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Girls asking guys?

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Ruski
Posts: 1872 - Karma: 11
one of my friends said shes considering asking a guy out and i realized id never even really thought about it, i mean i guess i just feel like a guy should have the confidence to ask? i guess im old fashioned, whats the guys point of view?
Oct 8 2007 7:50PM
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.scott.
Posts: 1034 - Karma: 27
bro...you can do it man.  just think positive, take a deep breath, and go for it.  it's really not that bad once you make the decision to do it, as is the case with most slightly intimidating situations.  the biggest thing is that you don't have anything to lose.  guys might say if they get shut down that would be a huge blow, but it really doesn't change anything if you don't want it to.  the potential gains (huge) far outweigh the risk (weak).  we have confidence in you.  get it done.
Oct 10 2007 7:08AM
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back_woods
Posts: 1579 - Karma: 10
Its happened to me a few times, but in all cases the girls have been not ones that I was interested in- so I felt pretty bad about it all, especially as they were uniformly nice and it must have taken a lot of guts to break the mold like that. Now.. if I a cool chick I was into where to ask me out that'd be sweet. That never happens though - the best they seem to be able to do is make sexual overtures when drunk. 
Oct 10 2007 7:42AM
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icrashoften
Posts: 193 - Karma: 11
dude, the girl can ask the guy, and should...lol especially when the guy is unsure if she likes him or not it helps a lot
Oct 10 2007 9:18AM
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lloyd_christmas
Posts: 1775 - Karma: 16
 the girl shouldn't have a penis tho
Oct 10 2007 10:35AM
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srskialot5
Posts: 55 - Karma: 15
Alright man up, get your big boy balls on and do it
Oct 10 2007 11:40AM
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