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ECFS-Attitash
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anyone ever tried a long distance relationship and had it be successful...i'm in one now (I live in NH, she in CA), but i've been messing around a little and i don't really know what she's up to. Feel like its too much, but i really do love the girl. Oh well, just kinda depressed about the whole thing.

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Aug 20 2003 4:56AM
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Ds91260
Posts: 9984 - Karma: 19
whoever came up with long distance relationships either killed himself or wound up in a retard ward
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Aug 20 2003 4:57AM
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MistaSkier
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Hasn't ever worked for me, and I've tried it a whopping two times.


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Aug 20 2003 5:08AM
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Capurnicus
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If you're screwing around, how the hell do you expect anyone to feel bad for you? I mean I'm not saying what you're going for, but maybe why it doesn't work could be exactly what you're doing.

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Aug 20 2003 5:22AM
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ThisAngelicRage
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Yep, if you are messing around behind her back, she is messing around behind your's. With that kind of relationship, consider it over with. See, long distance never works out for that reason.




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Aug 20 2003 5:26AM
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Lateralis
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me and my gf live half an hour away in separate towns,we dont do see each other that much and it leads to some difficulties at times


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Aug 20 2003 6:01AM
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Ds91260
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u know, i take back what i said, i bet it was a woman who invented long distance relationships, cause women like to hold on to things that wont work like that, where as men will fix it or leave it for dead
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Aug 20 2003 6:11AM
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skibrdingbitch
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ok, i had pretty much a long distance relationship for 3 months (jail..) all together we were a couple for 5 months. long distance relationships work if you had something to base it on, like memories to keep bringing up. i really shouldn't be talking about relationships, but if the flame is burning rbright run with it and see how long you can keep it lit.
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Aug 20 2003 6:15AM
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Ds91260
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reminising gets u nowhere
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Aug 20 2003 6:19AM
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hucksterjibber15
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i have no faith in longdistance relationships. i need to get my fill of vagina way more often than that permits
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Aug 20 2003 6:27AM
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stixonmtholly
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I don't get how somebody can get close to somebody far away???


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Aug 20 2003 12:47PM
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theres gotta be some skootee closer to home. hang out in the parking lot at bars after they close. the girls hurtin for wiener will be easy to spot.

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Aug 20 2003 2:54PM
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Jib_This
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Am I the only person who can honestly say that he's had a long distance relationship work out? It's not that bad, but it's not easy. You really have to work at it. Make an effort to talk, send each other stuff, remember all important milestones like birthdays, the bullshit 1/2/3/4/5 month anniversary stuff if she's into that, and make sure you randomly surprise her with phone calls and such things. Do little things like wake her up in the morning with a phone call(easy, 3 hour time difference) and remember that if she's telling you about a bad day, an E-card will make her feel better. But if you're already fucking around on her, end it. And read what the Stix wrote, it makes a lot of sense, despite what I've written



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Aug 20 2003 3:15PM
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Jackpot
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We live in seperate towns 30 minutes away, this summer i've seen her more than i've seen my best friend...we're coming up on 5 months. When school starts we only see eachother once a week....when skiing starts, i might not get to see her at all haha, no really i'll see her less then

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Aug 20 2003 3:27PM
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pocket-rocket
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i have 2 things to say about that. 1st dont fuck around, 2nd, show her that you are there for her, but not too much..or she will end up saying you love her too much, and start thinking she doesnt love you because she sees how big your love is...
And it just happened to me like a week ago...





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Aug 20 2003 3:34PM
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Papa
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ya long distance relationships are the stupidest idea i've ever heard, my friend tried and it screwed him up pretty good,




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Aug 20 2003 6:11PM
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cj
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fuck your neghibour

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Aug 20 2003 6:30PM
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icecreamsandwich
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they can work if you want them too. my good friend has had a long distance relationship for 2 years now....and its going great for him. but if you are already fucking around then you obviously dont love her and shouldnt be with her.

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Aug 20 2003 7:45PM
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PhaedeD
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LOL just fuck hella bitchs she aint gonna know you know just fuck mad bitchs.











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Aug 20 2003 8:50PM
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Krongos
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dud long distance sucks, i was like totally into this girl and after she left it was just over, we tried but it ended like a few months after
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Aug 21 2003 1:34AM
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DSpin_9
Posts: 664 - Karma: 11
its not considered cheating if your in different states.. so mess around as much as you like
Aug 21 2003 1:37AM
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ECFS-Attitash
Posts: 2573 - Karma: 13
well i dropped the girl i was messing around with. and the girl from CA invited me to stay at her house for most of next summer, too bad next summer is so far away. im sending her shit on her birthday anyway, but the phone call was a good idea. Thanks to all.

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Aug 21 2003 5:12AM
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Melvs
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robbie has a gf? weird... I do see pigs flying outside my window.... JK buddy, good to hear you're getting some at that damn prep school of yours.
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Aug 21 2003 6:39AM
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skimack
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they don't work.-plus, what's the point of being in a relationship, if you cant hold and talk to the person face to face?
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Aug 21 2003 6:42AM
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RiverRipper
Posts: 700 - Karma: 9
Save yourself the trouble...If she is the right girl you can end up with her in the end but long distance blows unless you are older and really ready to be committed. Be young and stupid while you have no responsibilities. Unless she lives near a kick ass mountain in Cali then drag her along so you can have a free place to stay for a trip out there.


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Aug 21 2003 6:58AM
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ECFS-Attitash
Posts: 2573 - Karma: 13
yea she has a house in the mts and she lives in malibu...

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Aug 22 2003 6:05PM
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hilikuus
Posts: 65 - Karma: 10
...never work


too much fucking around goes on

oh well
cest la vie
Aug 22 2003 6:08PM
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stupid3000
Posts: 558 - Karma: 10
it seems to be working for me... hes in alabama im in washington... its tough but it can be done
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Aug 22 2003 8:55PM
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ECFS-Attitash
Posts: 2573 - Karma: 13
going to visit her next weekend...should be fun

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Aug 23 2003 6:25AM
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Sloth
Posts: 2219 - Karma: 11
shit doesnt work yo. never does untill someone gives in and decides to make the move closer.

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Apr 28 2005 4:38PM
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FORCE
Posts: 565 - Karma: 21
long distance relationships = pissed off girlfriend for only wanting to talk about sex and pissed of roomates for the sticky phone.

Apr 28 2005 4:43PM
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Sloth
Posts: 2219 - Karma: 11
fuck isnt that the truth... Just gettin over someone right now. so true. wtf

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Apr 28 2005 4:46PM
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Leckett
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long distance relationships are kinda gay i mean come on if ur only guna see them like ocne every 3 months....something will happen between then. and isnt that kinda rough not being able to see your girlfriend for so damn long?

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Apr 28 2005 4:51PM
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tricksterboardin
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umm is it just me or is this a rather old thread
but on that subject, they can work if you can see them every once in a while.

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Apr 28 2005 4:51PM
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Vicious
Posts: 3862 - Karma: 140
long distance = bad idea...just live your lives separately and if it's meant to work out, you'll cross paths again sometime.


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Apr 28 2005 4:52PM
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Jessbuff
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For sure. Eventually someone has to move, I've never heard of a long distance marriage. Unless you are planning on eventually hooking back up and living in the same place, long distance is not only failure prone but just plain a waste of time.

And who says a 30 minute drive is long distance? I've had to drive about 20 mins to see each of my last three gf's and they live in the same city as I do.

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Apr 28 2005 4:55PM
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redheadskier_chick1242
Posts: 279 - Karma: 10
long distance relationships blow. my boyfried i know from skiing, lives five/six hours away from me in new jersey. i live in mass. pretty much sucks.

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Apr 28 2005 5:16PM
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Craigskis
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After falling head over heals in love with someone over the internet, i've decieded it,s a very bad Idea, and you WILL get hurt,

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Apr 28 2005 5:21PM
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Sknsnw9
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it blows.....i was kinda dating a girl that was 3 hrs away, i had no time to see her..also when i was younger we were together for a year and half till she had to move to IL and im here in OR i was like..no i dont want to be with you anymore a couple days after she told me i was bum and so was she, she wanted to stay together but its too far and we were in HS?!?!


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Apr 28 2005 5:22PM
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*Fujative*
Posts: 8554 - Karma: 183
my friend has one. i dunno about it.they have be gonmgi out of over like a year now... she lives in ohio. we live in michigan. it has been wokring so far

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Apr 28 2005 5:23PM
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icecreamsandwich
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ive had a long distance relationship work out. my bf moved to whisterr for awhile while i was living in toronto......it all worked out, we talked everyday at least once, and i saw him for my spring break....then he moved back here. YES.

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Apr 28 2005 5:45PM
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SheilaTequila
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try him living in VT and me in UT...yes it does suck in all aspects but still, if you feel like you've found the right lad or lass you should have enough devotion to them....the least you can do is give it a try, and if shit doesn't work out then bummer...but for now witt and i are living happily ever afterrrrrr, i love him!!!

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Apr 28 2005 6:44PM
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rippinbumpskier
Posts: 1628 - Karma: 23
they dont work end it now
trust me after 4 months of dating a bitch in nh and her cheating on me break up with her now after u hook up 1 more time dont do it dude

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Apr 28 2005 6:46PM
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witty
Posts: 5616 - Karma: 178
forrrr sure miss P!...if you really care for the person and you actually love them enough to be 100% commited than for sure it can work!...but for the kid who started the thread...dont waste your time if your not sincere about it...someone will get hurt if you hang on that long and dont really care...as for me i loooove penny and i wont do anything to compromise that!...anddd i will be in salt lake in a year...so boorah!

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Apr 28 2005 6:46PM
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Sloth
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well.... the girl i was with lived only 30 min away but... its fustrating knowing that you can't allways hang out... theres stuff you just can't control. This can cause fustration! It just doesnt work out.... well actually in my case its not just to do with distance.

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Apr 28 2005 6:48PM
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Menace^beauty
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Yo, if you really like/love this person as much as you do, then why are you messing around, but whatever i would do the same thing so in my opinion break it off and go find someone else to fill your needs

Apr 28 2005 6:51PM
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Sloth
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haha. yes best way to cure a heart.. is to hook up as soon as possible.


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Apr 28 2005 6:53PM
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Sloth
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haha. yes best way to cure a heart.. is to hook up as soon as possible.

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Apr 28 2005 6:54PM
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SheilaTequila
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^on the rebound i see? hehe

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Apr 28 2005 6:59PM
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Sloth
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no rebound. no..... but it sooths the ego and all that other bull sh*t


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Apr 28 2005 7:01PM
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Jib_This
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Don't EVER listen to me when it comes to long distance relationships. I'm 100% wrong.





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Apr 28 2005 7:04PM
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