Replying to I Can't Handle Much More

im sick of my mom.  I've had a curfew of 10:30, I'm 15 now, since I was in 6th grade, since she was raised in private english schools the idea of a social life at least at night, is absurd in her mind.  Tonight I asked her if I could go over this girls house, she knows the mom, and immediately I mean miliseconds, she said no.  I explained my case and then she replied that she was going to call my friends mom about this.  This has happened every time since I was in middle school saying I was going to a party.  Any tips on getting her to stop wondering why american teens get drunk for fun and not the taste? or how to accept I'm growing up and 10:30 is way too early?  Fuck I'm sick of lying that I'm staying over a friends house and then going partying!