Sex and highschool

this is totally copied from a friend's blog (leif) but I fully agree with it:
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"For the last few weeks I have been thinking about the inner workings of the social structure of most high schools. I have talked to all of my closest friends, my siblings, and a few cousins. We are all in complete agreement on how school works and that it is pretty messed up. Please think about what I have to say and give me some feedback when you finish, especially if you think I am a dumbass. The thing is that it usually takes about two or three hours of talking to really go in depth with the problems at school, so writing a blog about it is almost impossible. It is also almost impossible to write a blog about what I think of school and not sound like a stuck up parent or bitchy emo kid or something (which I hope to god I am not), so here I go.

SEX
(that got your attention didn't it)

This is the soul purpose for a relationship to most high school students. Everyone in high school obsesses over it and if they don't then they are called a nerd, a retard, a pussy, or a gay fag. Meaningful relationships have lost SO much value over the last 10 or so years. The average age that men and women lose their virginity is around 15 and 16 or sometime in sophomore year

The definition of a meaningful relationship in high school has changed from understanding and loving someone to fucking them. Example: The bases system. it glorifies sex as a home run, because the only way to show affection these days is by sticking your cock into a girl. Think about it, what is one of the first questions you are asked when you tell your friend about your new boy/girlfriend? "How far have you gone" It is like all we care about anymore is the physical side to a relationship and I think that's fucked up. I mean sure sex has gotta be hella fun, but is it the most important thing you can take out of a relationship? Is lying on a sweaty bed sticking your dick into a girl really the best way of saying "i love you"? Relationships based on sex just seem really shallow to me, and if that is all you want, you might as well just bang some hooker.

I would bet that about 70% of high school girls and guys think that the most important part of a relationship is sex and would be willing to be in a relationship for the soul purpose of sex. I'll call this group of people the 70s (for blogging's sake). Most of the "70%" girls say they want a sweet guy. They actually want a hot guy who will buy them shit and fuck on command. Most of the "70%" guys want a hot sexy girl who is stupid and will fuck on command. Most of the 70s relationships are hookups, not long lasting relationships. Hookups usually happen at parties or events with a lot of teens and are just a guy "hooking up" with a girl (or sometimes other combinations of genders), meaning that they make out, feel each other up, and if lucky, fuck each other... What the hell is up with that? I mean what have they accomplished by that, honestly. You have gotten a nice sexual high which you probably won't remember because you were too fucking drunk, what else? I don't really care what you people do once in college and out of high school, because most of us will be mature enough to make our own decisions, but I really think that it is retarded to start Fucking around in high school.(because I said this I will probably be called a stuck up pussy, but I think it takes more balls to say something you think is right when you know that 70% of your peers will completely disagree with you)

What about the other 30%?
The people who don't really give a fuck about sex? These are the people who think that a relationship between two individuals should be focused on one thing: Love. To us, a loving relationship isn't measured by bases or "how far we have gone." We are becoming quite rare, I only know very few people who have openly said that they wouldn't care if they waited to have sex until after high school, college or even marriage.

In reality the percents look more like 90% - 10%. This is because about 20% of the 30% are pressured into acting like the 70%, when they really want to be in a loving relationship. This usually happens when a goodlooking 30% person goes out with a 70% person who wants action. The pressure on the 30% is huge and they usually end up having sex or sometimes breaking up. If they have sex or act like they want it and actually don't they become part of the 20% who act like the 70%.

Another common perception in high schoolers is that guys are the people in relationships that force sex or get into relationships for the soul purpose of sex. That is complete bullshit. (70%) Girls are just as horny as (70%) guys if not more, they always bitch about how they want a nice guy(or 30% guy) who understands them and cares for them. But when they actually get one they get bored of him after a week and cheat on him. Then his heart is broken (yes, guys do have hearts), so he often becomes a 20% and tries to fit in as the stereotyped guy or 70% guy who only care about hitting it home.

Why do people only care so much about sex in the first place other than the personal pleasure?
The main reason that sex is such a HUGE thing for us teens is media. Mainly the music industry and MTV (which started glorifying sex in the 1980). The three main influences our lives are our parents, our peers, and the media. Two of those influences are telling us that we are losers if we don't have sex a lot. Don't believe me? How many rap songs can you think about right now off the top of your head that glorify either sex, a woman's body, or some other sexual reference. Virtually all new songs are in some way related to sex. there are a few R&B songs which are actually about love, but they aren't nearly as common or popular as those about sex. If you still don't believe me just attend any high school dance for 10 minutes and listen to the lyrics of the songs there.

Another influence that usually goes unnamed is Planned Parenthood. what the fuck is up with them, they bitch about how sex is perfectly normal for highschoolers and then teach us how to put on rubbers. Well I ask Planned Parenthood one thing: WHY THF FUCK DO YOU THINK IT IS NORMAL FOR HIGHSCHOOLERS TO HAVE SEX???..........BECAUSE YOU TOLD US THAT IT IS NORMAL AND NOT A BIG DEAL. DON'T BLAME OUR HORNYNESS, BLAME YOUR SHITTY JOB, YOU SHOULD JUST TELL US THAT WE ARE TOO IMATURE TO FUCK EACHOTHER ALL THE TIME. Yes most everyone our age is really horny, but that doesn't mean that you should give us the ok to start fucking eachother. What are you guys trieng to be our personal coachs for sex or something? Retards.


Please know that I am NOT against sex, I just don't think that it is not as important as most people do, at least while I am in high school. Everything that I have just said I believe is true, but I could be wrong. Please correct me, comment on me, question me, or bitch at me in any way that you can."

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I totally agree with this.
This is a wake-up call to you fucking assholes who live for sex (AKA fake-ass "gansta-fo shiz" rappers and horny high schoolers who dont give a damn about girls except for them giving head)




I am giving this as a gift to NS and have you realize what dipshits some people are.