Replying to AM I a Player???

So I need to see what you guys think.

I asked this girl out last week at a bar I go to all the time. She said "yes". Ok very good. This girl is amazingly hott! We still havnt gone out and it seemed like we were never going to go out, but we did talk all the time. Then on sunday I was at that bar again and another hostess asked me out. At first I didnt want to cause I didnt want either of them to think I was a player. But I asked my friend who is a waitress there and she said it was no big deal since I wasnt "with" either of them. It was just a date. Now the first girl hates me and thinks im a player and wont even talk to me. This sucks!!

I dont think im a player. What do you think?