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Girls asking guys?

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Ruski
Posts: 1872 - Karma: 11
one of my friends said shes considering asking a guy out and i realized id never even really thought about it, i mean i guess i just feel like a guy should have the confidence to ask? i guess im old fashioned, whats the guys point of view?
Oct 8 2007 7:50PM
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Tinga
Posts: 11349 - Karma: 2,333
well usually if the guy doesnt ask he isnt interested. i mean within a reasonable amount of time that is
Oct 8 2007 7:52PM
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SWA666ER
Posts: 684 - Karma: 30
wouldnt mind, would actually be a lot bewtter than asking a girl out
Oct 8 2007 7:52PM
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-+Siver+-
Posts: 1902 - Karma: 12
i don't think it should matter
Oct 8 2007 7:57PM
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bemmis
Posts: 1602 - Karma: -3
i would be flattered wether  liked the girl or not.
Oct 8 2007 8:08PM
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fillup
Posts: 4904 - Karma: 568
yeah id be stoked that a girl liked me enought no to wait and to ask me out
Oct 8 2007 8:12PM
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dafromasta
Posts: 184 - Karma: 10
I love it when girls ask guys out.
Oct 8 2007 8:17PM
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fresshhhh
Posts: 792 - Karma: 9
i prefer it lol
Oct 8 2007 8:34PM
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flyinghighagain
Posts: 1069 - Karma: 22
my ex gf asked me out...well actually i asked her out she shot me down then asked me out two days later i liked very much
Oct 8 2007 8:41PM
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Microcosm
Posts: 4765 - Karma: 153
def. no problem with it. maybe the guy is interested but doesn't know if the girl is. it can work either way.
Oct 8 2007 9:24PM
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Ruski
Posts: 1872 - Karma: 11
hm, did not expect the responses, i guess im just biased cause i would never
Oct 8 2007 9:47PM
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Onlyexstasy
Posts: 388 - Karma: 10
Yeah I've always asked the girl out...with a few exceptions...idk guess its just different for different personalities
Oct 8 2007 9:54PM
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artfullydodged
Posts: 8358 - Karma: 1,674
doooo it
Oct 8 2007 9:56PM
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GrassCutter86
Posts: 320 - Karma: 9
There are a lot of good guys out there, that just don't have the courage to ask a girl out.  People that seem shy aren't really, they just don't think any girl would want anything to do with them.  When they find a girl, they can really make her feel special.
Oct 8 2007 10:02PM
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reggyboy
Posts: 1608 - Karma: 13
i girl asking a guy out on a date? well,  tonight i must just eat my stake with a spoon.

why the hell not?  a girl has asked me out before, doesnt really matter in my opinion.
Oct 8 2007 10:02PM
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Skipig25
Posts: 10729 - Karma: 256
yea, if a girl asks a guy out, he'll be pretty pumped whether he likes her or not. it's not real common, but it's sick when it happens. tell her go for it. even if the dude doesn't like her, it'll be a nice gesture
Oct 8 2007 10:09PM
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pbandj
Posts: 5610 - Karma: 28
yeah it's pretty flattering, i liked it, made me feel like "oh she likes me enough to break the mold"
Oct 8 2007 10:57PM
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Jwenz
Posts: 8893 - Karma: 7,633
I would really like it if a girl asked me out, considering I don't have the balls to do it myself :(
Oct 8 2007 10:58PM
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90noproblem
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The guy should always ask the girl. Grow a pair and get some confidence

Oct 8 2007 10:59PM
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R-Bertsch
Posts: 4719 - Karma: 20
usually girls dont ask a guy out, they pull the "so what are we now?" and force the guy into making the decision
Oct 8 2007 11:03PM
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fresshhhh
Posts: 792 - Karma: 9
yea its untraditional its all

"she really asked me out, thats fucking sick i'm stick around here for awhile"
Oct 8 2007 11:16PM
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cobra_commander
Posts: 16909 - Karma: 4,686
generally if you look half decent and arn't a total bitch he will say yes.
Oct 8 2007 11:34PM
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titsLOL
Posts: 7485 - Karma: 396
so you wont go out with a guy cuz he likes you so much that he's too nervous to ask you out? or maybe he cant tell if you're playin hard to get or just don't like him or something. I think a girl should feel fine about asking a guy out, it'd catch me off guard I'd imagine, but in a good way unless it's a girl I reallly dont like.
Oct 8 2007 11:48PM
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potato_man
Posts: 2158 - Karma: 89
i prefer it

but then theres that awkward not-so-hot(or just not interesting)-girl-asks-you-out moments
Oct 9 2007 12:33AM
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C.R.420
Posts: 2441 - Karma: 28
i wouldnt mind.

i would usually ask the girl though, thats how i got my current gf
Oct 9 2007 12:35AM
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james44
Posts: 3323 - Karma: 578
i would be sooo happy if a girl asked me out its not easy to ask a girl out
Oct 9 2007 12:36AM
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C.R.420
Posts: 2441 - Karma: 28
lies.  heres a tip - dont be a pussy
Oct 9 2007 12:36AM
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cofreeskier
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wow that would be so much easier if girls asked guys out...christ
Oct 9 2007 12:37AM
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zepscratch
Posts: 3517 - Karma: 36
ive been asked out on dates, i was even asked to prom... as long as your not some random person its not weird its a really nice compliment, she should go for it
Oct 9 2007 12:45AM
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Jhorski
Posts: 648 - Karma: 45
Ya, i like it that way
Oct 9 2007 12:59AM
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The_Oakley_Kid
Posts: 3128 - Karma: 179
depends on the situation, but i think it would be dope for a girl to ask a guy out...  kinda switch it up a bit
Oct 9 2007 1:51AM
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P.J.S.
Posts: 1782 - Karma: 11
My girlfriend asked me out, our first date was to hit the slopes, that was a year and a half ago.  Worked for me.
Oct 9 2007 3:27AM
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dave44
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It's useful when they aren't scared of cold, heights, steeps, and can actually ski/board.
Oct 9 2007 3:53AM
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P.J.S.
Posts: 1782 - Karma: 11
You've got that exactly right.  I was fortunate enough to find a girl like that, if only everyone else was as lucky.  Nothing like ripping up the slopes with the same person well you know...
Oct 9 2007 4:01AM
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.scott.
Posts: 1034 - Karma: 27
^ha that made me chuckle.  yeah it's cool for a girl to ask a guy out, definitely a welcome way to shake things up, but it should be the exception to the rule, i think, rather than the norm.  what i mean is, it nice when a girl is at least a little patient with a guy...gives him a chance to go for it.  it's a little bit of an accomplishment for him.
Oct 9 2007 4:18AM
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hucksplat
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At the same time, its nice to get away from the wifey and shred gnar and smoke mad dubs while chanting naughty things on the chair lift.  Just saying...
Oct 9 2007 4:55AM
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Mr_Bojangles
Posts: 2585 - Karma: 16

I've been 'asked out', going out this Friday with her. Depends how you define asking out.

Oct 9 2007 4:59AM
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michelle
Posts: 6290 - Karma: 428
yup


ive done that once
and ive also asked the guy to prom


but i usually wait around for the guy to do it first
im old fashioned..
Oct 9 2007 11:33AM
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MEGAZORD
Posts: 4531 - Karma: -7
It has been done, however it is not favorable.
Oct 9 2007 12:37PM
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C.R.420
Posts: 2441 - Karma: 28
word. my girlfriend skis and i couldnt be happier.
Oct 9 2007 12:45PM
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jacqui-la-fripui
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its good but its usually somebody you dont really want to go out with, but sometimes it is which is sick.  forward girls are the shit either way

Oct 9 2007 12:47PM
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manzear
Posts: 843 - Karma: 849
I think it is very flattering to be asked out by a girl personally....so do it girls...take some of the pressure off the guys.....
Oct 9 2007 12:50PM
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J.D.
Posts: 21362 - Karma: 5,142
Yes, because equal treatment only applies to things that aren't inconvenient! Chivalry died a long time ago ladies, quit waiting around and ask.
Oct 9 2007 12:59PM
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J.D.
Posts: 21362 - Karma: 5,142
In fact, fuck it. Threadstarter, you can't vote anymore.
Oct 9 2007 1:04PM
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A@ron
Posts: 1320 - Karma: 86
u dont know what ur missin!
Oct 9 2007 1:07PM
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jacqui-la-fripui
Posts: 1119 - Karma: 12
karmtacular +4
Oct 9 2007 1:54PM
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Red_Shirt
Posts: 292 - Karma: 8
Yeah, that happened to me a couple of days ago and it was really awkward cause I said no and we are in classes together and shes a complete bitch. I wouldn't mind if random hot/interesting girls just asked me out, but if shit like this is gonna happen I'd rather just do it myself.
Oct 9 2007 2:05PM
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Mat.
Posts: 7167 - Karma: 94
so if you liked a guy snowbunny1, just because your a girl you wouldnt ask him out assuming that its his responsibility to ask you out? therefore missing out on the opportunity with some possibly great guy just because you had to much diginity to go against your beliefs?
Oct 9 2007 2:13PM
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jacqui-la-fripui
Posts: 1119 - Karma: 12
pwned,,, you got a karmtrocity +6
Oct 9 2007 2:15PM
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Mr_Bojangles
Posts: 2585 - Karma: 16
Karmaburger with extra karma for this man.
Oct 10 2007 5:52AM
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Flarestrike
Posts: 437 - Karma: 18
Agreed, I have not got the guts to ask a girl out, yet I can be friends with them.

I like one girl but I have no idea how she feels about me, that is my only problem, if she shuts me down, well ouch... If she doesn't, well that's pretty cool.

Anyway, if a girl really likes a guy, I don't think the guy would mind if she asked him out.
Oct 10 2007 6:14AM
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