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Girlfriend situation ns i need your help

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SkiEastCoast
Posts: 1457 - Karma: 0
Quick sum up
so i have known this girl since i was maybe 5. i just started to "go out with her" i mean we see each other alot most likely 4-5 times a week. the problem is we have been going out since like early sept. it seems to me that she doesnt like any "sexual" acts so she prude haha. i like hanging out with her, shes decent looking. what should i do should i bag the relationship because its hard to go from one relationship were there is sex and go to another relationship were there is nothing at all but alittle kissing here and there. i mean im 18 in 2 months thats the peak for the males sex life gotta strike while the iron is hot. Or should i huck it out a few more weeks see if anything better goes on?

any advice is great
Oct 17 2007 12:32AM
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BrokenBones
Posts: 1275 - Karma: 703
Join the ladies men cult for all your girl related needs!
Oct 17 2007 12:35AM
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C.R.420
Posts: 2441 - Karma: 28
join the ladies men cult.
but you should get into a lengthy make-out session, and just slide your hand down her pants and slip her a finger or two.
it should turn her on, and lead to bigger and better things.

good luck
Oct 17 2007 12:36AM
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SkiEastCoast
Posts: 1457 - Karma: 0
i was in it but like awhile ago i clicked leave cult and i fucked that up haha
Oct 17 2007 12:37AM
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ryanwar6
Posts: 1134 - Karma: 114
sounds like you need to make sure there are other concrete options before you bag it. and by concrete, I mean concrete.if you are looking for some action, there is nothing more attractive to girls than a guy with a gf. use it to your advantage.
Oct 17 2007 12:37AM
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SkiEastCoast
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tryed it tonight didnt work she pulled my handout i got blocked yet again
Oct 17 2007 12:37AM
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BrokenBones
Posts: 1275 - Karma: 703
Well then stick it out and be a little more... assertive.  Or just tell her that you need sex now!

Haha, she is probably just shy.. make the first move.
Oct 17 2007 12:39AM
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Flarestrike
Posts: 437 - Karma: 18

Sssex...the word most guys get hung over on...If she wants to she will, if not you'll never get to her.

Females aare the greatest threat to mankind, ccan't be with them yet you can't be without them

Oct 17 2007 12:41AM
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jimmychung
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you should never let go of a decent girl. she'll eventually come through.
Oct 17 2007 12:43AM
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C.R.420
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oh well, it was worth a shot.

good luck bro, it may come eventually.
i'm glad my girl isnt prude like yours is. haha
Oct 17 2007 12:43AM
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C.R.420
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agreed
Oct 17 2007 12:45AM
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SkiEastCoast
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way to rub it in i took like 3 shots over the past 2 weeks all failed attempts.
Oct 17 2007 12:47AM
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mtbakerteacher
Posts: 4185 - Karma: 20
Talk to her about it?
Oct 17 2007 1:08AM
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Blarneypip
Posts: 43 - Karma: 13
HI GUYS. being a girl, TALKING  always helps. find out why she's so unconfortable and make her trust you.
Oct 17 2007 1:10AM
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Alex_G
Posts: 11902 - Karma: 1,018
if you really like her stick with it, and in a few months it will all be worth it.
Oct 17 2007 1:11AM
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mtbakerteacher
Posts: 4185 - Karma: 20
Man I have game.
Oct 17 2007 1:14AM
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purplejumpsuit
Posts: 2208 - Karma: 157
try talking to her rather then waiting till she just gives in? if you keep that up and theres a reson she really doesint want to have sex that has nothing to do with who its going to be with, like religion or reaching an age, then she might get around to ending it befor you do.
just talk to her, if you like her and shes an awesome girl then suck it up princes
Oct 17 2007 1:15AM
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PacificRimJob
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God damn dude.. fucking slow your horny ass down. You're not 18 yet... so i'm going to assume she isnt either... shes probably just not ready for it I guess.

and believe me.. that whole 18 being a male's peak? load of crap... you'll still be able to have sex the rest of your life.. not like your dick is going to fall off.

If the girl isnt feelin it, fucking let go man. she obviously is more interested in growing with you emotionally at this time. Work the relationship, get to know her (and I mean KNOW her) and then maybe.. after a while she will grow to trust you.

Dont worry. shit will work. She seems like a pretty cool chick... I guess...?

and if shes being a prude now, just wait till you guys DO have sex a few times... she might just surprise you.
Oct 17 2007 1:21AM
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*GP*
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"i mean im 18 in 2 months thats the peak for the males sex life gotta strike while the iron is hot."


haha bro, where did you read that? you've only just begun trust that....
Oct 17 2007 2:14AM
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pbandj
Posts: 5610 - Karma: 28
tell her you wanna play a game, just the tip just to see how it feels just for a second
Oct 17 2007 2:27AM
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babysteeze84
Posts: 720 - Karma: 285
GOOD ADVICE.
Oct 17 2007 2:55AM
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ryanwar6
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Molly, you don't know how girls think, leave this one up to the fellas. 

j/p good advice
Oct 17 2007 2:58AM
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Flarestrike
Posts: 437 - Karma: 18
I wanna try to wait till I marry the right one, then it's something special...No joke
Oct 17 2007 2:58AM
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liaosongfang
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ar jibber should never get laid. because... you are an idiot.
Oct 17 2007 12:05PM
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proZach
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you've been going out since september. its mid-october. give it time. a few months or so. golden.
Oct 17 2007 12:12PM
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SkiEastCoast
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yeh im not going to fuck up a good relationship ill huck it out
Oct 17 2007 12:19PM
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ryanwar6
Posts: 1134 - Karma: 114
you have been going out for 1 and a half months? take it easy man, the less you think about sex, the better off you will be, and the more likely it will be to happen.
Oct 17 2007 12:30PM
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Sno.
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whoa. wtf.

its one thing for her to not want to have sex, cause maybe she's a virgin and wants to wait for whatever reason. But..i mean if you're boyfriend and girlfriend you'd think she'd let you slip your hand down her pants. maybe she's unshaven and is embarassed. Or maybe she's just really inexperienced, and she's really nervous, and she figures nothing can go wrong if she just never lets it happen.

add alcohol and stir.
Oct 17 2007 12:30PM
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Valind
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Just whip it out when you both are drunk!!!
Oct 17 2007 12:41PM
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pbandj
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where are the girls like you my whole life, oh wait nevermind
Oct 17 2007 12:45PM
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liaosongfang
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did you really just say you'll "huck it out"????   dood, you are so hardcore!  you are definitely a tool.  and after reading the following responses i think i've come to the conclusion that a lot of you are just a bunch of tools.  dood, she doesn't wanna have sex with the kid so just keep trying to touch her.  how damn annoying can you be?  get over it.  if she doesn't want to and your so damn horny then find some skanky girl to give it up to your grubby ass.  liqour her up?  ya, you should like totally just like get her drunk and do her even though SHE DOESN'T WANT TO. rape?  you assclowns.  maybe there's a chance that she just doesn't want to have sex with you.  i mean it may be a long shot cause i'm sure you are a studmuffin, but maybe she just doesn't.  clows. 
Oct 17 2007 12:50PM
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SkiEastCoast
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shes inexperienced i believe
Oct 17 2007 12:57PM
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Sno.
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im pretty sure if alcohol was mentioned, it was suggested to be used as a tool to make her less nervous/feel at ease. I don't think that anyone on this site actually condones date rape.
Oct 17 2007 1:11PM
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Tom.
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*cough* *cough*
ahem...


Just shove your fist up her asshole, girls think that's really romantic.
Oct 17 2007 1:11PM
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liaosongfang
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she's not nervous.  SHE DOESN'T WANT TO.  you may not condone rape but what would you call constant unwanted advances and never-ending pressure to give it up until she's pressured into it.  you're right, if she finally gives in and has sex it won't be cause she felt constant pressure by him overstepping her boundaries, it will be cause she suddenly decided "WAIT! I FORGOT!!! I ACTUALLY DO WANNA HAVE SEX WITH YOU!!!"  i think you're right. since when did feeling a girl up when she doesn't want you to become ok? get a grip. or get a magazine or something you horny bastard.
Oct 17 2007 1:36PM
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Sno.
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im a girl.
Oct 17 2007 1:51PM
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SkiEastCoast
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you have problems  i havent said anything to you and your hating on me not this post but the one before to.
Oct 17 2007 1:58PM
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burrows
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get her drunk. it always works!
Oct 17 2007 1:59PM
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swany172
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Follow these instructions carefully! 1. Take her to the movies..wear something that looks fly maybe something that the hoff would wear. 2. Let her chose a chick flick something romantic 3. Get a bucket of popcorn. 4. When she goes to the bathroom take the box cuter you will have in your pocket and cut out a hole enough for you to insert your cock in. 5. Conceal with popcorn..you want to surprise her. 6. She comes back and reaches for some popcorn only to find a surpise. 7. Your problem solved.
ps. dont get melted butter it may cause burns!
Oct 17 2007 2:15PM
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Pwn.Mode
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Has anyone mentioned how old she is, i bet that's your problem. But im gonna agree just fist her asshole. they love it.
Oct 17 2007 2:30PM
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prosnurfer
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give her a bunch of vodka. make sure she gets reallllyyyy drunk. then start kissing her. but make sure u leik do it all nice and sexy. and then put ur hand near her cootch. if she rejects u throw her out of ur house and call her a drunk and find another girl. one that will slut it up
Oct 17 2007 2:43PM
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Pwn.Mode
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hahaha karma.
Oct 17 2007 2:47PM
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M+M
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to be completly honest, just get drunk togeather....trust me, things will then work out
Oct 17 2007 2:57PM
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Shpadoinkle
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you've only been going out with her for a month. take it easy. i would be the same way.
Oct 17 2007 3:16PM
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liaosongfang
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duh? but i think when you said "girl" you really meant "skank"
Oct 17 2007 4:16PM
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Sufferboy
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first time u didnt say pee in her butt,

umm just go with it man

shes looking for love first

then sex
Oct 17 2007 4:27PM
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*V-Love*
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^ this is good, im impressed.


Oct 17 2007 5:04PM
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t-roy
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good advice right here man. there is no need to rush her into anything.

and as far as you saying you are in your sexual prime at 18....lol

Oct 17 2007 5:59PM
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chronicskiier2
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just accidentally whip it and put it in her. accidentally of course.
Oct 17 2007 6:03PM
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Ben.
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go


kill


yourself
Oct 17 2007 6:04PM
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comeatmebro
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duh? please, tell me how you knew.

and shut the fuck up, because im sure you really know people on this site. i would say that she knows more about what the girl is thinking than you, being she is a girl.
Oct 17 2007 6:21PM
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