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Faoda
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I've discovered recently that I'm just 'one of the guys' among my guy friends. Originally that's what I thought I wanted. Now I'm not so sure because (and I hate to say it being 'one of the guys' but) I happen to adore one guy in the group. This poses a problem for me, doesn't it...

HELP!!!


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Feb 1 2003 2:17AM
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Sk3bUm
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if you're hot, he is down

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Feb 1 2003 2:19AM
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teneighty_skier22
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he's prolly just so used to hanging out with ya that he has no idea how you feel. You gotta tell him...


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Feb 1 2003 2:21AM
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Faoda
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Yeah... normally I'd agree with you, but I don't. And I'll tell you why: you don't just tell your best friend how fantastic you think they are when they are your BEST FRIEND! And, if he shares my feelings (which I know he doesn't because I know all the girls he thinks are hot and I'm not on that list because I'm one of the guys...) it would be messed up because if things ended badly, I wouldn't just loose one friend, I'd loose maybe... 10.


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Feb 1 2003 2:42AM
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PhattTim
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Then take one for the team dude, forget about it. I've done it before. Sometimes you have to sacrifice that for the good of everything else. Wait until you can make a move. I dunno, hell, why is everybody on this site so damn obsessed with being in a relationship anyway? At this age it's all gonna fall apart and break up within a year or so anyway so why bother? Just keep your friends.

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Feb 1 2003 6:05AM
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MacMahoooon
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Tim I dont think I could agree more with anything you just said there...sometimes thats life and as shitty as it is you cant do much about it. Maybe you have to just enjoy what you have now.

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Feb 1 2003 11:03AM
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coz
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that's why you have to meet people outside your regular 'group'. i just recently broke up with the girl i had been dating for about 9 months.. but that hasn't stopped me from going out and having a good time with new people. as i see it, who knows what may come about the next time you meet somebody, so there's no sense in being cynical about it. hearts will be broken, but you will find with more breakage, the recovery time begins to shrink. of course, this is speaking from only my experience.
Feb 1 2003 11:15AM
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what the fuck?
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Feb 1 2003 11:19AM
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Faoda
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I'm not obsessed with being in a relationship. I just happen to have this obsession with wanting to lick this guy's teeth. Is there anything so wrong about that?


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Feb 1 2003 4:33PM
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lizziebeth
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so do it then.

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Feb 1 2003 6:40PM
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l_KeViN_l
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yea their might be something wrong if you wanna lick some doods teeth....


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Feb 1 2003 7:09PM
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lineskier10
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i think Sean has said exactly what i was gonna say
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Feb 1 2003 7:25PM
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Faoda
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Okay... maybe not just his teeth then. His entire body then.


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Feb 1 2003 10:22PM
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skier_chick_360
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Faoda I know where your coming from and I've been there basically my whole life. You really got figure out what means more to you.. the friendship or confessing whats on your mind... If he doesnt feel the same way then you might screw up your friendship cause things will turn awkard.. been there done that!! So you just need to know whats important to you.. maybe talk to some of the other guys and a get a feel for whats being said behind your back, ud be surprised! OR things could work out in your favour and find out that hes been harbouring the same feelings but just to scared to tell you. It all depends on whether or not you wanna take a chance and risk the friendship.
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Feb 2 2003 12:13AM
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PhattTim
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and then you can lick his teeth....

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Feb 2 2003 12:23AM
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UpDawg
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tim's got it right...dont get into a relationship to begin with, its bullshit, especially in your teenage years
Feb 2 2003 11:15PM
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I'm crying myself to sleep tonight
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Feb 2 2003 11:23PM
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Feb 3 2003 12:52AM
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Faoda
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Jay, are you crying yourself to sleep tonight because I (your one true love) have broken your heart? You know what? You live in Ontario! I live in Vancouver! Until you come out here, well, what can I say... I happen to gravitate toward poetic guitar players.


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Feb 3 2003 1:45AM
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rebel
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Poetic guitar players? Blah... he smells. My heart is broken, and I will never love again.
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Feb 3 2003 12:54PM
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kevywevy
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well why don't you try and make him see you as something other than 'one of the guys'? people see you how you want them to see you. and if you don't wanna do that then just do what tim said and forget about it.
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Feb 3 2003 1:45PM
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Faoda
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Awww... Jay... I'm sorry.
And no, he doesn't smell. Well, he DOES smell, but he doesn't smell bad. He smells good.
I dunno. I guess being one of the guys isn't such a bad place to be. It's actually kind of good in the end. The memorable little moments (like today's lunch) are what makes everything worthwhile.


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Feb 3 2003 7:14PM
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Itsbackfliptime
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just lick his teeth. See what he says. If its bad then just say he should brush more. If he grabs you and rips off your clothes then you made the right choice.

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Feb 3 2003 9:38PM
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3ski6guy0
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good plan!!!, lick his teeth?, what the fuck?, if i had the opportunity to do any chick (in ur case a guy) why the fuck would u lick the teeth, go down low!!! how low can u go? haha

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Feb 3 2003 10:03PM
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rebel
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Sorry isn't going to make me love again.
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Feb 3 2003 10:32PM
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goatkilla
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You can lick my teeth, it will be cool. We dont even have to go out or anything. Bring on some fucken teeth licken.




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Feb 4 2003 10:57AM
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YardSale
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if you two are good friends, it shouldn't make a difference to tell him how you feel about him. even if he doesn't feel the same way. you never know how he feels about you, just because he doesn't include you in the list of girls he likes, he could still have mad feelings for you. just go for it, you'll regret it if you don't. i don't really know you two, but i think things can only be better between you if you tell him. if he's not mature enough to stay friends with you for saying you're into him then he doesn't deserve you anyway.
Feb 4 2003 11:25AM
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Caden
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2 things to say...
#1. Drunken sexual appeal(never fails).
#2. guys don't usually bounce on the friendship kuz a girl likes him... if anything may make his ego go up, or if hes mature, he'll handle it lightly and keep the friendship.. i say you should maybe talk about it with someone else in the 'group' because maybe the feeling and worries are mutual?




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Feb 4 2003 1:34PM
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Faoda
Posts: 381 - Karma: 10
Yeah, he's mature. He's very bright. He needs to have things like when someone likes him spelled out for him because otherwise he won't get it, but yeah, he's pretty mature and pretty bright. But yeah, I could also ask one of the other guys.


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Feb 5 2003 2:09AM
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swissmiss27
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caden's advice is the best. even if the guy denies you you won't lose him as a friend. if anything that would make him see you as a sexual being for the first time and who knows what that could lead to in the long run. maybe they'd hook you up with some other cool guy and they'd definitely all help you ward off any guy you didnt like.
girls in situations like this have so much power. there's only 2 possible problems which i have encountered - 1) when more than one of the guys wants you and you don't want any of them 2) when interested guys with potential don't approach you because they're intimidated by all your guy friends.
Feb 5 2003 12:55PM
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