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Ideas for a casual date?

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ryano
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so there's a girl who might be interested in myself. and i can tell you that i am interested in her.

so we're hanging out when i get back in town. and when i asked if she had any place she would like to go or anything she would prefer to do, she just replied, surprises are good :)

so i have to come up with something. and i am also stuck deciding on how date ish this day is going to be.

so what are some casual things to do for a casual date and not make it super date like.

park, walking around or picnic
flea/farmers market
art museum or something
beach, even tho there's not much to do at the beach
some sort of concert at a park


any suggestions would help.

this would be in LA area
Aug 18 2011 7:59PM
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Mike-O
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While some of these date ideas sound cool, what's wrong with just, you know, sitting down somewhere and talking, getting to know each other? Why sidewind it with kites, kayaking or something else? That could come afterwards on another date.
Aug 25 2011 5:05AM
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kungfusteeze
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Man, I hate being broke in a world where most girls require fancy dates. If only I could meet a girl on NS, who would just chill at my house and sit with me on NS all night. Haha. But Props to being a proper gentleman.
Aug 25 2011 5:29AM
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Mike-O
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I personally think that going all out on creativity on a first date is a waste of time and money, unless you actually know her from before somehow. If you start off being spectacular all the time and show her "Yes, this is what I'm ready to do for your sake because I like you" then by the time when the relationship (possibly) begins stagnating and you won't go over your head for her sake for every single thing, you're just gonna run into the "You're not the same guy I met/You don't care about me that much anymore" Wall.
Aug 25 2011 5:41AM
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CluckaChuck
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this guy knows what hes talking about
Aug 25 2011 6:10AM
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ryano
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yea. but going out for just coffee or something plain is kinda boring. so you mise well do something fun while you're at it.

also. as for this instance. we already know each other a fair amount. just have never gone on an actual date before.
Aug 25 2011 7:40PM
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spreadeagle96
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definately the beach. then she will think ur sooooooo romantic
Aug 25 2011 9:00PM
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