Replying to Herpes Clubs?

This is unrelating to myself, but I thought about this and I still wonder. Personally, if I met a girl and we were going to hook up and she had herpes, I would say fuck you. BUT, if you are someone with herpes, do you join some sort of group of people who also have herpes? I mean what damage would it do to give herpes to someone else who already has them? I dont think it would matter much. Is this the case? Can someone with herpes give us a testimonial?