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scarroll
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Hey, I am in a bit of a sticky wicket. There is this girls who I like and I am pretty shure she will say yes if I ask her out. I was planing to ask it to her face yesterday because we were hanging out all day. But sadly I never found the right time and didn't have the balls. Now I am in trouble, she is probobly expecting me to ask her out and she is probobly confused about why I didn't ask her yesterday. I am afraid if I wait until we hang out on friday that would be to long so how lame is asking someone out in a text message? Should I just call her? And finally I don't really know what to say (Hi will you go out with me sounds bad)
Nov 21 2005 4:48PM
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Ski_Unit_19
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i only read the first 2 sentences but i know what you need to do...message becky
Nov 21 2005 4:49PM
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highSPEEDchase
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^ HAHA true.

what do you mean by ask out? like to be your gf or just to go on a date. the latter is easy man.

"hey i had a good time with you the other day. would you like to go to on friday?"
Nov 21 2005 5:01PM
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scarroll
Posts: 420 - Karma: 10
Heh the former. I know it's not exactly 'e-cool' to ask on a forum but I don't want to mess this up. The beg question in what to say and if it wrong to ask in a text.
Nov 21 2005 5:03PM
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Skipig25
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its kind of corny. But definatly talk to her by phone or text, tell her you had a good time, but wait to ask her out. Phone is a better option if you can't wait tho
Nov 21 2005 5:06PM
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highSPEEDchase
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dude by phone or in person, NOT IN A TEXT.
Nov 21 2005 5:07PM
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Scolson
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Yeah definitely just give her a nice Swedish message, use lots of warm oil. Worked for me.
Nov 21 2005 5:09PM
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Ski_Unit_19
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learn how to spell before you try to be a funny guy...dumb ass
Nov 21 2005 5:13PM
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Scolson
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Sorry man, it was the first thing that popped into my head. I was like, "woah, I must sow the world what a superior being I am!"


It basically all went downhill from there.
Nov 21 2005 5:20PM
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bigkicker
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you better be 12
Nov 21 2005 5:23PM
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crooks
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just do it u pussy
Nov 21 2005 5:26PM
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*BeckyK*
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So. Heres my advice. Don't text her. Just don't do it because its not super cool. Wait until Friday and make it super special like bring her flowers or something special and plan a nice real date like out to dinner at a nice restuarant and say "Ive had so much fun hanging out with you lately, and I would love nothing more than for you to be my girlfriend. I was going to ask you out earlier, but I wanted everything to be perfect." Trust me, a little effort goes a LOOONG ways.
Nov 21 2005 6:26PM
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scarroll
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That sounds awsome it's just thats not something she would dig. We have been friends for a while and I know thats not something she likes. Someone actually did that to her once and she just thought it was weird. That and I'm only 15 so whatever that has to do with anything. I think I;m going to call her a little later and ask her. It's not like no one (her included) know I'm going to asker her out. Infact the other day the sent me a text that said "What are we" and some weird shit like that. The baisicly set it up for me to ask her but I didn't want to ask in a text and when I called her I didn't have the balls. I guess I just keep procrastinating but I;m going to call tonight. I tell you how it goes.
Nov 21 2005 6:35PM
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*BeckyK*
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Word. Definitely go for something she would be more apt to respond to. I just threw that ides out because a lot of girls would love that. And if shes hinting for it, then its probably best to do it ASAP and show that you're not just ignoring her.
Nov 21 2005 6:39PM
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shrEddie
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goddamn, "apt" is a great word
Nov 21 2005 7:13PM
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cjgncjgn
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it really is!
Nov 21 2005 7:30PM
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sniper_6
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hilarious
Nov 21 2005 7:34PM
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SchweitzerSki
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do it before friday. there's a chance she could lose interest just get the balls and do it......come on
Nov 21 2005 7:35PM
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AFEATHERSTONE
Posts: 438 - Karma: 199
ok she hinted to u to ask her out, just go up to her on friday and ask if she wants to go out to eat or see a movie. she'll be down.
Nov 21 2005 7:37PM
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k_Boss957
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i dare you to ask it to her face
Nov 21 2005 7:37PM
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AFEATHERSTONE
Posts: 438 - Karma: 199
do it in front of her face then she will see that u have balls to ask her out.
Nov 21 2005 7:39PM
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VKarma185
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umm call her up and just be like i have to see you before friday, lets do somethin tomorrow...and if you aren't 16 you better find a way to her damn house. and then ask her then...that way on friday you guys can bone cause it will be your second "date"
Nov 21 2005 7:58PM
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zepscratch
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just sack it up dude
Nov 21 2005 8:11PM
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