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its kind of a weird but i was forced to go on this church retreat thing today and i met this kid from some random town, and we like hung out all day and i got his number and stuff, but i feel really bad, cuz like i have a boyfriend and stuff and i didnt tell him that and we were kinda being flirty, but i like this kid a ton but i feel really bad, and i didnt tell my boyfriend, sooo yeahh, what does everyone think
haha yea i kno..seriously ive been reading this thread twistedxfaith and it seems like you are completely retarded....you sway violently in both directions on whether or not to tell him by what total strangers say. youll be set on telling him than a second later u wont cuz sum1 else said not too. fuck i wouldnt put it past u to not even have a bf.
twisted faith, whats your name? was the thing involved with essex alliance church? i go there sometimes. ill pm, just wondering who you are caus i probably know you.
Holy shit this thread is ridiculous. You flirted with another guy when you had a boyfriend. Oh fuck! Do you tell him when you go to the bathroom, too? If he gets angry about that, he's overprotective. Anything more than that, and you'd be obligated to tell him, but... c'mon, if you couldn't flirt when you had a boyfriend/girlfriend, every conversation with the opposite sex would go:
"Hi. My name's Andrew."
"Hi. I'm Melanie."
"Where are you from?"
"Sorry, I should probably go, see you later."
It's so damn easy to slip into flirting, it's sorta fun and definitely not that big of a deal... if you must tell him, just say "Hey, I didn't tell you this sooner because I was afraid you'd be angry, but I flirted a little with this kid at my church camp. It's no big deal, nothing happened, but I thought it'd be important to let you know." Voila. You've made yourself trustworthy, open, and honest in his eyes, and you haven't really done anything wrong. Your welcome.
basically what it boils down to is this:
Flirting with other dudes is okay, as long as you would do it in front of your boyfriend, if you wouldn't you're being sneaky. I flirt with other girls all the time because it is a proven fact that girls are no fun after the flirting stage 99.99967 percent of the time. I flirt in front ogf my girlfriend all of the time, and she flirts with other guys when i'm around, because for the both of us, it's funny. Now If I were to go shag some girl behind her back I would feel bad, because I don't shag other girls in fornt of her, but If I did, I would be the biggest bamf newschoolers has ever seen. So there, you were wrong, and should face consequences if you were being sneaky.
you should tell him and make sure he knows its not a big deal. if your bothering to go online to ask people what to do, you prolly feel guilty about it or something and he's going to notice your acting differint. just my 2 cents, boss.