i still disagree,
yes 1st person, yes you are right, no emotional scarring, you are dead, which is much worse than being emotionally scarred.
one of my best friends, ive known him for almost 15 years now, was molested multiple times from about age 8 to 11. i dont really know details, i dont want to know or ask, but from the little bit he has talked about it, it sounds like it wasnt really "rape" he was ok with it happening then, i guess you could say he consented.
now that he's 24, its not a good memory obviously, but he is over it, when its brought up he doesnt mind talking about it. he's one of the happiest most positive guys i know, works hard at everything he does, he's the only guy i can call up to go do something fun, and he will do whatever it takes to find the time to do it.
his family knows, but its not much more than a bad memory.
you can move on from rape or molestation, you dont have the chance to do that when you are dead.
i know this is just one case, and its not a particularly a bad one as it wasnt forceful, i used it cause its the only person im very close to that its happened to, but i do know of probably 4 or 5 people who were molested at a young age, and for the most part it doesnt seem to have effected them.
the absolute worst thing you can do is take away someones chance at life, and at a happy life. it takes a certain kind of person to kill someone just to kill them, it takes a certain kind of person to molest a child, both are bad people, but shit, give me the choice to rape someone or kill them, ill choose rape over killing nomatter how violent it is. same thing if you asked me if id rather get raped or die. everyone hurts people physically and emotionally, not everyone kills people.
