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momoney
Posts: 85 - Karma: 10
im sick of my mom.  I've had a curfew of 10:30, I'm 15 now, since I was in 6th grade, since she was raised in private english schools the idea of a social life at least at night, is absurd in her mind.  Tonight I asked her if I could go over this girls house, she knows the mom, and immediately I mean miliseconds, she said no.  I explained my case and then she replied that she was going to call my friends mom about this.  This has happened every time since I was in middle school saying I was going to a party.  Any tips on getting her to stop wondering why american teens get drunk for fun and not the taste? or how to accept I'm growing up and 10:30 is way too early?  Fuck I'm sick of lying that I'm staying over a friends house and then going partying!
Aug 25 2006 11:23PM
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Albrecht.
Posts: 1535 - Karma: 11
other than the curfew that doesnt sound too rough. youre only fifteen

Aug 25 2006 11:25PM
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wdbo.
Posts: 4935 - Karma: 173
im afraid mothers arent easily changed you may need to figure this out for yourself
Aug 25 2006 11:25PM
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Lax_Bro40
Posts: 5166 - Karma: 18
my mom used to be the same way.. just say shes ruining ur social life and she needs to accept ur ganna be around drinking and if she really loved you and trusted u she would allow you to do this.
Aug 25 2006 11:27PM
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oakjewlery
Posts: 4905 - Karma: 32
hahah

werd

mom's are hardasses
Aug 25 2006 11:27PM
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wdbo.
Posts: 4935 - Karma: 173
i was of course speaking of most mothers i know of some mothers that buy their children alcohol i.e my ex-girlfreind
Aug 25 2006 11:30PM
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sowstochd
Posts: 1518 - Karma: 59
yeah i cant get along wit my mom either like AT all. thats why im living with living with my dad starting this year till college. ( parents are divorced)
Aug 25 2006 11:33PM
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slice_of_mustard
Posts: 731 - Karma: 9
haha only 15, dude if your over 13 you need a curfew later than fucking 10:30, i was able to stay out till 12 since i was 11, same with most my friends.
if like all your friends are staying out later, talk to her about how you are the only one and your friends make fun of you and shit, or if one of your friends has a cool mom, see if she will talk to your mom.
Aug 25 2006 11:33PM
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Albrecht.
Posts: 1535 - Karma: 11
shit that sounded gay i skipped the middle part about the girls house, thats beat

but seriously the drinking thing is pretty standard.
Aug 25 2006 11:34PM
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m1garand
Posts: 3343 - Karma: 15
yea i remember those days. you must understand that she's not just doing this to purposely ruin your life or anything...

i was in a much worse situation first two years in high school, so i just acted as mature as possible around them - tried to become as independent as i could and started doing everything on my own, then they pretty much started caring less and less all the time what i was doing. it's all about trust yo
Aug 25 2006 11:39PM
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momoney
Posts: 85 - Karma: 10
^besides me gtting caught with weed once, and I persuaded that I didn't smoke it, I've done nothing wrong and continually prove that I'm an inoccent kid that follows rules, I'm sick of her shit and seeing 11 year old kids staying out later and poking fun at me...hell my mom locks R rated movies on our TV. I think I'm just going to commence silent treatment
Aug 25 2006 11:45PM
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imotion
Posts: 1343 - Karma: 11
Im 16 and My mom used to call alot and wanna know whereiam ever since my drug bout, i passed a test when she was 100% shure i did drugs, no she doesnt call really and I can just stroll in at 12:00.

I just stopped tellin her im at parties.

What sucks is girlfriends who have gay parents.
Aug 25 2006 11:45PM
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shea.
Posts: 1606 - Karma: 193
do u want a medal,if ur rents let u out at 12 at age 11 they really musnt give a fuck about u
Aug 25 2006 11:47PM
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wdbo.
Posts: 4935 - Karma: 173
oooooooooo
Aug 25 2006 11:49PM
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Love_Wins.
Posts: 5536 - Karma: -1
Dude, just sneak the fuck outta the house, that's pretty simple, lock your door and say you're going to bed...then leave. Or ask them to get you a cell phone (if you don't have one already) so they can get ahold of you if they need to and then say you wanna stay out and that you'll call every hour to check in. But if shes truely a psycho bitch, sneaking out is a good way to go, my mom used to be crazy as hell about that stuff, but once she found out I just left whenever the hell I wanted anyway, she just more or less wanted to know where I was in case something happened, i.e. -cell phone.
Aug 26 2006 1:14AM
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eheath
Posts: 61599 - Karma: 123,017
Honesty is a vurtue.
Aug 26 2006 2:11AM
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mattster
Posts: 4120 - Karma: 41
come home, reeeeeeeal fucking drunk... that should do it
Aug 26 2006 2:14AM
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MistaSkier
Posts: 1781 - Karma: 17
You're fucked. Either move out or just think about how bad you want your freedom until you finally get it in college and then you'll OD during your first week there.
Aug 26 2006 2:18AM
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jd_1260
Posts: 1192 - Karma: 293
Just tell her to let you stay out later or else youll get the crips on her ass. Then give her a glimpse of your gun. That should do it.
Aug 26 2006 2:26AM
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RudyGarmisch
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Mommy knows best.
Aug 26 2006 2:48AM
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slice_of_mustard
Posts: 731 - Karma: 9
or mabye my mom just isnt a bitch, if your atleast over 12 or 13 you should be able to stay out. and if your parents dont let you stay out, thats just mean. and whats stupid about that is your just gonna sneak out anyway, so they might as well know about it.
Aug 26 2006 4:15AM
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Lateralis
Posts: 1228 - Karma: 332
i never had a curfew. i was like 12 staying out till2 or 3 in the morning riding our bikes around. i would just have to go home at 11 and "check in" they called it which was like 10 seconds then off we went
Aug 26 2006 6:19AM
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leckett1
Posts: 6476 - Karma: 294
dude im 17 and still need to use that excuse. but i say im going to a friends and were renting a coupekl video games and am sleeping over and its all good. then in reality i go to a party and get rowdy
Aug 26 2006 7:48AM
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jp_draves
Posts: 1866 - Karma: 37
What if he lives in a bad area, fuck he could get the shit beaten out of him or mugged if ppl think hes carrying and iPod, cash ect. 10:30 isn't that bad..she obviousally cares about you
Aug 26 2006 8:14AM
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winterkid33
Posts: 2267 - Karma: 52
dont shit urself over it. in 2 years youll have a car and shell jsut give up on trying to control you. 15 is still pretty young.im almost 18 and i have friends who soemtimes need to be back around 11.
Aug 26 2006 10:15AM
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SiverMike
Posts: 2367 - Karma: 13
Im 17, and I just got my curfew changed last week. It used to be 11 forever, and now I can come home around 1145 and its ok. Stop complaining, deal with it, and soon enough you'll be out of the house and able to do whatever the fuck you want.
Aug 26 2006 10:28AM
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philipc
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Aug 26 2006 10:51AM
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