Replying to 60 bucks WTF

Ok so here it the story

Me and this kid (on ns)decided to make a trade he would give me his siver Jaket for my computer program so its all good rite and we both send our stuff out on monday. Well 10 min ago i realise that a guy from ups came with the jacket and i have to pay 58$ for some gay tax or some shit (sent from NY) not being sure if i ordered a jacket she tells the guy to come tommorow. What do i do i dont wanna pay an extra 60 bucks for a trade i already made. what should i tell the ups guy or what could me and this guy do to get the tax price to be lower. I think for the value he wrote 100$
is there anything we could due to get the tax shit low? this is just gay (not blaming sender prolly not his fault just wanna get a solution)