title it isnt exactly the best thing in the world. the term baby just never came up in my mind. And I told her adoption but she is still afraid about telling her parents. shes gotta get passed that
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She needs to go to a doctor! It's the first step. Telling her parents comes after.
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Dude I totally would if I could, they sell for like $25,000+ each if they are caucasian newborns.
I even took a semen sample and artificially inseminated my butt, but I couldn't even grow one baby, let alone a pair of them.
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seriously, she is a mom. i'd listen to her.
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if she wasn't ready to deal with the consequences, she shouldn't have had sex at such a young age
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She should definitely abort the baby. And fast.
My friend (supposedly) was pregnant, and decided to get an abortion. Went to the clinic and they told her she was TOO SKINNY. Mind you, she's 18.
Then she got put on a list to get it done at a hospital because there was a different way they had to do it so she wouldn't basically get killed or something. Since she had to get on the list, it was almost too late to get the procedure done.
Get her to the doctors as fast as possible to do something about it. An 18 year old who could barely get an abortion? I doubt a 15 year old is any bigger than she is, so the faster she figures out what she wants to do, or SHOULD do, the easier it will be.
She's 15 and no way in hell mature enough to carry a child and then give it up once it is born. Adoption, in my opinion, is a terrible option. Sure I don't know this girl, but I stand pretty strong behind my assumptions.
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very understanding and mature
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Yeh I would deal with that really fast. Because next thing you know she'll be on the Maury show. But yeah vibes but make smart decisions kids
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