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How many of you guys have that friend?

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kyle_w
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the friend, a girl, who you are really close to (not dating or anything). you get along with her better than you get along with any other girls but you dont have the balls to ask her out cuz your afraid of ruining your friendship. im in that situation right now and it sucks ass.






i 'm so mad that bhill kicked me off the team!!!11!1one!!!11!!1eleventyone!1
Jul 11 2005 8:01PM
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stoweskier
Posts: 187 - Karma: 10
yea im kinda in that cituation right now too. im good friends w/ this one girl but i dunno if she would wanna go out w/ me or just be good friends

Jul 11 2005 8:05PM
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USA
Posts: 2201 - Karma: 11
just bend her over, she prob wants 2



"your like 12 years old???? that girl is illegal for msot of us to be looking at..."
-later about 10 seconds in another post-
" oh, i thought you were a guy, hmm, well your nice looking." P-JO


also known as pussyfooter
Jul 11 2005 8:05PM
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stoweskier
Posts: 187 - Karma: 10
oh well i guess that there is more important things to worry aobut lol

Jul 11 2005 8:05PM
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brokebutitsworthit
Posts: 2279 - Karma: 27
I am the captain of friend zone, there are girls on here that can vouch for that, and yes it blows but not doing anything sucks more so just fucking try it and see what happens

note to self avoid blowing motor....again
Jul 11 2005 8:06PM
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parkskiertmr
Posts: 679 - Karma: 11
i hooked up with a good friend of mine this year and kinda wanted to ask her out but shit got awkward and nothing happened. but now i have a girlfriend and im still friends with that girl so it turned out fine


whats your name?
whose you daddy?
is he rich like me?
Jul 11 2005 8:06PM
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bermbuster49
Posts: 7445 - Karma: 90
for the past 2 years man. aparently i am the closest guy to her, and i know absoulutly everything about her, but yet she still has boyfriends. i think its the distance thing tho, she goes to a different school, only 20 minutes away, but i met her at one of my dirtbike races. i really cant do anything about the just friends thing now tho cas i dont have a car to hang out with her, but we still hang like once every week, and then at all my races.

-kulpy-

gangsta raps lyrics are all the same, Someone gets shot, someones frontin, someones a wangsta, someones benchpressin, someones makin fried chicken, and the beans dont burn on the grill. You can see that shit in kentucky. Fuck the bronx, deep south bitches-scientist
Jul 11 2005 8:07PM
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Jwenz
Posts: 8893 - Karma: 7,633
Its just ment to be that way...ther are girls that are friends then there are sex buds

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Jul 11 2005 8:08PM
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MissMontana
Posts: 971 - Karma: 42
i have a really good guy friend and he and i are super close. i wish he would have made a move to see how it went, but he never did. then he moved to school (Stanford University) for the summer so he could practice with their summer water polo team. so I'd say go for it, I wish Chris had.
good luck

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Jul 11 2005 8:15PM
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newschooler7
Posts: 2253 - Karma: 21
im in that spot with 2 or 3 people

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Jul 11 2005 8:18PM
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garrett.
Posts: 9304 - Karma: 3,670
^nice signature

cant tell me shit about the tricks of this trade switch blade with a little switch to switch the switch blade switch from a 6 to 16 inch blade shits like a samarui sword a sensay


Jul 11 2005 8:33PM
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michelle
Posts: 6290 - Karma: 428
same, it sucks

Jul 11 2005 8:41PM
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rippinbumpskier
Posts: 1628 - Karma: 23
yea dude ive had that problem tons of times

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Jul 11 2005 8:45PM
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cab_D
Posts: 1602 - Karma: 51
i have a friend like that. I never did anything. Even though i wanted to and still want to. But in the long run it was kinda worth not doing anything. She's one of my best friends ever.

Jul 11 2005 8:47PM
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loops_skier
Posts: 115 - Karma: 16
i have a freind like that and i made a move.Wasn't too bad though, things were weird for like 3 months

Jul 11 2005 9:10PM
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Melvs
Posts: 15174 - Karma: 480
been there, got the balls up, dated her, things didn't work out, haven't talked to her in months. it can ruin things.

-Pat
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Jul 11 2005 9:11PM
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kyle_w
Posts: 6805 - Karma: 23
exactly what im affraid of






i 'm so mad that bhill kicked me off the team!!!11!1one!!!11!!1eleventyone!1
Jul 11 2005 9:12PM
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Melvs
Posts: 15174 - Karma: 480
while I'm not to upset about losing her as a friend (we weren' stuper close, we just had a real connection that I never had with anyone else and while dating her I learned a LOT about her that I didn't like, hence things not worling out), you may be.

-Pat
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Jul 11 2005 9:14PM
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bermbuster49
Posts: 7445 - Karma: 90
yeah, i think you can prevent that by learning about the girl before you go out, like me and this girl acually brainstormed for like 2 minutes and couldnt think of a anything that we didnt know about each other.

-kulpy-

gangsta raps lyrics are all the same, Someone gets shot, someones frontin, someones a wangsta, someones benchpressin, someones makin fried chicken, and the beans dont burn on the grill. You can see that shit in kentucky. Fuck the bronx, deep south bitches-scientist
Jul 11 2005 9:30PM
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ATLskier
Posts: 8203 - Karma: 406
ask her out. Just agree to be friends no matter what happens or something. take advantages of your opportunities.

i cant take him[liam downey] seriously cuz his name reminds me of that downy bear from back when i was a kid -d loc

I don't deny there are bad things in the US right now, hell, 51% of the country to be exact. But god damnit, our country being fat is NOT a problem. I do't give a shit how fat people are. hell, fat kids are harder to kidnap, that means our country is safer.

-Melvs
Jul 11 2005 9:49PM
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kyle_w
Posts: 6805 - Karma: 23
ive done that, and believe me, that agreeing to be friends business never happens.






i 'm so mad that bhill kicked me off the team!!!11!1one!!!11!!1eleventyone!1
Jul 11 2005 9:50PM
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bmxican_89
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me too.

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Jul 11 2005 9:53PM
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bighit
Posts: 1178 - Karma: 33
I was dating a girl for a while in a prettyy serious relationship...when we broke up we got a lot closer..and now we are best friends...i still have feelings for her as more than friends and i want to date her again but i dont think she likes me in the same way i look at her...man i say go for it...i know what its like to best friends with a girl and i know its like to be their girlfriend...they both have their benifits and if u brake up and u were that close to start with than nothing should change...step it upe and take the chance.

Jul 11 2005 9:53PM
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p-lin101
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its happened to me before. we tried things got sketchy. were not friends anymore. another time we sorta tried but we stayed friends. that was two diff people though

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Jul 11 2005 10:12PM
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tBatt
Posts: 9632 - Karma: 580
yep but i hit on her all the time...its petty fun/funny

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Jul 11 2005 10:13PM
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bighit
Posts: 1178 - Karma: 33
^^i ment boyfriend lol

Jul 11 2005 10:13PM
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404404
Posts: 11358 - Karma: 21,034
girl love to be firends with me, but if i made a move im sure it would get fucked up

Jul 11 2005 10:14PM
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skier_chick_360
Posts: 1693 - Karma: 10
Im in the same situation with a really good buddy of mine... im just waitin in sense for him to come around but i dont see it happening any time soon... Some guys just need a swift kick in the ass to get the motivation to do something...


























Couple good friends, couple cold beers, couple HUGE puddles all equal a wicked night on the farm...
Thank god for the country
Jul 11 2005 10:18PM
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Melvs
Posts: 15174 - Karma: 480
here's what you do...

kiss him. then it's all gravy from there.

-Pat
www.wbpfilms.com
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Jul 11 2005 10:23PM
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lucyford
Posts: 4742 - Karma: 15
you should casually slip in something about you guys dating into a conversation one day. and if she gets all weirded out, then you're just all "hahah OMG that was a joke, dating you would be like dating my sister!! puuke!!"........and if she reacts kinda of taken aback, but not grossed out, or even curious, then it's a green light, my friend.





far too fly to stay stationary...
Jul 11 2005 10:23PM
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bighit
Posts: 1178 - Karma: 33
good advice

Jul 11 2005 10:37PM
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Apple
Posts: 7906 - Karma: 33
listen to this girl, she gives good advice.

And i have been there. I never did make a move though. I had really good reasons why not to make a move, but i always think back and try and see how i could have played my cards diffrently from the beginning. But hindsight is 20/20 and forsight is almost blind. Its just the way life goes and you gotta accept it and keep going. Be thankful for what you have, a friendship, a chance at something more... I have always been a big advocate of risktakeing. If you dont risk anything, you will gain nothing. If you risk the loss of something dear to you (like the frienship) you might gain something far more rewarding in return. But you never know till after.

You gotta be the seed growing so that it can feel the sun on its leaves and the cool moist dirt in its roots, risking being eaten or stepted on. You cant let yourself stay the seed thats too afraid to grow, never feels the sun on its leaves of the cool moist dirt in its roots, and in the end gets eaten by a crow.

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Jul 11 2005 10:38PM
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wdbo.
Posts: 4935 - Karma: 173
wow that comment was pretty deep^

i know someone like that i used to to talk to her for hours but she was dating my other freind plus shes not that hot anyway

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Jul 11 2005 11:54PM
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DHogg
Posts: 3462 - Karma: 237
its not always our job. U could try asking him

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Jul 11 2005 11:58PM
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hans_aschim
Posts: 1188 - Karma: 11
I HAD a friend like that then I did get the balls to ask her out. It was great for a while but now we are broken up and we hate eachother.



"Black guys love me" - Lindsay Lohan
Jul 12 2005 12:02AM
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lalalalaura
Posts: 6753 - Karma: 68
i had a friend like that, then it toke me forever to say something...then we went out..... then he got diagnosed with schizophrenia and severe depression and i broke up with him. yeah. i'm a good person.

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Jul 12 2005 12:11AM
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~Cork_1080~
Posts: 2212 - Karma: 5
exactly the same, but if i do ask her out im afraid of her feeling all wierd and not wanting to be friends any more or not talke to me or something

Jul 12 2005 12:13AM
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squeakywaffle
Posts: 1800 - Karma: 13
Have any of you guys heard of ladder theory?

Part of it is that guys have one "ladder" for female friends (girls they'd like to fuck) while girls have two (guys they'd like to fuck and the dreaded "friend" category). So, basically, a guy will never actively engage in friendship with a girl without also wanting to fuck her.

This is a little bleak and depressing, but I think it's true. Personally, I know I try harder to spend with girls that I find attractive (vs girls I don't find attractive), and I see other guys acting in the same way. I don't think any straight guy anywhere has a friendship with a girl with no sexual undertones (this makes me wonder about a few of my friends that happen to be gay... hmmmm).

We also manipulate/maneuver social situations to get closer to the ladies... that's pretty obvious, though.

For example, I ended up with the friends I have now partly (not entirely, but it helped) because I was chasing a girl (who I never got, but I'm still friends with her...). I really feel like a complete asshole for writing that last sentence, but it's true.

So I think you guys should go out there and speak your minds. It might mean drama down the line, but who cares? If you break up and "stay friends," a) it was probably her idea and b) you'll still want to fuck her, so things never really changed, did they? And if you end up being the one to break it off, you'll probably wonder why you liked that bitch in the first place. Geez.

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Jul 12 2005 4:37AM
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Leckett
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^that isnt always the case u know.

NS SKATEBOARD
Jul 12 2005 7:35AM
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SkiBumDreams
Posts: 560 - Karma: 10
if ya wanna be mature and not play games just straight up ask her if she would ever date you. if she really is your friend you two will get by that, if not then you really didnt lose that much. if you have to play games ask her friends what she thinks of you but let thefriends know you value her friendship but are curious if maybe she feels a little more like you do. just be careful you ask a friend who isnt gunna be stupid

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Jul 12 2005 9:18AM
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WIfreeskier
Posts: 8125 - Karma: 65
just get drunk and hook up, it'll go from there.

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Jul 12 2005 9:30AM
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TheWorst
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well chances are if you hang out with her that much she likes you too... i would explain but its too early in the morning just go for it man

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Jul 12 2005 9:50AM
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holyDINOSAURS
Posts: 7038 - Karma: 639
yeah i know what its like to be in that sit. juuuuuust do it. but without the name brand product placement i just gave. its really easy.

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Jul 12 2005 11:03AM
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GingerKid08
Posts: 1320 - Karma: 13
Ive been in that situation for two years. Its horrible. And why is the girl always the hot chick at school. Everyone goes for her so even if I do sack up and ask her out, shell probably be waiting for another dude anyway.

Jul 12 2005 11:07AM
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GingerKid08
Posts: 1320 - Karma: 13
Oh and shes my neighbor, so i see her just about everyday. That makes things even more tough.

Jul 12 2005 11:09AM
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KingShit
Posts: 4483 - Karma: 7
Thats what I'm talking about. If it didn't work out then you can always blame it on being drunk.

-People say marijuana ruins your life, I just say I take the scenic route-
Jul 12 2005 11:12AM
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midwest_rep
Posts: 540 - Karma: 10
Hahahaha, you have no idea. I had a best friend in college, a girl who was always in relationship trouble. She cried a lot and always seemed to be in trouble. One night we got really, really drunk and...yep. Then it happened again and again. Then I said, OK that's enough. But she didn't want to stop, so I said I could call it rape if she made moves on me again. Then she cried a lot. Now we arent friends, but it was worth it for the stories.

Jul 12 2005 1:08PM
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FERREZZ
Posts: 2234 - Karma: 19
wow dude i thought i was the only one, it sucks i know

Jul 12 2005 2:20PM
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Ktownchic
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i have this guy friend. hes my best friend. and we've actually been best friends since he was born (16 years). we fight. but we get over it. we travel together. were the best of best friends. sometimes we joke about what it would be like if we were together, or if we were married or something. im closer with him even after 16 years of being best freinds, than i have ever been with with anyone else. hes always there for me, and vice versa. if one of us as a problem, the other one is there. my ex boyfriend always thought there was something going on between us, but there never has been. were just best friends. but sometimes i think about the future. who knows where we'll end up. ive heard that you end up marrying your best friend of the opposite sex. but who knows.
im saying that if youre friends with someone, and you have that "Special sometthing", then go for it. chances are they want it too. esp if your really close/ good friends with them. you kno alot about each other






"Over time, most people experience life involving love, suffering, passion, and an unspeakable drive for something new . . . for me there's skiing, nothing more nothing less and it encompasses everything, every day I'm out there." ~Pep Fujas
Jul 12 2005 2:27PM
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hucker22
Posts: 6176 - Karma: 23
ya i seem to have that alot

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Jul 12 2005 3:52PM
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bighit
Posts: 1178 - Karma: 33
u made me realize something...i have been best friends with this girl ever since we broke up...i have always wanted to get back togethor with her but now i realize I like what we have and i dont want it to change....i feel much better about my whole situation now..thanks

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