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its kind of a weird but i was forced to go on this church retreat thing today and i met this kid from some random town, and we like hung out all day and i got his number and stuff, but i feel really bad, cuz like i have a boyfriend and stuff and i didnt tell him that and we were kinda being flirty, but i like this kid a ton but i feel really bad, and i didnt tell my boyfriend, sooo yeahh, what does everyone think
you can still talk to other guys if you have a boyfriend... you just cant do shit with him... well... you can but your boyfriend cant know about it... wow i cant believe im encouraging this
if i may interject with my opinion. tell him you met this cool kid at retreat and dont feel weird about callin him to see whats up...if you boyfriend gets jelous and says not to see or talk to him, ide say dump him...but i dont really know anything else about him or the situation seeing how i skipped past all the other posts
I hate when chicks do this to me. Like, I'll meet this new chick, and shes super hot and cool, and after being all flirty for about 5 days she'll tell me she has a boyfriend, and then its just like, oops...
And it sucks when her boyfriend ends up being the star linebacker at his school...
well now that you have seen him and not told him you really cant tell him without looking suspicious. now that you have hidden something from him you have to keep it hidden. or tell him in a casual way. but dont be blunt about it. just make it clear that you dont see the kid as anything more than a friend. that would probably be the best way to go. if my girlfriend was like "i met this guy today who a really liked and we exchanged numbers but we are only friends, but i only want you to know so that i dont have to hide anything from you." i would be kinda jealous, but if she was like "ya i made some friends on the church retreat, it was kinda fun actually" i would be down
what is the point of this thread. Like she is the only person that has ever encoutered this and now she is going to be banished to hell for flirting with a guy while shes dating someone. maybe im just to high but this seems retarded
if youre apprehensive to tell him, then you have some communication issues, and that just isn't good. might want to start working on that. better to come clean, and have a trusting relationship, rather than a devious and secretive one. also, if you tell this nice little chruch boy that you have a boyfriend, it would give a better idea of his intensions as well. not telling him, as mentioned, is kind of putting yourself in an iffy situation; aka a slutty one. some guys can be lead on, and lead him on, and you might be in more than you bargained for. but he is just a kid, so whatever
Uh, what is your problem? You met a guy, had fun, are now friends? Does your bf not allowed you to have and make friends? Unless you're planning on hooking up with this guy, you have no issue. You're trying to make yourself have an issue that you don't in fact have. You can tell your bf... but what would you say? "uhh, so i met this guy, i was flirty with him and got his number". The only thing that would do is make your bf jealous. So don't be a stupid and stir shit up.
ok so this is where i leave my opinion this is where all the other opinions you just heard are useless... so you say your BF has a huge Ego, and thinks he's the shitnow this step may not have anythign to do with your relationship but I say you pants him in a large crowd, boxers and all, that should cut down his ego a fair amount and if he still thinks he's the shit, throw a couple merangue(SP?) pies in his face while his pants are still down... that'd be funny as shit... as for this guy situation, i say keep with your guy, but dont totally shut out the other dude, like maybe hang out with him everyonce and a while, and tell him you have a BF so he doenst suspect you want to take him like the black stallion he is... so keep goin with your bf, and if things change and you dont like your BF and you fall for the other guy, then you can probialy do a quick switch up... and dont tell you'r BF about the other guy cause mostlikely if you know men, they will have it out for the other guy and any chance they get their gonna make the guy remember not to fuck with them cause yes guys do have that thing about them that screams "You fuck with the bull you get the horns".. and yah if you follow that then you should be in the clear.
haha wow, why would anyone ever pants there boyfriend, and that would probly just boost his ego more, and why would i have random pies, you my friend are very silly
boost his ego? i think not, it'd embarrass him and soo many people would be like OMG did you see that you got owned.. and the reason why you'd do it is so you can win money... and jubejubes