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What do you say to your friend at his mother's funeral?
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"now would be a good time to tell you that i fucked her 2 weeks ago"
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lat, you are bad.
good friend?, just "sorry man, but let's get shitfaced"
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^That figures, coming from you.
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just say sorry and give him a hug or something.
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ummm just give condolences and buy him a big bottle of his favorite liquor and get him completle smashed
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^ thast probly the best thing to do also tell him how sorry u are for him an shit like that....
peace
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ya, my friends mother died. just be like "i'm really sorry," then give him a hug then go "if theres anything you need, let me know. anything at all, i'm here for you" just let him know that you are there for him, support means a lot
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My dad unexpectedly passed away almost a year ago. It was a week before Christmas and I was supposed to fly home in few days when I got that dreadful call. It was definitely the hardest thing I've ever had to deal with. Nothing anyone says can help really. Only time and good memories can help ease the pain....and friendship. Instead of talking about the lost loved one try to talk about somehting that you guys have in common. Plenty of people are going to be saying "sorry" and "i'm there for you". Try to take his or here mind off the situation. That's what helped me anyway.
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I lost my mother a couple years ago. What I needed was a friend who would be there and also be able to take my mind off things. Its less what you do but more how you act. Take him out for a drink, go golfing, skiing anything so he's not at home feeling depressed with other depressed people
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I would try to get this out of his head. Its easier to accept death my not thinking too much about it. I will try to be as close as possible.You know a true friend
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I know a kids whos mom died of cancer a year or two ago. We were like best friends like 7th to 10th grade, then we kinda separated cuz we all thot he was gay... I felt kinda bad when I heard she had passed away because I knew his mom real well and she was a cool lady. Dude isnt gay tho. I chilled with him and my other dude a few days ago and we got high.
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oh my god lat. i think after i recover from the initial shock of how horrible that is i might actually start laughing hysterically
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Just let him know that you will be there for him if he needs anything. You can say "sorry" if you want but he'll be hearing it from about 250 people. As long as he knows that you've got his back if he needs to talk or if he needs cheering up or anything. Also, don't try and emphasize it if he is coping pretty well. What will help the most is if everything else in his life is the same as it was before.
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jesus christ woman. as if im serious. fuck your dumb slut
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nothing in the form of words really helps in that situation, which i have been in. a look in the eye, a firm handshake, and a calm, generic "im sorry" is your best bet.
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my freinds dad died 2 yrs ago that we were all tight with and the only thingi could do was get him high and wasted and he started cryin sum and this is the hardest kid i kno so understand that shit
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just hang out with him, dont say much but dont say not enough - its tricky, just be there for him
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i was gunna say what lat said but i should of known he would beat me to it.
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i was gunna say somthing like that shit too... lat has always got the second post though...
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just be there dude, you don't have to say a damn thing
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I plan on going to the place where my dad died this summer, and all my closest friend have volunteered to come along, it means a lot
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you dont have to say anything, just be there and support him
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u could find him a hot girl
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i agree completely. the worst thing he could do is sit home, by himself and think about it all. he needs to get out and do fun things.
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ill be serious. just take him out and try and have a good time. bring him to an amusement park or something
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