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well i have a shouldur that dislocates just about everytime i do anything that puts stress on it (yawning for example). so naturaly its very rare that i spin more than a smooth 3 off a jump and dont dislocated. but heres the dilema: ski seasons over, i have until next november until it starts. do i get surgry now and ruin my summer( recovery is like 8 weeks no physical sports) or do i tough it out like i have the past 3 years. also i already have had to quit basketball and football, do i give up soccer and summersesh for the surgry?