BiffbarfJesus christ the amount of guilt you pretend to have from fabricated assumptions to fit your narrative is hilarious. You're a gigantic pussy who can't take a solid stance on the topic for fear of not being accepted. Maybe I had frat kids wrong this whole time lmao
lmao I guess had a lil too much nuance in my take for you guy?
BiffbarfJust drop it man. I don't support sexual assault. Nobody who is sane does. If you want to believe frats are all rape cults go for it but I refuse to see humanity that way when there are genuinely good people within their ranks.
Its important to see a broader picture here. Of course there are a ton of genuinely great people within greek life just like any large grouping of people and of course frats dont just teach guys to sexually assault women. Like @ublowme said, the desirable frats will kick kids out and not give them bids if they're creepy at all towards women. My frat tried to be good about it by having sober people at every party, listing ingredients in the punch, and not allowing outside alcohol to create better and safer environments for women.
A bunch of privileged kids in a drinking club are gonna bring along with them sexist language and egg each other on though. My frat was one of the "good" ones and we still had dudes yelling "objects in 5" before girls showed up to the party among other shit day to day. Even if it was said like a joke its still emblematic of the climate at frats. I can't imagine what its like at a state school with even bigger greek life and party culture. If you can't see the connection between that language and rape culture idk what to tell you.
Frats tend to attract shitty bros who personify some of the worst of our society. We've got a huge problem with sexual assault being committed by young men so of course frats are going to be at the forefront of the problems as formal institutions of young men. Greek life's structure is rooted in old patriarchal gender roles which set up unhealthy social dynamics that add to the problem and they rely on their history to not have to change.
I'd say the majority of frat kids suck in the finance bro kind of way and especially from the viewpoint of NS where a lot of us were the weird kids who just freestyle skied a lot. We ain't the norm lol. This whole thread of frat bad or frat good and calling each other virgins is fucking garbage tho