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Should I do it? I need help!

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SteezyasPie
Posts: 1160 - Karma: 15
Hey, i met this girl about a month and a half ago at my local mountain, who i go to school with, and we really got along, we met up a few more times to go skiing (before i got grounded), and we talk a lot in and out of school (we're working on 27 hours straight right now, with combined texts and ims, except the 4 hour break to sleep) and she seems kinda interested in me, and i know i am in her,  but i dont know what to do, should i ask her out? play it safe and just stay friends? because i dont wanna ruin things between us if i ask her out and she saays no,  NS i need your help!

(please only helpful posts, i dont need anyone flameing me for whatever)
Jan 14 2008 7:29PM
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Mezmerize19
Posts: 6475 - Karma: 18
Im gonna call a Ladies Man on this
Jan 14 2008 7:30PM
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CMYK
Posts: 1101 - Karma: 336
ask her out.... if she rejects you, she will put you in the friend zone, and it sounds like your ok with that
Jan 14 2008 7:31PM
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TRLnottheshow
Posts: 125 - Karma: 10
ask her outt dudee take a risk make it happen
Jan 14 2008 7:31PM
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Piste.Off
Posts: 11586 - Karma: 1,860
go for it. and she skis!
Jan 14 2008 7:32PM
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SteezyasPie
Posts: 1160 - Karma: 15
she snowboards, but nobody's perfect haha, and shes cool with skiiers, so its all good
Jan 14 2008 7:32PM
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TheButterHashira
Posts: 9691 - Karma: 1,702
I wish girls skiied where I live. My kinda gf said she has never skied but would like to learn.

But dude I feel the same situation about every girl but I hate it when I fail to make a move and then the interest fizzles out. I say just be subtle about asking her to go on a date kind of. Like a movie or something.
Jan 14 2008 7:34PM
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carbon.pulse
Posts: 3348 - Karma: 22
no chick would talk to you for 27hours straight to just be friends. Chances are she feels the same way you do about her, so just ask her out. It doesnt have to be straight up you could just get her to go somewhere together or with some mates and go from there.
Jan 14 2008 7:34PM
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SteezyasPie
Posts: 1160 - Karma: 15
yeah i guess, your right, and we already do hang out, but so far its only at the mountain (which i have no problem with), and thanks to everyone whos posted, it just goes to show that the people on NS support each other when they need it
Jan 14 2008 7:38PM
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splooshie
Posts: 644 - Karma: 8
DO IT just be careful.. i asked out this hot skier chick that i liked for like 1 year.. we were friends for like 6 months but as soon as we started going out things got awkward and she broke up with me over a text message (ouch that still hurts)
Jan 14 2008 7:50PM
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SteezyasPie
Posts: 1160 - Karma: 15
thats exactly what im afraid of, though i doubt shed do it over a text,  ive had it happen to me over aim before, which really sucks
Jan 14 2008 7:51PM
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ride-rider
Posts: 1761 - Karma: 20
i saw the most hot skiier chick last weekend, i was like zomg.

ya dude ask her out, honestly if she says no nothing should happen unless one of you is extremely im mature.
Jan 14 2008 7:52PM
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VT_FLO
Posts: 3806 - Karma: 147
nothing ventured, nothing gained. Ask her out, its not like you have anything to lose, if you get rejected be like thats cool, lets still chill and be homies
Jan 14 2008 7:57PM
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ECGove
Posts: 1947 - Karma: 75
im suprised nobody asked for pics yet, maybe NS is maturing...
Jan 14 2008 7:59PM
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SteezyasPie
Posts: 1160 - Karma: 15
im guessing the immaturity will come, but hey, as long as theres some good posts, and i think im gonna go for it after mid terms are over and shes not as stressed (a week and a half or so)
Jan 14 2008 8:02PM
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SteezyasPie
Posts: 1160 - Karma: 15
but before i do anything i think it would be interesting to see what a chick's point of view is
Jan 14 2008 8:03PM
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Silence
Posts: 16030 - Karma: 150
"paging Ladies Men"

It can't hurt to take things a little further with her man, if you don't you will never know what could have been!
Jan 14 2008 8:16PM
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MCIRONCOCK
Posts: 3094 - Karma: 30
All i have to say is go for it, what's the worst that can happen?
Jan 14 2008 8:17PM
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SteezyasPie
Posts: 1160 - Karma: 15
ok so now the question is more how to do it not should i, and i still wanna see if we can get a woman/chick to respond
Jan 14 2008 8:25PM
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popNfresh44
Posts: 3757 - Karma: 44
im pretty sure you will not be rejected if you guys are really close already and she texted you for 27 hours.
Jan 14 2008 8:28PM
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SteezyasPie
Posts: 1160 - Karma: 15
haha 28 hours and still going...
Jan 14 2008 8:29PM
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doublexl
Posts: 8407 - Karma: 27
just ask her. its not like you need to make a huge deal out of it. just take her some place fun or something and then bang on emm.
Jan 14 2008 8:31PM
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eheath
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Bend her over and stick it in her vag.
Jan 14 2008 8:32PM
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thementhol
Posts: 42 - Karma: 10
shes waiting

Jan 14 2008 8:34PM
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McTwist83
Posts: 282 - Karma: 11
trust me dude she's intrested. stop being on NS, make it happen playyyaaaa
Jan 14 2008 8:54PM
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Pamela.
Posts: 68 - Karma: 11
i think you should hang out with her more to make sure youre interested then ask her out, so you know you really like her and dont waste your time
Jan 14 2008 9:42PM
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MCIRONCOCK
Posts: 3094 - Karma: 30
If she says no: cunt punt
Jan 14 2008 9:45PM
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mellifluous
Posts: 1682 - Karma: 68
Ok.




Do it. Most of us love when you make the first move. DO IT
Jan 14 2008 9:46PM
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Skipig25
Posts: 10729 - Karma: 256
I'm surprised we haven't gotten the classic NS "pee in her butt" line yet.




Jan 14 2008 9:46PM
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Tinga
Posts: 11349 - Karma: 2,333
you got nothing to lose by asking her out. if she says no itll be weird for a little bit then youll go back to you wanting her and her wanting to be your friend hooray!
Jan 14 2008 9:46PM
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MCIRONCOCK
Posts: 3094 - Karma: 30
O rry?
One time i hesitated and didn't do it, and now this chick's with another dude.
Bummer.
Jan 14 2008 9:47PM
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splooshie
Posts: 644 - Karma: 8
i have an idea

on your text message phone thing be like this-

you:yeah um... can i ask you something?

her:what is it?

you:well i kind of..really like you (she probably likes you too)

her:...

you:and im really nervous to ask you out in person.... would it be OK with you if we went to the movies or something?

her:yeah sure

you:SCORE


OK so ive done this and so have alot of my friends it works almost EVERY TIME its so much easier to ask out over a txt and its not like she will think your wierd or anything for being shy. do that and tell us how it goes


Jan 14 2008 9:52PM
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Pamela.
Posts: 68 - Karma: 11
that shows lack of confindence though, dont sound nervous. if youre going for it just do it. dont hesitate
Jan 14 2008 9:59PM
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SteezyasPie
Posts: 1160 - Karma: 15
haha good idea, but shes easy to talk to and ive got the balls to ask in person (to use the line from The lookout: "ive been turned down more time then the beds at a holiday inn"), i was more concerned whether or not she'd say yes, because i dont want to screw this one up, and thanks to disco for replying about the girls point of view, i kinda figured that, but i thought it wouldnt hurt to ask, and ill let everyone know what she says after i ask her
Jan 14 2008 10:00PM
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SteezyasPie
Posts: 1160 - Karma: 15
bumpp, i decided to do it this thursday, and i need more advice
Jan 15 2008 2:56PM
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spudz
Posts: 2564 - Karma: 5
go for it,  and then go to www.skitoga.com

but really though

theres honestly millions of girls in this world and the one thing you have to do is just suck it up and go for it because honestly if it doesnt work out you can find a different one, and if it does BAM YOU WIN


www.skitoga.com
Jan 15 2008 3:01PM
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JaphyRyder
Posts: 1766 - Karma: 113
don't text her, thats just being a puss.
just say it to her,
Jan 15 2008 3:02PM
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PASKIINGSUCKS
Posts: 9097 - Karma: 777

Just go for it man.  She's definitely interested, and you guys already share interests in hobbies.  I would say just confront her and tell her you really enjoy her company and want to get to know her even better.  You don't have to actually ask her to "go out with you" like your going steady or something, just ask her to the movies or dinner or any other activity you can think of so you guys can share some alone time.  Then make a move for the roofies!!!!


Of course I'm kidding on the end there.

Jan 15 2008 3:10PM
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SteezyasPie
Posts: 1160 - Karma: 15
did you read the post before that? i meant in person, im sorry but texting her seems like such a bad idea
Jan 15 2008 3:13PM
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gbirrd
Posts: 1475 - Karma: 20
alright dude i say go for it. she skis and sick and if u like her its all good. ask her out. n dont make it one of those "wanna go out with me". do something different. Like i duno uhm we have been seeing eachother for a while and maybe we want to go to the next step. something like that.  AND DUDE write us back. i wanna know what happens. peace griff
Jan 15 2008 3:14PM
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PASKIINGSUCKS
Posts: 9097 - Karma: 777
There is a certain personal touch to doing and saying things in person.  If you get a confirmation of her affection towards you in person you can jump right into things like holding her hand or putting your arm around her and things of that nature.  If you get a yes over a text you'll have to wait a while to enjoy your new found relationship.
Jan 15 2008 3:17PM
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purplejumpsuit
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asking her out in person is the way to go for sure.
but if you are scared of messing things up, then just dont do something extream. Make it sweet of corse, but not like a big show cuz that could mess stuff up if she said no, but if you just ask her to a movie sorta thing then you should be good. no reson why your friendship would get messed upt that way
Jan 15 2008 3:20PM
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uni-corn
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Been in that boat.


Fuckig bitch
Jan 15 2008 3:21PM
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SteezyasPie
Posts: 1160 - Karma: 15
we're gonna hang out after school for a bit on thursday(i was gonna suggest it myself because we both had to stay after anyway, but actually she said it before i had a chance, which im thinking is good), so  thats why i picked then, cuz theres noone else around, and it in person so its a lot easier (with the lack of people around, in person just makes it harder)
Jan 15 2008 3:36PM
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PASKIINGSUCKS
Posts: 9097 - Karma: 777
It kinda sounds like your gonna hang with her at school, I would say if that's the case maybe walk somewhere close by.  Do ya really wanna be hanging at the school???
Jan 15 2008 3:42PM
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SteezyasPie
Posts: 1160 - Karma: 15
not in particular haha, but there is nothing close by to walk to, except woods, because i live in the middle of nowhere

oh, and oyu know that record time for continous conversation throught texts and im's? we're still going , i think its up to something like 50 hours now, other than sleeping time,  lol, its getting to the point of pathetic actually

Jan 15 2008 3:45PM
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SteezyasPie
Posts: 1160 - Karma: 15
bumper, this thread drops really quick for some reason
Jan 15 2008 5:27PM
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VT_FLO
Posts: 3806 - Karma: 147
since you live in the middle of nowhere.....


walk her to the woods and get a trained wolf to attack you guys, Fake Kill the wolf, Saving her life!    She'll pretty much have to make love to you on the spot.
Jan 15 2008 8:29PM
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MCIRONCOCK
Posts: 3094 - Karma: 30
Agreed, but make it a trained grizzly bear, you'll seem more manly. Pee in her butt.
Jan 15 2008 8:32PM
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jane.
Posts: 33 - Karma: 10

honestly, if you're going on that many hours talking to her (minus the 4 hours of sleep) it sounds like she's into you. i'd definately go for it. from what it seems, if she wasn't into you, she wouldnt be talking to you so much, and if you're still not sure about it then just hint it on and see how her reaction is, if its positive, then i think you should take a shot at it, if it's an uneasy/negative response then stay on the friend base for now and try to work your way up! :o)

Jan 15 2008 8:49PM
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SteezyasPie
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shes been dropping hints (at least, thats how i understood them) the same as i have, i was planning on asking her this thursday, but i completely screwed up with a text that wasnt supposed to be sent to her but ended up somehow being sent to her, and im thinking im gonna let what happened settle down a bit, though i explained everything, and shes said "its ok, whatever, just ask me when you want" (paraphrasing there, with a bit of  license with the words too, but thats the gist  of it)
Jan 15 2008 9:20PM
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