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Anyone Ever Been Friendzoned...

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steezy69
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anyone been friendzoned so bad that you go and visit that girl every weekend in her home town about 5-6 hours away for like 3-4 weeks in a row?

cuz there's this girl ive been seein and she lives across the street but every damn weekend she has a guy "friend" from school come visit her so then we never get to hang out on the weekends. and this last week it was "unexpected" but he stayed the whole damn weekend.

im thinkin that she is getting railed by him every weekend. he drives a p.o.s. subaru that he thinks is fast too... thoughts?

Jul 1 2013 2:08PM
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.Rybak.
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fwb isnt being friendzoned.
Your point is invalid/thread.
Jul 1 2013 2:10PM
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Huck_Norris
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I was in agreement until I heard he has a pos subaru he thinks is fast, then it became obvious he's gay and you have nothing to worry about.




Jul 1 2013 2:10PM
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steezy69
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ha my thoughts exactly. and it would also make sense on why he is in the friendzone and constantly visiting as only a friend, cuz he seems like a major queer/douche

Jul 1 2013 2:16PM
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steezy69
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well we've already hooked up a couple times thats why i think its weird she has this dude friend always visiting from way the hell out of town
Jul 1 2013 2:17PM
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howlongcanausern
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girls that like to have more than one partner??? weird dude.
Jul 1 2013 2:33PM
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Huck_Norris
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Why would that be any weirder than a dude doing it?


Jul 1 2013 2:52PM
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yelsel
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obviously his dick is bigger than yours.
Jul 1 2013 2:54PM
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Sophistication.
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I just recently got friend zoned. You are definitely the one being friend zoned if anyone is, it's not the end of the world
Jul 1 2013 2:58PM
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steezy69
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its very possible....he does drive an old subaru with a fatty wing he put on it
Jul 1 2013 2:58PM
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TechnoPotamus
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why are you so hung up on what kind of car he drives? it sounds like he's probably banging your girl, i think you have bigger things to worry about here than his car.
Jul 1 2013 3:02PM
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Dingo69
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The true alpha doesnt give a shit about coming across as being the alpha. The true alpha acts naturally, and seasoned alpha recognizing veterans will know you are the true alpha
Jul 1 2013 3:39PM
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casual
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I think it's hilarious that you think that HE'S the one that's been friendzoned. Like...you think she disappears for a few days at a time with this guy because he's giving her advice about how to catch you?

Sounds like he's roadtripping for pussy, tearing it down, and probably goes back to his girlfriend at school. It was "unexpected", you said that like maybe she told you that? If this guy invited himself to her place for the weekend and she was on board, I promise you he's fucking her. This sounds like 100%, out and out jealousy. The car comments are a dead giveaway.

If you care, which I don't really get why you would given you're clearly not exclusive, pull back a bit, make yourself less available, and see what happens. If you're making "playful jokes" to her about how you don't get to hang with her on the weekends now or anything close to that, just kill yourself because it's over.

To make you feel better though, I was FOLDING THIS GIRL'S LAUNDRY AND PUTTING IT AWAY and opened the wrong drawer and found magnum condoms....my face.
Jul 1 2013 3:46PM
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casual
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Sorry buddy. If you're walking around giving yourself alpha pep talks and consciously trying to "dominate" social situations, you're not only not an alpha, you're also probably an obnoxious attention seeking dipshit that a real alpha would ultimately have to mollywhop.
Jul 1 2013 3:51PM
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Dingo69
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Swiss time is running out!
We knew that we would lose the race!
Jul 1 2013 3:52PM
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Huck_Norris
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Shhhhh... It was funny watching him explain that the alpha is the one home alone humping his fist.
Jul 1 2013 3:57PM
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Spinoza
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yeah you gotta put a stop to that bro
Jul 1 2013 3:59PM
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steezy69
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well.........

his car is way nicer than mine actually. i would love to drive it for a little to be honest

Jul 1 2013 4:00PM
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Barefootin_Fiend
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i like how you mention what he drives...like that really has anything to do with getting laid. If you've got game, it doesn't matter fuck all what kind of car you drive. Nor should it. People that use their car to try and be cool/get laid are fucking tools.
Jul 1 2013 4:00PM
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Funkadelic
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Psh my Honda Accord says otherwise. It's silver...enough said.
Jul 1 2013 4:03PM
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SCOO-WOOP
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OOH then he be jelly cause you're gettin at what he can't.



I had something like that happen to me recently.

I was out clubbing, met this group of three through a mutual friend, 2 girls and a guy. Start talking to girl 1, girl 2 was a little better looking, but my buddy took one for the team the last time we went out so I left them alone. Guy was eavesdropping on our entire conversation, making stupid sarcastic comments, mugging the shit out of me. Go dance because club, so we're dancing and he's chillin RIGHT behind me still mugging. So I figure, "Oh shit, this is her boyfriend." Ask her about him, "Nah he's just a friend. Right bestie?" Give him the, "YOU CANT GET THIS, YOU CANT GET THIS" look. Night ends, catch a cab back to my place. Dude tries to get in with me and girl 1. Kick him out of cab. He had to take the bus across the bay bridge all the way back to freemont.

tl;dr friendzoned dude tried to cockblock and got cockblock blocked. Texted her the next morning all pissy, blah blah blah.


Point being, he's irrelevant to you and your ladyfriend. Let it be.
Jul 1 2013 4:11PM
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SCOO-WOOP
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Read the thread. I retract my previous statement.
Jul 1 2013 4:13PM
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steezy69
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ha well its funny cuz the first night we hooked up was something very similar to this. but not as extreme. and the other guy never had a chance and isn't the same one im talking about anyway... so yeah. nice story tho. i enjoyed it
Jul 1 2013 4:23PM
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casual
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good save, dude. If I had an extra chromosome, I'd totally believe that you were joking.
Jul 1 2013 4:25PM
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casual
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that guy's brutal.
Jul 1 2013 4:30PM
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SterlingArcher
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Friendzone is the weak. Find a 30 minute girlfriend on Craigslist
Jul 1 2013 6:39PM
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Mama.
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People make it out of the friend zone, you know... My current boyfriend was so far into the friend zone that thinking about dating him was weird at first. Now we're probably gonna get married and shit.

Just saying.
Jul 1 2013 6:44PM
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EricCartman
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OP is Pathetic..
Jul 1 2013 6:55PM
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Shabangarang
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My subaru gets me pussy. Lowered wrx.....profit
Jul 1 2013 9:40PM
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edai
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Ha! Be an asshole to everyone until you find that special girl. Girls like a guy whos a dick to everyone, but sweet to them. - Twitter
Jul 1 2013 9:44PM
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Edgar-Allen-Poe
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Dude you didn't get freind-zoned, you're a fucking stalker.

Jul 1 2013 9:58PM
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steezy69
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how long was that process of getting out of the friend zone? seems like its never possible
Jul 2 2013 10:28AM
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yelsel
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it's not possible.

her case is a very very rare one so dont get your hopes up.
Jul 2 2013 10:46AM
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TijmenDal
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Nope. Don't act like a bitch -> don't get friendzoned.
Jul 2 2013 10:58AM
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steezy69
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oh i know. ha ive been friendzoned before in other cases

 but in this case i am not being friend zoned

Jul 2 2013 10:59AM
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baaangthat
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you are seriously such a bitch. this whole thread in gerneral, just making it...youre clearly a jealous, overbearing, stalking, sniveling little child. you should have walked away from this situation a long time ago
Jul 2 2013 11:26AM
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saskskier
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It is possible.

I was friends with my girlfriend for about 7 years and then solidly placed in the friend zone last spring. At that point I was done and moved on.

I made it out, but it was totally unexpected.
Jul 2 2013 12:54PM
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FreeskiThe603
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I've seen it many times that if a guy and a girl are best friends for long enough then they end up dating.

OP, if she ends up getting committed to this kid then just stay close with her as a friend, cause if the other kid ends up breaking up with her then she will be sad, and if your the closest one to her at that point and you help her through that time then thats major points right there
Jul 2 2013 1:07PM
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SamMcChesney
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NO, your the only one ever
Jul 2 2013 1:09PM
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Bertrand
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It is.

Freshman year of college, I was just friends with my now girlfriend. She was with another guy at the time, and I was absolutely fine with that, we were just friends from the dorms. Flash forward to this year, Sophomore year, we start skiing a ton, hanging out a lot more, going to dinner, she becomes my closest friend. We've been together for almost 4 months now, couldn't be any better. If you can, date your best friend. It's awesome.

Anyways. OP, either that is her gay best friend, or you sir, are deep, deep into the friend zone. If you are driving 5 hours to see a girl every weekend and that shit is not official, you need to find yourself another girl. You probably deserve better anyways. Someone who won't be with two guys at the same time. Yeah.
Jul 2 2013 1:22PM
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Mama.
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Honestly, like 6 months between when we apparently developed feelings for each other and when we decided to do something about it. Mostly took that long cause we were both afraid of doing anything to ruin our friendship.
Jul 2 2013 1:26PM
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steezy69
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wow that story sounds exactly like my ex girlfriend and her current boyfriend lol.  ha kinda weird cuz im sure we were at different schools but i was on the opposite end of that my freshman year in the dorms lol. worked out for the better

and this guy she is hanging out with is the one driving 5 hours to see her every other weekend. i live literally right across the street.

Jul 2 2013 5:29PM
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Petey.
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You're giving them too much credit. Anyone who isn't the person doing it can see through that kind of stuff.
Jul 2 2013 6:30PM
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Huck_Norris
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Pffffff... Friendzone schmiendzone.


Jul 2 2013 6:42PM
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icon1234
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I have to agree with this statement here... Just depends on the type of friendship you have with the girl...

I know a lot of relationships that start out as just being friends. I mean how many relationships actually progress from meeting someone for the first time and then full on officially dating within a month? I mean do both happen, of course. But assuming you didn't ask the person you're dating out or hook up with them within the first 2 weeks of meeting them, you were prob just friends at the start.

As long as you don't make the girl think you're just another one of her girlfriends but instead just as her best friend it can develop into a actual relationship if the timing is right. All about you present yourself, and how she views you. Being actual best friends with someone, and I mean really best friends automatically encompasses a strong emotional connection. Assuming there is attraction between you two, it shouldn't be a surprise how this quickly can lead to a real relationship. Like I said the problem is the timing, but it really isn't that uncommon imo...

On another note, I have no idea how you could seriously date someone who isn't your best friend. Like that is the person you're going to be spending sooo much time with, if that person isn't your best friend it would prob just drive you mad.
Jul 2 2013 9:12PM
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FreeskiThe603
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Well put sir, well put. Timing is everything.
Jul 2 2013 9:49PM
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Bertrand
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Sorry you were on the other end of that =(. I wasn't being a home wrecker, for the record. They broke up before we started getting really close.

OH!!!! That clears a lot up. Straight up ask her if she has feelings for him. It'll help you out in the long run.
Jul 2 2013 11:57PM
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Bogs
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that's not a paradox.
Jul 3 2013 12:10AM
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CriesAfterSex
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Jul 3 2013 12:55AM
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Theskiingguy
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Even worse, I was gay zoned.... long story short needed to take yoga to get a last minute PE credit. Tried my best to talk about sports and all that stuff to make it obvious I was straight but somehow she thought otherwise.
Hahah couldn't careless now though, she's crazy.
Jul 3 2013 3:24AM
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Bogs
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1. gay people are allowed to like sports.

2. maybe you just seem gay, despite all that time you spent talking about how good looking you think Tom Brady is.
Jul 3 2013 9:35AM
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