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well anyways ihave this girlfriend right and well shes supposed tobe getting on birthcontrol tommorrow but weve been worried about her possibly being pregnant the last week and a half or so. im freaked out because well she has to have a test done tommorrow before getting the shot so yeah if she possibly is pregnant she said she couldnt talk to me again not because shed hate me or anything shed just feel bad or something so i see her point of view but im also worried about the not taalking to me part i mean not to be selfish but it would be soo hard to just get over like that cause i love this girl. so do you think shes being reasonable or am i just being selfish about this and i should just get over it if it were to happen. thered be no arguments or anything just stop talking to me i think itd be wierd
ps im sure ill get some lame sarcastic comments but i just needed to vent this im just worried thats all
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dude
space it out more so its easier to read
im not sure when you stopped the sentence or when you started one.
shes probably not pregnant so dont worry, once shes on birth control alls good from there.
also, hit up the ladies men cult for lady related problems
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I hope she does get pregnant for both your sake, so you can see how much you guys are screwing up your lives.
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if she is pregnant she will eventually talk to you because she will need you for moral support, but im sure shes not pregnant.. probably just missed it or something... so don't stress
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wholly shit--fucking pregnancy is a serious thing! dude be there but quick run the fuck away!! jk b a man and she'll respect you and come back
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if she does get pregnant, use the old "fell down the stairs" trick. That baby ain't going nowhere
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what is wrong with you?! you look down on so many people, what makes you so high and mighty, if people want to smoke pot... who cares! people wanna have sex... WHO CARES, it's their life and never wish that someone becomes pregnant, of course it is a consequence.. but its just such a jackass thing to say
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yea man seriously. not cool
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the shot slowly kills you, maybe you should reserch before you jumpinto it.
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depro-provera, a 1 time ever 3 month shot that will most likey eliminate a period. and give birth control too for the 3 months.
get it right in ur ass
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dude...shut the fuck up. your an idoit. youve been called this over and over. there are many methods of birth control and if your smart about it having sex is perfectly. fine. what are you..sworn to chastity or something? fuck man you are honestly a pathetic 12 year old...something this site does not need more of
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but for your situation dawg if she does come out pregnant (if i misread, shes getting pregnancy tests done?) dont worry she cna get an abortion but dont force her into anything. i think its wrong of her to not want to talk to you if she is pregnant. your the father and shes the mother you two have to communicate to properly raise a child. so even if she doesnt wanna talk, be a man and do your duty as a father and take your share of the child aswell.
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Your terrible, but mildly funny
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haha no thats where they give the shot, but ya could be alt. birth control hahah
and for dude above...
you MUST get s preg test before being put on birth control, u cant go on it if ur pregnant. will fuck you up
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it cause he cant get the ladys him self....he is emo
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Can we have an update sometime?
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^yeah i would like an update.
and seriously dude...
i dont think she should go on the shot. i was on the shot for over a year...it fucked up my body royally..i also have a friend who was on it and she was TOTALLY fine...so the shot is a hit or miss..but the pill is a sure thing as long as she can remember to take her pill everyday around the same time. the shot gave me mad issues..i wont get into the gritty details..but just imagine it being REAL bad and painful...oh and definitely messed around with my ability to have sex for a while. sooo there u go.
on the issue of pregnancy... she probably isn't pregnant. unless you did it without protection and went inside of her and she didnt take the morning after pill..then i would worry a little ahaha. but duh.
the question is..what makes u think she's pregnant? did the condom break? that happens all the time...morning after pill is great...u can take it up to 72 hours after the fact and it is still effective.
on the issue of abortion...like dude up there said..dont force her into it..if she wants the baby u must support her and she'll respect u for that.
on the issue of her not talking to u its temporary i assure u. girls are crazy. they just need to say things and get attention for it and then all is fine. ;)
good luck darling!
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how are they screwing their lives up? by having sex? sex is a natural thing. that's what we do. if you take the right precautions, there's absolutely nothiing wrong with it.
BANDIEBOY YOU ARE A FUCKING DOUCHE BAG FOR SAYING THAT
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^yeah...sex is fun if you are prepared. they aren't ruining their lives. they're living it. bandie you've obviously never had a woman-induced-orgasm, i think palmetta has been your only lover. when u stick ur pee pee in a girl's hoohoo and you go ahhh...with no consequences afterwards because you've taken all the right precautions..then u can sit here and judge...but in all honesty i highly doubt you will get laid with that attitude my dear.
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I think its a dick move by her, I mena if you are having sex technically you should lvoe each other and if she is willing to leave you and not talk to you because you both made a mistake is messed up
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i would also like to add that there are many teenage mothers whom carry on great lives. i have two friends who have daughters and they gave birth when they were still in high school. they finished high school and now they're in 3rd year university/college. i don't believe in circumstances. if a woman is determined she can pull it together. her life will not be ruined, it will be fulfilled with a beautiful child that she will love forever. if she's of weak character she will fail miserable as a mother and at life. ruining your life because you are pregnant at a young age is a choice you make, it isn't forced upon you. there are always ways to overcome.
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