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sKILOve07
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Alright... well i talked to one friend about this.. but she was just like oh im sorry.. so THAT WAS ALOT OF HELP.

Okay so there's this boy, whom i like alot, and hes pretty much everything i look for in a guy. Doesn't care what people think, is a complete dork and just makes me laugh.. So we hang out all the time, when we are together we have alot of fun and just make eachother laugh by being stupid. Well i guess he was telling people in school today that Im obsessed with him, and like i give him all these rides and what not, ( i hate drama!) and he says he likes me. So pretty much he just freaked out when i asked him about it, and he got mad yesterday cause i refered to another guy friend as someone 'special' ... i don't know if all this stupid stuff and fights is worth it, but he does make me really happy.. any thoughts? Oh and i forgot to say that he has like 80 other girls that also like him. But im like the one he hangs out with.. idk.
May 11 2006 9:12PM
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sKILOve07
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just a rant of frustration.
May 11 2006 9:13PM
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AtomicTweaker
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wait...so whats the problem
May 11 2006 9:14PM
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prosnurfer
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get with him. he will understand
May 11 2006 9:15PM
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Luc.
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PREACH MY BROTHA!
May 11 2006 9:16PM
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sKILOve07
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well for one he has like a ton of girls that like him, so im not sure i want to deal with all of them, and like if im hearing stuff he says and all this fighting makes it seem like he doesnt like me as he says.. i have no idea, im so confused, but i dont wanna talk to him about it cause it will bring another fight.
May 11 2006 9:17PM
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SirFryanator
Posts: 11149 - Karma: 1,415
uh girls can ask guys out u know
just keep on hanging out
May 11 2006 9:19PM
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evan25
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do will someone give me an invite to the LADIESMEN cultm PLEASEEEEEEEE
May 11 2006 9:20PM
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sKILOve07
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i fear rejection.
May 11 2006 9:21PM
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SirFryanator
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doesn't everybody?
May 11 2006 9:22PM
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MitchPee
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then don't bother trying

in order to run you must first learn to walk
May 11 2006 9:22PM
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sKILOve07
Posts: 3482 - Karma: 9
i guess? i just figured, that if he liked me he would ask me out, but also hes like a year younger than me.
May 11 2006 9:23PM
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-benedetto
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ditch the zero and get with this hero
May 11 2006 9:24PM
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SirFryanator
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lol I wish that I was going out with a girl that was a year older than me
if she was hot...
May 11 2006 9:24PM
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GhostfaceKillah
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how old are u?
May 11 2006 9:34PM
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sKILOve07
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17... sadly.
May 11 2006 9:37PM
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-benedetto
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why sadly? best years of our lives
May 11 2006 9:39PM
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sKILOve07
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well i just feel like im 14, writing about stupid boy problems on the internet lol
May 11 2006 9:40PM
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SirFryanator
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gee thanks
I'm 14 (ALMOST 15!!!) and I don't even talk about my girl problems on the net. That's not bad though, cuz a lot of skiers are hot guys who have girl experience.
May 11 2006 9:42PM
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Capt.Flannel
Posts: 10928 - Karma: 36
Ask him out. You can't be afraid of rejection or the other 80 girls will drown you. If you ask him before he can ask you, he'll appreciate the initiative. I love it when girls make the first move.
May 11 2006 9:45PM
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rossiscratch04
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i would just stay super good friends, this way u dont have to worry about breaking up and ruining a friendship
May 11 2006 9:51PM
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Melvs
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As I tell everyone who seeks girl/guy advice from me... Talk to them about it. Be like "Hey, _____(insert his name here). I was upset about the fight we had the other day. I do like you, and I know you've said you like me, so why don't we make it official and go on a date?"

easier said then done, I know, but seriously TALK TO HIM! if you don't he might think you don't like him and then shit hits the fan.
May 11 2006 9:54PM
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Stan_Darsh
Posts: 3057 - Karma: 185
throw him on a bed, jump on his dick, and fuck the shit out of him
May 11 2006 9:55PM
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sKILOve07
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yeah.. i just talked to him and he doesnt want a girl friend right now.. so im kinda bummed.
May 11 2006 9:57PM
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poncho
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you just called guys hot.thats kind of creepy
May 11 2006 9:58PM
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Stan_Darsh
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that sucks. girls are usually the ones who are weird like that not the guys
May 11 2006 9:58PM
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sacchettiadam
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awwwwwwwwwww
May 11 2006 10:16PM
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FUUUCK
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i feel loved
May 11 2006 10:19PM
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Leckett
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give him a lap dance. guy with lots of girls liking him + lap dance = you+him
May 11 2006 10:23PM
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nealpgards
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just copy paste this into an instant message to him, fill in the name, and there ya go!
May 11 2006 10:28PM
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SirFryanator
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shit ur right!
i better turn emo and cry in a corner.
May 11 2006 10:28PM
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Stan_Darsh
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that would be goddamn embarassing. asking people out wiht an instant message is worse than being emo, or snowblading
May 11 2006 10:30PM
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010
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tell him you like him. if he likes you then he will ask you out or something, and if he doesnt, then you can just keep on being friends with him, it will just be a little awkward, thats all. but at least you will know.
May 11 2006 10:35PM
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Melvs
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ohh, damn girl, that sucks. at least you tried... just don't let it ruin your friendship, it sounds like you two enjoy each other still.
May 11 2006 10:40PM
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sugarloaf
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if anyone has any relationship problems, just go staight to melvs. he's right 99.9% of the time. it's rather freaky sometimes
May 11 2006 10:47PM
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scratchskier170
Posts: 443 - Karma: 10
hey same here im 14 almost 15 with a slight girl problem

and just ask him out but at the same time in a year ull be legal and he wont so that can cause some problems
May 11 2006 11:09PM
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k2yeags
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just cuddle up close to the guy when you are hanging out alone with him and tell him how you feel. If he has a penis and is hetrosexual and likes you too then he will most likley respond positivly
May 12 2006 12:05AM
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-benedetto
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my man just said a lot of guys are hott. lmao
May 12 2006 12:07AM
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JockinJLoads
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courtney, seriously, quit being a pussy and walk up to him, grab him by his dick, and just say "lets fuck"....youll have him at the dick grabbing
May 12 2006 12:08AM
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Jaskittin
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I'll give you a hint. It involves your mouth being really really wide open.
May 12 2006 12:35AM
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skiinscotland
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ahahaha, thats got to be the best answer yet
May 12 2006 10:57AM
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Ekraz
Posts: 77 - Karma: 10
you should probly just ask him if he wants a relationship. who gives a fuck if it causes a fight im sure hell get over it. itll be worth finding out what the deal is.
May 12 2006 11:11AM
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Ekraz
Posts: 77 - Karma: 10
shit i shoulda read before posting
May 12 2006 11:13AM
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ski_cartel
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^^^ wow now theres a idea, know whats going on befor you post.

you need to just ask him out and not fear rejection, if you think about the other girls you have no chance
May 12 2006 11:42AM
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Norred
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i was thinking that too but didn't say anything.
May 12 2006 12:15PM
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iskilibertys
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too bad no...16 is legal for sex [in most states]...18 is legal for porn...so shes legal now and will be able to to porn next year
May 12 2006 12:18PM
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Scratch*my*Back
Posts: 8334 - Karma: 160
the "i dont want a girlfriend right now" line is something men continue to use even long after high school. That is something i've learned. and i hate that line.
although i have often said to guys "i dont want a boyfriend right now" so i shouldn't talk.

but hey, he prob doesnt want a girlfriend cuz he's getting all of this attention from the 80 girls u say like him. he is just enjoying being young.
what you need to do is flirt a lot with all the guys in your high school, sometimes in front of him. I used to pull that shit in high school all of the time ahahha.
now i don't really play games,they're only useful in high school so do it up!
May 12 2006 12:35PM
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sKILOve07
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yeah he goes to a different school... but i think he likes another girl and hes not over his ex.. i do believe.
May 12 2006 1:03PM
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Scratch*my*Back
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you should call him on it.

tell him he shouldn't be afraid to be honest with you and if he likes someone else and that is the reason he doesnt want a girlfriend then he should be able to tell u. if you want the friendship to be salvaged you guys will have to get past this and the only way to do it is be open.

but if you're too hurt to be his friend i suggest you stop being his friend right now or else you will end up hating him.
May 12 2006 1:05PM
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sKILOve07
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im not hurt.. it's just like whatever, im used to it i guess... i was anticipating failure when i first started hanging out with him cause it always happens. I don't think im gonna go out there and yell at him, i still wanna be friends and whatnot, im just gonna let him do what he wants i guess.. even if he was utterly amazing.. but oh well, shit happens, gotta move on, right?
May 12 2006 1:08PM
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TheQuailman
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flash him
May 12 2006 1:10PM
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