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*BeckyK*
Posts: 1142 - Karma: 11
Fuckin sucks. The boy Im in love with lives in Colorado (Im in Washington) and we just got in a fight and the only thing I want to do is go down there... But parents fuckin suck and would call the cops if I just took off. I don't know what to do. Just thought I would share how much love sucks unless its going good.
Nov 6 2005 2:05AM
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Ice-Is-Scary
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long distance relationships are absolutely pointless. It's all the mistrust and bad shit of a normal relationship without any benefits.
Nov 6 2005 2:06AM
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k2yeags
Posts: 2320 - Karma: 27
thats a bummer
Nov 6 2005 2:06AM
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k2yeags
Posts: 2320 - Karma: 27
idk about her, but it can be really nice to have friends out of state that you can talk about anything with
Nov 6 2005 2:08AM
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Ice-Is-Scary
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sure but I mean whats the point really, you don't get to spend and QT together and you always have to wonder about your partner. Talking on the phone for more than 30 seconds is agony for me
Nov 6 2005 2:09AM
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freezed
Posts: 12973 - Karma: 500
silly high school "love".

you'll find another boy in a few weeks, dont sweat it.
Nov 6 2005 2:09AM
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*BeckyK*
Posts: 1142 - Karma: 11
No. You don't understand.
Nov 6 2005 2:10AM
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GotamaBCshredder
Posts: 5062 - Karma: 424
thanks for being so helpful assmunch
Nov 6 2005 2:15AM
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Ice-Is-Scary
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Yeah, soulmates! No offense but everybody feels that their "bond" is more special than everyone elses. I can almost promise you within the next year you'll look back on this thread and either laugh hysterically or cry.
Nov 6 2005 2:17AM
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RKF
Posts: 1527 - Karma: 342
yeah love does suck. im in love with one of my best friends (who is a girl). and she just had a crazy harsh breakup... and like 5 other guys like her. and cause we are such good friends chances are we wont go out. it sucks.
Nov 6 2005 2:19AM
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*BeckyK*
Posts: 1142 - Karma: 11
I feel sorry for you. To not believe in true love... you're missing out.
Nov 6 2005 2:20AM
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k2yeags
Posts: 2320 - Karma: 27
so is this long distance thing a relationship? or are you just friends?



and i like the zen in your signature
Nov 6 2005 2:21AM
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gmack24
Posts: 4636 - Karma: 31
ehh you might "love" this kid but chances are a few months from now it will be oveer...long distance relationshps just don't work, sorry
Nov 6 2005 2:22AM
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Ice-Is-Scary
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I'm missing out haha, you live you learn
Nov 6 2005 2:23AM
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SteezePatrol
Posts: 10281 - Karma: 36
holy crap it's just some hormonal female, they always think they're in love, until the hairy man slave named teddy can bring home a bigger slice of cheese
Nov 6 2005 2:25AM
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*BeckyK*
Posts: 1142 - Karma: 11
Its worked for about a year or so... So I only have a few months left, huh? Bummer.
Nov 6 2005 2:25AM
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SteezePatrol
Posts: 10281 - Karma: 36
is the only reason you made this thread to convince yourself that you think your not wasting your time with some guy who's bangin mad bitches anyway






yea, i said it







and I know at least one other person thinks I'm right
Nov 6 2005 2:28AM
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Ice-Is-Scary
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I'm not trying to be a dick here, in fact I really hope it works out for you. But believe me there have been 1000000000's of people who have felt the same way you did and it crumbled, just don't set yourself up for a mental breakdown thats all. I've seen these relationships torment people inside and out
Nov 6 2005 2:30AM
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SteezePatrol
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ice your smart, who was that guy, possibly jerry lewis or something like that, he worked for the UN, and had a mental breakdown when his long distance relationship with AIDS in africa didn't work out because dubya put all the bling in the oil snatchin?
Nov 6 2005 2:31AM
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P-JO
Posts: 6853 - Karma: 75
whos to say what true love is though. I mean true love could come as a long distance relationship, you never really know. But i'd agree with the fact that it doesn't seem like it would work, talking on the phone is the basis of your relationship. move on.
Nov 6 2005 2:35AM
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GotamaBCshredder
Posts: 5062 - Karma: 424
you really don't know without knowing the situation, and really you haven't lived through that much, and if you have, you probably need to grow up and do something with your life then beeing on newschoolers forever.
Nov 6 2005 2:39AM
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k2yeags
Posts: 2320 - Karma: 27
who is that directed to?
Nov 6 2005 2:50AM
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jchmarti
Posts: 158 - Karma: 10
The reality of the situation is she may be “in love” who’s to say. So how about every one just lay’s off her. And a piece of advice, and I know my post count is low, but just don’t post this kind of personal information, it’s just an invitation to cop shit.
Nov 6 2005 6:29AM
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Mr_Bojangles
Posts: 2585 - Karma: 16
^word, take no notice of the post count, this guy knows his shit...
Nov 6 2005 6:44AM
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sugarloaf
Posts: 7866 - Karma: 299
love is pooop, but I really do hope you and your boy work it out. cheers to you for surviving a long distance relationship.
Nov 6 2005 9:37AM
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dandoy
Posts: 5522 - Karma: 13
Exactly like that.
Nov 6 2005 9:40AM
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Adamskinick
Posts: 3353 - Karma: 126
Why don't you just explain the whole situation to us, maybe we'll give you a better response..
Nov 6 2005 10:27AM
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brogilvie
Posts: 2607 - Karma: 123
Same boat as you bud.... In the same Boat...
Love its a mother FuCKER.
Nov 6 2005 10:47AM
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Aasert
Posts: 1583 - Karma: 9
love sucks for sure :(
Nov 6 2005 10:51AM
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skiierman
Posts: 28699 - Karma: -5,563
Ummm... How old are you?
Nov 6 2005 10:51AM
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lorida
Posts: 2833 - Karma: 46
"the only thing I want to do is go down there... But parents fuckin suck and would call the cops "

am i the only one that thinks this is funny (in a dirty way of course)?
Nov 6 2005 10:56AM
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Ski_Unit_19
Posts: 8188 - Karma: 38
yeah that is def important
Nov 6 2005 10:58AM
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bighit
Posts: 1178 - Karma: 33
i hate to break it to all of u but there is no such thing as love
Nov 6 2005 11:47AM
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passion4this
Posts: 1568 - Karma: 11
there is.. you just havn't felt it yet...
Nov 6 2005 11:48AM
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spin
Posts: 1330 - Karma: 11
^needs to get out more

becky, what about thanksgiving break? if your in college which it sounds like you are or even highschool you probably get enough time off to rally down to colorado & see him.
Nov 6 2005 11:52AM
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jenski*
Posts: 540 - Karma: 12
hey ... i don't know your circumstance fully but if its already worked for a year thats pretty amazing, and i do believe int rue love, id ont think ive found it but props to you if you have, im sorry for your argument but you guys seem like you'll be able to work it out, and if you can't and you do end up breaking up at least you are not in the same state so you won't have to see him and be constantly reminded of him, however i have afeeling thingsw ill be okay, your relationship seems strong and i think its awesome you found someone you truly love, just remember take things in stride so if it doesn't work out realize it wasn't meant to and just have fun!! your young .....
Nov 6 2005 11:55AM
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badboysouth2
Posts: 42 - Karma: 10
"LOVE" IS JUST A CHEMICAL REACTION IN THE BRAIN.

STUPID BITCH
Nov 6 2005 11:58AM
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bighit
Posts: 1178 - Karma: 33
^change ur icon and i do actully belive in love i just wanted heat the argument....
Nov 6 2005 12:00PM
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crooks
Posts: 14693 - Karma: 786
holy shit i just realized it wasnt really bishop
Nov 6 2005 12:02PM
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+[wall.e]+
Posts: 1928 - Karma: 18
Love sucks
Nov 6 2005 2:36PM
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skiierman
Posts: 28699 - Karma: -5,563
You want to see amazing? You should see a couple at our school. They've been dating for 5 years going onto 6.
Nov 6 2005 3:14PM
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xbeyond
Posts: 25 - Karma: 10
They can work if you're dedicated enough and have strong enough feelings.

Rather you than me, though.
Nov 6 2005 3:45PM
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HSFCpro
Posts: 412 - Karma: 10
damn he just just comes right out spills the beans haha we all know its the truth
Nov 6 2005 3:50PM
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Ryanvdonk
Posts: 12811 - Karma: 1,971
sweet, a skiing girl who lives in washington, i thought they were extinct.
Nov 6 2005 4:02PM
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PurpleSkier
Posts: 5634 - Karma: 311
I know what you mean. I had/have one in WA, and I'm in MT. She's finishing up her College, and I'm traveling the world, and doing my photography thing. So we're busy and far apart. Things get so fucked up so easily. Because like in every long distance relationship the whole discussion of, maybe we should wait until our lives slow down and revisit the situation when we're back in the same place. We tried that, it doesn't work if you really love the person. So I'd say, if you really feel that you are soulmates, savor the moments you do get together. The decision to date around or stay committed is up to you. I'd recommend at your age probably going that route, go on a few dates, see if you feel anything new and exciting, if it's simply not the same, savor every moment you get with that special person.
Nov 6 2005 4:04PM
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freezed
Posts: 12973 - Karma: 500
alright. thats what you believe right now.

but come back in a few years, and you'll be like, dang, that one kid was right.

it's not like i have never been in a situation like that, i've been dating a girl for almost 3 years, i'm not just naysaying.
Nov 6 2005 4:11PM
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Calb3rt
Posts: 6005 - Karma: 2,203
i know how you feel over the summer there was no snow and there was only snow below the equator, let me tell you, thats a long distance relationship. but alas snow has fallen and i have been reunited with the one i love once again...
Nov 6 2005 4:17PM
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skiierman
Posts: 28699 - Karma: -5,563
Damn dude that was deep... Until I read the part about the dogs fucking the Pope.
Nov 6 2005 5:32PM
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SnowKristaL
Posts: 637 - Karma: 15
I am sorry girl...I hate fighting with the one I love. You guys sound like you are going to be ok though...I was in a long distance relationship once and he was my best friend for a good 2 years. I was very young, only 15, but I totally understand. I wish the best for you guys.
Nov 6 2005 5:46PM
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cdnskigirl89
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Yep , I know how you feel, I'm in a long distance thing too, he is coming this weekend tho, cause it's my bday, can't wait
Nov 6 2005 6:14PM
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