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Asking girls about previous sexual activity...
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Ok, so my friend and I are having a disagreement. I am dating this girl and my friend says that i need to ask her about what he has done before, like how far she's gone. I told him that i would rather not know and that it seems impolite to me to ask a girl that and that i am generally uninterested in any of her previous activity. He said its important because you need to know if you are gonna get some disease or something. I told him that if we ever reach that stage in our relationship, i'll find out, but for now, i don't really care. He said that she even told him about what shes done and that its not that big of a deal to ask. She told me that it's not a rude question at all but i still don't want to find out. Am I trippin or what?
oh, and by the way, i know this sounds like some straight 6th grade shit but whatever.
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haha dude i know that.. that was just an exaggeration for emphasis. If you can fit 3 condoms on your cock and keep it up to fuck a girl god bless you.
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just slip it in her cournhole, if she recoils, fuck her then, but you never know, she might take it...
And STD wise??? you can get medical records about that shit, and its justifiable, i mean, maybe she was a man...
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i think this thread is getting a little skewed. I just want to know if its a rude question or if im trippin by thinking so.
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haha man you should know anything involving girls there will always be the responce "stick it in her pooper"
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i dunno, for me i actually like asking guys i date how far theyve gone. it just makes you knowledgable to what theyve done.
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ASK A GIRL CULT or LM CULT
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at the same time!?!?!?!?!
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When you get to college this is sort of important due to disease.
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fuck that noise, if girls are slutty enough they just go out and tell you that they have nailed a lot of people.
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1. I was a virgin
2. I was drunk
3. She was actually attractive.
In my state of mind I was not going to let my self miss the opprotunity.
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in college u just wrap it up and dont go down on a girl u dont know or u think is uber slutty. my buddy got gonorrhea last year, thats the last time he'll fuck a chick he doesn't know without a rubber hahah
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yeah, def. a necessary thing to know. ask her, and wrap it up.
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Sac up, wrap up, tap up ya dumb fuck.
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odds are pretty good that she will have done at least three whorish things that you cant reconicle yourself with. dont ask.
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just ask who cares if she dosnt like it ther is alot of fish in the sea ya heard me
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Ask her...better safe then sorry. I would be suprised if she thought it was rude of you to ask.
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Doesn't matter what she's done before. She could have had sex twenty times and have nothing, or had sex twice and have HIV. You cannot tell if someone has an STD by how many times she has had sex.
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It's a total personal choice. If you don't want to know... don't ask. Hopefully if she has something you should know about (disease, whatever) she'll be kind enough to tell you.
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I would probably want to know if shes had sex before/not, but nothing more. But I wouldnt bring it up, at the right time it will come up.
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In my case, I didn't need to worry about that because I was my girlfriends first boyfriend. Here is some advice from me. If you don't really care than don't ask because it will make things awkward for a bit. However, with some guys, they think it's bad to ask and they end up sitting there wondering what happened until it drives them mad. If you want to ask then ask, don't let it bother you though, because if she really cares about you then all of that other stuff doesn't matter.
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I'm personally super open about that stuff. I told my ex everything he ever asked about. If he wants to know, then sure, I have no problem telling, sometimes I just give up the information in conversations with other friends around (I tend to talk about that stuff a lot with certain friends).
If you don't care to know, then it doesn't matter. If you actually want to know, then ask her. You have the right to if your relationship is going to involve sexual activity. It's a safety precaution as well as could help you know what you're dealing with.
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dude its cool to know how expierenced she is, to know how good she is. If she has only been with a couple guys she prolly wont be that good. So for your sake you want to know for 1. Diseases, and 2. how good she will be
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personally i would be all over what she has done. just cuz i think you should know who ur fucking. but thats tight paul, who are you dating?
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a girl named casey from sacred heart
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yeah you can. the herpes virus is the same as a cold sore. what happens is that if you go down there it can mutate and it will transfer to your face and it will be 100 times worse then a cold sore. Then if you have a cold sore and you go down on her you can give her herpes. same thing just reversed it transfers and all that jazz
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