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is stupid. Man alive! My bf and I broke up two weeks ago and every day without male contact feels like an eternity. I miss making out and cuddling and whatever else that led to because I used to have it every day for about the year. I'm not gonna lie, that's probably what I miss most haha. So yes. It really sucks being this "erotically charged" and having no place to unleash it :(
uh or not. it's called having low sensitivity, or not being able to manually stimulate and actually get pleasure from it, not being able to get a g-spot orgasm etc etc. It's a hell of a lot harder for a girl to get off than a guy.
And really, all you have to do is buy a ticket to Bozeman... you could BE HERE RIGHT NOW if instead of whining, you'd tried to find a ride here... Goddamn...
i too feel your pain, even though i have a girlfriend. i don't know if she's planning on breaking up with me or if we just never get the chance to really see eachother, but it's starting to make my penis unhappy.
oh it's most definitely allowed but it is hardly ever the case. to be frank with you, a guy will almost always think he is the one using you, and you could very well convince you subconsciously that it's true.
unless he is madly in love with you and you dont care for him and you will leave the moment you have your panties back on, then it will almost always be considered you're the one being used. it's just the way it works.
i've used ppl and they were well aware that they were being used, but a guy just doesn't say no to sex...so is he even capable of being used? i "used" a guy i knew had lots of feelings for me..he was an ex...i just didnt give a shit i wanted some...so i got some...he knew he was being 'used' yet he still let me use him...so i guess technically he wasnt used. see what i mean? it's a paradox.
ok what all you girls have to realize is that guys will probably be happy to fuck you. Unless you are really fat and ugly or covered in std's most guys will have sex with you. You could really go in to a bar find a guy that looks nice,talk with him for about 30min and then causaly ask him if he wants to fuck if you are semi good looking and he does not have a girl frined he will say yes.
i get how you feel. i didnt see my bf for like....3 weeks, and that was bad enough.
we both joke about if we break up we will be like "so... sat night? busy? no? see ya."
but then again...air is like sex, it isnt important unless your not getting any
hmmm I like your advie scratchmyback
it's a pretty sweet situation haha
and I'm not trying to be an attention whore. I appreciate the girls that know what I'm going through because this is pretty much the worst time ever.
and slister I agree with you. Self-pleasure doesn't do much for me either...doesn't even compare
This thread is pretty funny. I like how girls are comming out and talking about their sex drives- it doesn't happen too often. I'm taking a...lets say...VERY graffic sexuality class here at CU. At first the girls in the class (more girls than guys btw) pretended to not care and were shy about topics like mssturbation, sex drives, etc. Over time though, they have opened up. Suprise suprise, it turns out most girls want dick- a lot. One of the required books is the good vibrations guide to sex. It makes a good discussion book when lady friends are around. The shit we talk about in that class... holy shit. It is really too much to even talk about on newschoolers. We watch hardcore porn in class.
didn't even know the girl's name until we were in the cab on the way to her place! funny as shit when my buddies called me at 3pm the next day wondering where the fuck i was.
I tend to be hugely open about my sex-drive and anything sexual related... you just have to be aware of the company you're in because not everyone is the same. So as soon as everyone feels that its a good situation, everything starts spilling out.
Screw the toy... you need a new "boytoy". The whole friends with benefits thing can help inbetween relationships. Just don't let it become more than you want it to be.