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ConceptPro153
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so yesterday my girlfriend spent the night at my house. Not expecting it, my mom decided to walk into my room at 7 in the morning to pick up clothes for laundry...what she saw was my girlfriends clothes all over the ground and proceeded to walk over to my bed finding her and I sleeping in the same bed with eachother. Now my mom was pretty cool she just took me outside and said how its kinda lame that we would do this and said my gf had to leave so my younger sister wouldnt see her when she left. Now, my girlfriend finds it amazingly akward to see my mom so she has told me she is never commin over to my house again. so i talked to my mom and my mom said all she wanted to do was talk to her and I about basic ground rules (my mom just wants to say something rather than just turn the blind eye against it) but my girlfriend refuses to come over to have this talk that would probably set things back to normal and the way it always was. so i kinda got mad at her because i thought it was bullshit that she wouldnt even give talking to my mom the littlest chance. I mean if it where the other way around i would most definitally go talk to her parents and try my best to set everything straight. I care alot about this girl and it sucks because our relationship was awasome and there was nothing wrong with it. but now she decides to ingnore my calls and wont talk to me about it. am I the wrong one in this situation trying to get her to talk with my mom? idk what to think really i just want everything to go back to the way it was...the way I loved it. anyways sorry this is so long but some useful insight on what i should do would be greatly appreciated. Thanks,

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Aug 10 2005 1:41PM
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KingShit
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My girlfriend always stays the night at my house too and forgets to wake up in the morning and leave before everyone does. It was kind of emberessing for her to talk to my mom at first but it was one of the things that had to be done and things are back to where they were. If your girlfriend doesn't have enough respect to talk to your mom about something like that and hang up on your calls then maybe you should think some things over.

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Aug 10 2005 1:45PM
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bermbuster49
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hmm, thats tough, just go somewhere with your girlfriend and magically bump into your mom

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Aug 10 2005 1:46PM
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skisquaw@420
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ur gf is bein a bitch

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Aug 10 2005 1:47PM
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Why don't you just tell your mom to hop off your ass... how old are you by the way?

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Aug 10 2005 1:47PM
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arsenal601
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no man shes deffinetely being too stubborn. if this talk would make things like they were before she should know the akwardness is worth it.






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Aug 10 2005 1:48PM
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start having voilent raunchy screaming sex to wake up your sister and when she comes into your room show her your butthole. that should make things better.

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Aug 10 2005 1:52PM
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espen^R
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your mom finds it lame that ur having a great time with ur gf ? if it is so that ur 18+ then you really should not be mad at ur gf but ur mom instead. sounds like a bitch to me.

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Aug 10 2005 1:56PM
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wdbo.
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i think im gonna go with tanaka on this one
plus if your 18+ you probly shouldn't be living with your parents anyway
but on a more serious note you should like take your girfreind somewhere like the mall and like plan to have yur like bump into you in the food court or kb toys or somthing that way she'll talk to yur mom
or you could just break into her house and force her to talk to yur mom


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Aug 10 2005 2:10PM
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Ill second what was said in this post.

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Aug 10 2005 2:14PM
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tricksterboardin
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no dude she thinks its lame sneaking around and stuff its def the gf being a bitch his mom is clearly being cool about it


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Aug 10 2005 2:16PM
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ur gf sounds like a hoe 2 me


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Aug 10 2005 2:17PM
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espen^R
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aha. i got it. just misunderstood a little.
then ur gf is being highly disrespectfull here.

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Aug 10 2005 2:23PM
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P-JO
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naw dood, you're not necessarily in the wrong here, but the same exact thing happened with my girlfriend, and my mom woke up super early for some fucked up reason and walked in my bedroom. My gf said she never wanted to go back to my house, but you gotta give it like a week to let her forget about the embarrassment, and then maybe just talk to your mom and relay the ground rules to her.

I tried to act pissed at my mom for waking me up early because im 18 now, but she made a better point that its her house.

Aug 10 2005 2:36PM
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cjgncjgn
Posts: 3023 - Karma: 21
just tell her that you love her and for you two to be happy together u want her to be friends with your mom. tell her your mom is a really cool person and that u really want them to be friends...

if she agrees shes a keeper...

give her some time though....

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Aug 10 2005 2:36PM
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.John.
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If I have my girlfriend up in my room, I have to keep the door open. my parents are real old fashioned

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Aug 10 2005 2:40PM
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CTripper
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yeah thats how moms roll. when moms catch people smoking pot they like to have talks about it then all is straight too. bottom lie is your girlfriend is whacksauce.

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Aug 10 2005 3:18PM
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hucker22
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your gf is being kinda a immature bitch about it. good thing your moms chill about it most my rents ever saw was us makin out on the couch when they came home, never tryed the sleeping over, but i move out in 8 days so i dont have to worry

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Aug 10 2005 3:23PM
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triebby
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as flanders would say: thats one dilly of a pickle. youve got one cool ass mom to not be pissed about something like that, if i was the girl id definetly talk

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Aug 10 2005 3:35PM
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Luc.
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ya man if u are like over 18 years old...then u should be able to act like an adult and sit down with yourgirlfriend...tell your girlfriend that u will go with her to talk to your mom and try and get her to do it...if she really loves u then she will do this one little thing for you.

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Aug 10 2005 3:43PM
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soo, seems like everyone is asking... How old are you?







Aug 10 2005 3:49PM
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eheath
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just tell her to talk to ur mom or no more penis for her


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Aug 10 2005 3:50PM
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yeah if you're lucky she'll be like Betty from Freddy Got Fingered so she'll definatly want your slangadang.

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Aug 10 2005 4:30PM
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lamp
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hold old are you?

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Aug 10 2005 4:33PM
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how old are you?

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Aug 10 2005 4:34PM
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Stowe24
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i don't have a girlfriend

Aug 10 2005 4:58PM
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SkiUnit03
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try to compromise with your gf and your mom, like ask you mom if you could tell your gf the rules or something.




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Aug 10 2005 5:06PM
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espen^R
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if my mom ahd caught me in smoking i would get grounded for the rest of my life, no joking.

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Aug 10 2005 5:15PM
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Deafboy
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well that would be pretty shitty, like if i were in that situation i wouldnt wanna go, but in the end i wouldnt act like a dick about it like ur gf is....i think you also need to learn how to tell your mom to fuck off.





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Aug 10 2005 7:37PM
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ConceptPro153
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Im 16. I talked to my mom more and now she doesnt even care and if its to much of a big deal wont have the talk with my gf and said that everything is fine. I told this to my gf and still she is being so lame and saying that she doesnt ever feel comfortable comming back to my house...I ask her why and she just says "cause its akward. seriously tho, what the fuck it will be ackward (how the fuck do u speell that shit?) for like the first 1 or 2 times but she comes over like 4 to 5 times a week and she still wont even give it a chance. but atleast shes talking to me now. she says we can still hang out except not at my house which blows cause we could do anything at my house and never get any shit about it. My mom bought me an economy size box of trojans hahaha 36 fuckin rubbers....might take a while to get thru those

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Aug 10 2005 9:22PM
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brennanmidwest
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if ur only 16 ur mom is fuckin sweet dude

Aug 10 2005 9:33PM
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cjgncjgn
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his moms sweet and smart... ppl have sex with or without permission your better off to give them a safe place and give them condoms

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Aug 10 2005 9:46PM
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chickonsticks
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Your gf should realize that your mom supports having "safe sex" and not in some like sketchy hotel... Just tell her that your mom bought you condoms to be safe and shed much rather have you in her house then somewhere random. Another solution is get your mom to call ur gf maybe if thats not akward for her becuase your gf isnt going to hang up on your mom and just let them talk to out like that...

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Aug 11 2005 3:26AM
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Mike-O
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Here IS A STORY about MY MOTHER:

Almost 1½ years ago, I asked for my girlfriend to come over. I had (with permission) slept at her place last week, so now I thought my mom would be cool about her coming over. My girlfriend told me to ask my mom if we could go to the sauna. I said that why COULDN'T WE?

So she's all nice to us, makes us pancakes, nothing too awkward, and then I announce that we're gonna go to the sauna:

Mon: "You together?"
Me: "Of course..why not?
Mom"..so..you've seen each other naked?"
Me:"......WHAT?"
Mon:" Have you had sex? Have you fucked?"

This is the point where I just ...went mute, just staring at her, is she fucking serious. The first time she meets my gf, and starts this crazy bullshit. That was in-fucking-appropriate!

So she didn't see my mom for over 8 months.



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Aug 11 2005 4:00AM
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Mike-O
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ANOTHER ONE:

My cousin was at our summer cottage with her gf. They slept at a small cabin which is in the use of everyone. SO, when they're about to leave home, my mo, says goodbye and remarks:

"Well, you could have atleast cleaned away the condoms!"

My cousin was pretty shocked as was her gf, she was on the pill. They went to see what the fuck was going on, and near the cabin floor they found a rubber glove, you know , the kind you dye your hair with.

They told this to my mom:

Mom: " Well, it COULD HAVE BEEN a condom!"

She has somekind of traumas apparently...



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Aug 11 2005 4:03AM
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Sokiem
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Tell her to stop being a dumb bitch and actually take some responsibility for her actions.

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Aug 11 2005 4:41AM
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sKILOve07
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my mom wont even let me have a boy over when shes not home or let me close the door when she is home....yea and im 16

Aug 11 2005 9:37AM
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i dont know any girls here so there for i avoide all problems.

Aug 11 2005 10:21AM
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mommy
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hahaha

Aug 11 2005 11:58AM
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.John.
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is your cousin a dude? you kept saying her Gf

i don't want this to get out too far but i heard ninthward has sex with armada-Twix_182

Aug 11 2005 12:04PM
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sKILOve07
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^def. think it was a girl cause he made the same 'mistake' twice


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Aug 11 2005 12:15PM
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Deafboy
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^ give him a break, he prolly just wasnt thinkin it threw in his head properly.





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Aug 11 2005 12:28PM
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johnnypsunami
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just get your own apartment and this wont be an issue

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Aug 11 2005 12:35PM
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brogilvie
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Yeah, you said her Gf alot. At first I was totally down because I thought they were lez. But then you talked about condoms. So either you are making up a story, or you are confused about your cousins gender or his/her parteners gender.



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Aug 11 2005 12:58PM
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espen^R
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hey ConceptPro153 ? why dont you update us a little, how is it going between you two guys ?

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Aug 11 2005 1:05PM
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SimonFiller
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why does your mom need to talk to her? thats pretty gay. i'm sure your mom was getting corked when she was your age too.

Aug 11 2005 1:09PM
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espen^R
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^hahaha, and btw, whats the age for having "legal" sex in the U.S ? here in norway its 16 and im 17 so my mom dont even bother to talk to me, she just tells me to use rubber on the pole.

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Aug 11 2005 1:11PM
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USA
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my parents dont even let me close the door when there are like 4 guys and like 5 girls over its stupid

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Aug 11 2005 1:13PM
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SimonFiller
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your parents dont want the girls to touch your penises, thats why.

Aug 11 2005 1:14PM
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ConceptPro153
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Yeah i guess its alright now but its still lame that she wont even try and see what its like when she comes over. This whole thing has kinda turned me off to her because i hung out with her for like and hour and the whole time she acted as if the whole world was against her and there was nothing i could do to make her happy. I think i have more invested in our relationship thean she does so I think im just gonna give her lots of space and hopefully she will realize how good we were for eachother and stop acting like a little bitch. and for those people calling my mom the whore...read my other fuckin posts. I couldnt have asked for a better way my mom could have handled it. she didnt tell my gf parents and is willing to just forget like it even happend. but yet my gf feels like she should make a big deal about it.

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Aug 11 2005 1:27PM
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dude girls just cuase too much drama to date. it just does not work out. someone always ends up all pissed off, just party.

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