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Girlfriend situation ns i need your help

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SkiEastCoast
Posts: 1457 - Karma: 0
Quick sum up
so i have known this girl since i was maybe 5. i just started to "go out with her" i mean we see each other alot most likely 4-5 times a week. the problem is we have been going out since like early sept. it seems to me that she doesnt like any "sexual" acts so she prude haha. i like hanging out with her, shes decent looking. what should i do should i bag the relationship because its hard to go from one relationship were there is sex and go to another relationship were there is nothing at all but alittle kissing here and there. i mean im 18 in 2 months thats the peak for the males sex life gotta strike while the iron is hot. Or should i huck it out a few more weeks see if anything better goes on?

any advice is great
Oct 17 2007 12:32AM
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Sno.
Posts: 12155 - Karma: 6,152
well you called me a horny bastard and accused me feeling up chicks...so i wasnt sure if you knew.

skank?

sure...why not.
Oct 17 2007 7:00PM
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liaosongfang
Posts: 385 - Karma: 43
see

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zumiez

bro

bra

broseph

bro
Oct 17 2007 7:01PM
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Ben.
Posts: 21463 - Karma: 683
really? thats the best u could come up with. i mean im pretty far from that but ok... cuz clearly hating on the internet is gonna make me cry and go change who i am. get a life dude... shes entitled to her opinion and ur hating on her for it. she cleary wasnt condoning rape noone would.
Oct 18 2007 5:26PM
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lloyd_christmas
Posts: 1775 - Karma: 16
u fighters make me lol....especially fang boy....but ya man time and talk are where its at...she sounds like a good chick stick wit it
Oct 18 2007 6:16PM
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R.Z.A.
Posts: 778 - Karma: 11
LADIES MEN
ASSEMBLE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Oct 18 2007 6:52PM
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kgirvan
Posts: 442 - Karma: 53
haha. i keep it pimpin nawmean
Oct 18 2007 9:37PM
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Nico_G
Posts: 1480 - Karma: 15
dude are you gonna marry this girl. if not then dump her ass. girlfriends are such a waste of time and money unless your gonna marry the chick
Oct 19 2007 12:49AM
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DJSTEVEINNIAMIXX
Posts: 1859 - Karma: 1,664

how come no one has said "pee in her butt"but yeah i think talking to her would be the first step and work from there.

Oct 19 2007 2:13AM
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PeteyG
Posts: 2946 - Karma: 49
word. the longer you wait, the better/funner itll be
Oct 19 2007 3:18AM
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potato_man
Posts: 2158 - Karma: 89
yeah pete

you would know

but its still good advice, if thats all you want in the relationship, and she doesnt(or wants to wait)then good for her. ish

and you should always do what they want anyways, right?
Oct 19 2007 3:29AM
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Steezy_Street
Posts: 833 - Karma: 161
It could be cause u have known her for so long and she feels that everything will become arkward if u start having sex. SHe mite see u as as more of a best friend that a sex boyfriend
Oct 19 2007 4:10AM
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japie99
Posts: 2128 - Karma: 19

You started dating about a month ago. Like i assume she is still a virgin so still not having sex with you isnt that weird. Almost every girl wants her first time to be special and with a guy she really likes love and knows he loves her too. Tho on the other hand a month is kinda when girls go for it. Coz obviously she has her needs too. i guess she is kinda scared and it too be special.
What did she btw do when you tried to do some finger exercises? And has she done anything to you besides kissing?
My advice is to bring the subject on the table, but do it with style... On the other hand, you could invite her one time for dinner, put on some candles and make it really romantic. That automatically leeds to crazy sexsual times man!!!

Good luck!!

(sorry for the bad english)

Oct 19 2007 5:15AM
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Ninth
Posts: 97 - Karma: -4

why come on here and ask girlfriend advise. most of the kids on here have not even started puberty

Oct 19 2007 10:09AM
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liaosongfang
Posts: 385 - Karma: 43
i had to read that like 5 times till i fully understood what you were trying to say.  chill out.  i'm not "demoteing" sex, i'm just not super down with forcing yourself on girls when it's not wanted.  sorry if i pissed all you off.  i have a good friend that got raped and another that wasn't raped but close enough.  they were similar situations where she didn't wanna go that far and they just kept pushin it.  she's in counseling now cause it screwed her up.  sorry if i got all pissed and shit but that happened fairly recently and it pisses the shit out of me.  i guess the bottom line for me is i just don't have sympathy for this kid that's crying cause she won't give it up when my friend is gonna have mad issues for the rest of her life cause of someone just like him.

Oct 27 2007 1:47PM
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LoLo913
Posts: 600 - Karma: 29
so if you really, truely like her, you should being willing to wait! so that might be a red flag right there. also i agree with the other girls, talk to her! communication is key...
Oct 27 2007 2:12PM
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YourExcellency
Posts: 82 - Karma: 10
You kids get way to caught up with sex. Sex is not worth worrying about or focusing on. Unfortunately you're not going to learn this until you've wasted tons of time worrying about it and focusing on it.
Oct 27 2007 2:26PM
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djikstra
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friends for a long time, a very close friend of mine, loved you like you was mine but respect the thin line...
Oct 27 2007 2:35PM
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Ifeinforsnow
Posts: 1394 - Karma: 37
its obvious she was sexually abused as a child.
Oct 27 2007 3:05PM
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