Blackberry...

my dad has one and i am a noob with it

you should probably ask a real question. that might help you with a real answer.

as of right now, i can only give you my number, assuming you have a blackberry.

I have one, what are you trying to figure out?

since a week i cant add bb messenger contacts nor can they add me !! we ve tried both ways

i dont know how to install java script on it

and i ve just bought over my computer berryvine.com ( MSN messenger ) got a receipt from paypal too but nothing happened

i hate blackberry phones personally i had my dads for about a month and the damn thing pissed me off so bad they are too confusing

I thought mine already came with Java Script on it? Not positive on that though. For the bbmessenger, you're sure you have the correct PIN and all that stuff? I remember being a little confused about it at first, it wasn't even worth the trouble of me setting it up.

As for a messenger program, you should be able to download it from their site through your blackberry and then input your license information to unlock it for however long you bought it for. If you can, you might want to try and get a refund, and look into Jivetalk. It is a really sweet messenger program that can use MSN/AIM/Google and a bunch of other stuff.