Replying to I broke all the rules and fucked up (again)

ok for this story to make sense you have to know how I am. im very open minded im pretty much open to anything. 1 thing that I will never ever do is cheat on a girl, I just cant do that and I cant have sex with a girl that I know has a boyfriend. anyways that said heres the story/life lessons

in the building im in theres a really hot chick/women (shes 34) anyways I hung out with her a bunch of times and she seemed single so one day watching a movie turns into sex. which is fine since shes seriously hot. and after I guess like 15 minutes she says and I quote: "Ohhh Tim your so much better than my husband".

so at this point im like shes messing with me ive never seen her with a guy. and I say "you have a husband?????"
she explains to me that hes in jail he was pulled over for speeding and had a gun in the car.and hes coming out in 4 weeks. so I think the situation over here is a break down:

-im having sex with a neighbour (dont have sex with a person that lives or works with/near you

-im having sex with a married women (personal no no)

-her husband owns a gun and is coming out of 3-4 years of jail

and now shes telling me she was going to leave her husband anyways and we should be together and we should run away together (and shes serious about this)

yeah so todays lesson. dont do what I do