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Rapt0r
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Ok... i need everyones input. Theres this girl im in love with but she has a boyfriend that isnt even in the same country. Basically, everytime she gets off the phone with him, she is crying. I don't know why. So when she wants to talk about it, she talks to my friend Jake. I'm amazingly jealous of this. So... is jake the friend that she can tell anything to and nothing else? Or is he the friend that she can talk to and if she breaks up with her existing boyfriend, they will hook up?

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Jan 23 2003 1:45AM
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PhattTim
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Aight. Hmmm. Are you as close to the girl as this jake dude? Coz yeah, if they break up then he is most likely the guy that she's going to go and talk to about it. I dunno about hooking up though, I guess there's a chance coz that can quite often happen but it may not. I dunno, tough call dude.

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Jan 23 2003 1:50AM
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Rapt0r
Posts: 2041 - Karma: 10
yeah it fucking sucks, im beating myself up cuz im so jealous

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Jan 23 2003 1:59AM
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PhattTim
Posts: 13943 - Karma: 83
I guess if you wanted to be super crafty you could weasel your way into that postition, haha. You could try become that guy.

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Jan 23 2003 2:03AM
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Phrosty
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you should kill him then go to jesusjr.com and add him to the enemy's list and the AIM section.

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Jan 23 2003 2:07AM
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lizziebeth
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rule number one: don't ask anyone on here for advice involving your love life.

just tell her how you feel. be either blunt about it or casually sneak in the fact that you're in love with her into one of your conversations. they way you tell her depends on your relationship with her.

but above all: you do what you want. don't listen to anyone else.

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Jan 23 2003 3:13AM
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PhattTim
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Pfffff, if you tell her how you feel she'll either laugh or give you the awwwwww, I'm sure you'll find someone perfect one day. You can't tell her! Well you can but it would have to be a calculated risk aye. Hmmm, good luck bro.

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Jan 23 2003 3:25AM
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lizziebeth
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also talk to this jake character and see where his intentions lie.
as for tim's comment: well, wouldn't you like to know if someone was 'in love' with you?

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Jan 23 2003 3:45AM
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PhattTim
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haha, yeah yeah, I know I know, I guess you're right there, damnit,you got me, hha.

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Jan 23 2003 3:49AM
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switch_skodeo
Posts: 304 - Karma: 11
Jake is the friend that she can talk to. However, I've often been this character and trust me, if anything it means that he won't hook up with her. He probably wants to but she won't because she just really sees him as a friend, i.e. 'non-threatening'. I mean, if you were a girl would you tell your soul to some guy that you liked while going out with some other guy?
Jan 23 2003 4:02AM
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PhattTim
Posts: 13943 - Karma: 83
I dunno, I've been the 'jake' before a lot of times, and once it ended up in a 12 month relationships. And other times it's been me saying that we shouldn't date, I guess it's just coz I'm so damn sexy, you sexy rapt0r?

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Jan 23 2003 4:13AM
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teneighty_skier22
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give her a BJ, then she'll love you forever...


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Jan 23 2003 11:58AM
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Ds91260
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heres what u do....

the moment u hear they broke up kidnap jake and tie him up in ur basement, blindfolded so that he wont know it was u

then just 'happen' to find her somewhere and tell u heard what happened and if shes alright and have a good long talk about it, take her to eat and stuff to

then release jake in the middle of a forest and hell never know it was u

when jake goes crazy tellin the girl what happened shell think hes a paranoid psyco or somthin and boom! jakes outa the picture

...but since this wont work, just tell jake u like her and maybe hell backoff a little bit, and just be a good friend to her, but if jake likes her too, ur going to have to kill him, its the only way
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Jan 23 2003 6:41PM
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UpDawg
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go on jerry springer with it!
Jan 23 2003 6:46PM
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lizziebeth
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'but if jake likes her too, ur going to have to kill him, its the only way...' hahaha, that was gold! i agree.

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Jan 23 2003 7:11PM
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PhattTim
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HAHAHAHAHAHAHA, I love it!!

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Jan 23 2003 8:54PM
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ski_615
Posts: 67 - Karma: 10
one of the first steps to getting a girl to like you is to let them know that you like them. that way, they actuallly know who you are, and they might 'consider' thinking about you at some point. But then, i havent had a girlfriend my whole life, so what do i know?
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Jan 23 2003 9:36PM
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PhattTim
Posts: 13943 - Karma: 83
yeah or you could just kill the guy, haha.

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Jan 23 2003 9:40PM
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Itsbackfliptime
Posts: 18901 - Karma: 75
get her drunk and then do her. Or just flirt with her a lot until she breaks up with the guy in the other country.

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Jan 23 2003 9:59PM
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PhattTim
Posts: 13943 - Karma: 83
Mmmmm, nah, KILL HIM!!

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Jan 23 2003 10:03PM
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Taxes_are_stealing
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Man im in the fucking same position, first i was debating starting a fight with the guy but than i was like no cause i might get carried away and adreneline and all and hurt him to much and end up looking like a insensitive jerk so now i dont know what to do.


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Jan 23 2003 11:17PM
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MSPbum
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Tell her that 'jake' and the boyfriend from the other country are secret gay lovers. That always works.
Jan 24 2003 12:14AM
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TAK
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Dude, just forget about everything you want. Talk to her about how she's feeling and what she wants. If you look like you care, she'll like you. If you do care, she'll love ya. Get it? Selflessness.


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Jan 24 2003 5:23AM
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lineskier10
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Ds91 your plan is great and it almost surely will work
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Jan 24 2003 11:07AM
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acc
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haha...go on jerry springer....wtf
Jan 24 2003 4:13PM
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Capurnicus
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i know what you mean man, its the worst when you know the girl would be perfect for you and you for her, but i think if you let her in on it...it make ease it up for you, you know, you won't put yourself under a guillotine, besides if you never tell her that you love her, its probably not gonna go anywhere, what would be optimal is first to get jakes posistion..which is hard, but basically always be there for her, always, and really try to give her your own situation that relates to her, then the next stage is turning this friendship into romanticsm, which is very tough because these girls get thinking not to ' ruin a friend ship' which maybe would be a reason not to become jake in the first place, but if you do get jake's place, the one thing for sure is to just kiss her, once that happens she'll get it, she'll understand that you're perfect for her, IF you are, but really man its more worth it to just really care about her...things will come out best that way
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Jan 24 2003 10:37PM
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Ski_Instructor_Mike
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find - someone - else.

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Jan 26 2003 11:50PM
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Chauncy
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Here's what u do. Tell Jake to 'put in the good word' for you. If he doesn't, get all your friend and form and angry mob of like 20 people. Then beat the crap out of him and poke him with sticks and throw snowballs at him until he gives up. If he doesn't, make him cross a large body of water in a shopping cart in the spring when the Ice is starting to melt. Breake all the ice and leave him there. Then you can shoot paintballs at him. It worked for me!
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Jan 27 2003 10:49PM
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Rapt0r
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ive decided to shut her out of my life and find someone else. if she doesn't want to even talk to me, then she can go to hell. fuckin bitch ruined my life

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Jan 27 2003 10:58PM
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Ski-hobo
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kill the competition, its that easy

Jan 27 2003 11:37PM
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Chauncy
Posts: 61 - Karma: 10
not kill, phycological torture. I sound smart when I say that!
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Jan 29 2003 7:40PM
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mariberries
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She thinks that the Jake guy is more brotherly/friendish. THe only reason she'll maybe hook up w/him is if he initiates. Most likely it won't last though. Don't ya worry. If she's stupid enough to 'date' someone way the hell far away like that and is always crying whenever they communicate, and she doesn't like you. she's stupid and you deserve better.
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Jan 29 2003 8:53PM
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Chauncy
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Jake is probably gay.
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Jan 29 2003 10:45PM
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Capurnicus
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if you care more about the relationship than the girl you don't love her
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