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skierdudeguy
Posts: 6574 - Karma: 81
ive known this dude ryan since 6th grade, and now were jrs. wellllll, hes a really smart kid, athlete yadda yadda yadda. he started smoking weed. then he started smoking A LOT. for whatever reason we drifted apart a lot, but we're still cool. so he starts getting into X and coke now...pretty heavy into coke. i guess he was too fucked to drive so he let his friend (who was probably fucked up too) and his mom saw him. on top of that they have caught him drinking and driving, caught him with beer, and know he smokes a lot. his parents are stupid strict (thank god they dont know about the coke). he got a call during 3rd from his dad, saying he was gonna get kicked out if he didnt shape up. i guess his mom is having a midlife crisis or some shit, and said that either things get better or she is out. so, he and this other kid (also a jr) are convinced that they are going to get an apartment and a job, live on their own, and eventually go to college. they have no idea at all... first of all they are going to smoke all their money away. second, one works at skippers and the other doesnt even have a job. neither will have a car. they are both probably going to drop out if they have to live on their own. wow. just a rant, sorry. its just hard to believe this shit is happening to someone i know. the dude was smart as hell, and i know its trite, but he had so much potential. sad as hell
Feb 9 2007 12:09AM
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Elijah.
Posts: 9322 - Karma: 76
Tell him all that. Your not a good friend unless you help him out...
Feb 9 2007 12:12AM
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skierdudeguy
Posts: 6574 - Karma: 81
tell him what? that he wont make it? tried that. told him he could always crash here no prob. damn its just fucked up as hell
Feb 9 2007 12:14AM
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Rez4frederick
Posts: 4740 - Karma: 40
Tell his family to see a counselor together to work out the problems, just because he did drugs does not mean his life is ruined forever.
Feb 9 2007 12:16AM
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eheath
Posts: 61645 - Karma: 123,447
I know a kid like that, me and him didn't get along too well, but a lot of my other friends were tight with him. He dropped out after jr year now he has drug dealers looking for him, he keeps loosing jobs, and now doesn't have a home and constantly thizzes, does coke, drinks, and smokes. I'd help him out of you can, we tried with out friend, but he would never listen.
Feb 9 2007 12:20AM
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guava
Posts: 271 - Karma: 10
i know a couple kids who've really really fucked up thier lives cause of drugs. one's currently in jail for holdin coke, two others are heroin addicts who cant stop. sad thing is all of them are the nicest of kids who had a lot of potential but loved drugs too much i guess.
Feb 9 2007 12:20AM
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xAtticusx
Posts: 1211 - Karma: 10
sometimes when you and a close friend grow apart it would just feel awkward to tell them when theyre doing something wrong if you havent been there for them for a long time. most of the times they would end up telling you to stay out of their problems and to let them deal with it on their own.
i grew apart from my best friend whom ive been friends with since grade 2 and its impossible for me to reach out to her. she even hates me sometimes for no reason.
Feb 9 2007 12:28AM
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leckett1
Posts: 6476 - Karma: 294
oh well life goes on. i used to have a friend like that except he was a huge wigger and then he let himself slide. but oh well
Feb 9 2007 12:29AM
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OhioIsForFags
Posts: 73 - Karma: 10
yo listen to me rite now your friend is a fuckin dumbass and a grimebag. nothin wrong with toking but hes a fuckin dirtbag if hes gettin in to all that x and coke shit let it go man this kid is destined for nothing better than lying in a fuckin gutter with a syringe stuck in his eyeball hes a lowlife and hes gonna drag you down to. just remember what nas said: "best friends become strangers"
Feb 9 2007 12:31AM
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skierdudeguy
Posts: 6574 - Karma: 81
you can stop talking until you have any idea what the fuck you are talking about. id rather have this guy watchin my back any day over a self assured little punk who thinks he knows whats up
Feb 11 2007 9:53PM
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jimmychung
Posts: 6857 - Karma: 25
you need to tell him he's being an idiot, there's no future for him if you don't.
Feb 11 2007 9:54PM
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skipillager
Posts: 1275 - Karma: 20
just start talking to him again, so he's not telling you to pis of cuz you haven't been there. then just start talking to him about it, yada yada. & maybe the best thing would be to tell his dad (or get him to) that he's into yayo (coke). he obviously needs help, and his mom may just not know how to deal with it.
Feb 11 2007 10:40PM
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C.Stone
Posts: 4677 - Karma: 12
slap him around a little bit
Feb 11 2007 10:42PM
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soulskier
Posts: 17806 - Karma: 3,841
tell him to get help, if i was doing something that would pull my parents apart, i would stop
Feb 11 2007 10:44PM
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da-bling
Posts: 1145 - Karma: 11
idiots
Feb 11 2007 10:45PM
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wAy2sTeEzY4u
Posts: 5449 - Karma: 20
why did i just read most of that? i dont care about your friend, i have multiple friends like this....deal with it. i had to with my friend who got into coke in like 9th grade and i rarely talk to him anymore because haning out with me "reminds him" of doing drugs. sweet.
Feb 11 2007 10:45PM
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ilikeplants
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Exactlly. Kick his ass until he understands.
Feb 11 2007 10:46PM
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