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What does a kiss mean?

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jarossamdb7
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I have had a start to soemthing with this chick. We drank together and made out a few times, then I took her out on a date that seemed to go real well. At the end of the date, she said "you know, if you would have asked me over to your dorm, I would have came." It was too late at that point. Anyway, she has seemed a little dissmissive about hanging out with me since then. I have seen her 3 times on accident though. one of which she kissed me out of the blue. Another of which, she was really drunk and didnt seem to pay much attention to me. And the last of which, I kissed her, she kissed me back and giggled.

The question is, judging by that, is there even a chance that she DOESNT like me anymore? We have had plans for a while to hang out with a bunch of people tonight and when I kissed her and she kissed me back, I would think that if she wanted to, she could have pretty easly pulled back and said "I think we should just be friends." But instead she kissed me back and giggled. The only reason that I am scetched about this really is that I suggested another date on thursday (tomorrow) and she said "I have to check my scedule" which seems really flakey to me.
Apr 12 2006 5:39PM
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japie99
Posts: 2128 - Karma: 19
DUDE forget what I said leave that bitch!! Move on she aint worth you.
Apr 13 2006 5:28AM
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CooksCorner
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you've got to be careful with that shit though. you dont want them to think that you are ignoring them, that'll just blow your chances.
Apr 13 2006 10:25AM
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jarossamdb7
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update:
she just called to say she was sorry about lastnight. I said you should be. She said she was just being a complete drunk jackass. I said thanks for admitting it. I asked her if she checked her scedule, she said she was not at home but would let me know. I said I would expect to hear from her.
Apr 13 2006 3:02PM
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steezy_1_piece
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If you havin girl problems I feel bad for you son, I got 99 problems but a bitch aint one
Apr 13 2006 4:23PM
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Norred
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damn dude after hearing that you gotta let it drop. She went of with some dude in the woods? No, if it were me I'd stop talking to her all together.
Apr 13 2006 4:34PM
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redheadskier_chick1242
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are you guys the same age?
Apr 13 2006 4:37PM
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GingerKid08
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She was drunk and they went off together in the woods. You really think they didnt do anything?
Apr 13 2006 4:42PM
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alaskadrifter
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i agree, find someone else.
Apr 13 2006 4:50PM
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jarossamdb7
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she is almost 21, I am almost 19.

its not age thats the problem though. its just my "inexpeirance" in that I didnt go for sex right away. she wanted sex, I didnt give it to her right away because Im not only interested in sex... I generally like to get to know people before I get into something that intimate..
Apr 13 2006 4:59PM
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jarossamdb7
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maybe they did, maybe they didnt. Having been there the whole time in that actual situation, I really dont think they did do anything. it wasnt like she was hanging with him much before OR after. She walked off, he walked off after her. when they came back, she was mad at him. She called to appologize about the whole night to me. Maybe she did do something, maybe she didnt, but I think that fact that she called to appologize may mean that if she did, it was a mistake. maybe not, who knows.
Apr 13 2006 5:02PM
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Norred
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Okay but let's say they did something. Would you really want to date someone who does that? Especially the part where you said she started saying "hey I had sex with you before" or whatever it was she said out loud to some other guy when you were there. That's just such blatant disrespect towards you and it doesn't sound like you deserve that.
Apr 13 2006 6:28PM
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pwallstreet
Posts: 1627 - Karma: 41
dude your spending way too much money on this girl. she'll come to you just dont act so involved!! give her some space- some amount of time thats out of the ordinary and then call her and see if she wants to CUM over...
Apr 13 2006 6:53PM
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ATLskier
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If you fuck her, you will get so many STD's. That ho bag isn't worth your time. Find a better girl.
Apr 13 2006 7:15PM
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niels.
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maybe they had... "s-e-x". idk listen to bitchez aint shit by ben folds though its a sick song
Apr 13 2006 8:25PM
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skiing_hottie
Posts: 57 - Karma: 10
yo dont obsess or she'll totaly get sick of you.. play it cool and dont over do it but i think she totaly likes you and i think you got a chance with this girl
Apr 13 2006 8:31PM
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ProducerXXX
Posts: 1776 - Karma: 13
It sounds like she's playing hard to get. Just go with the flow, and like someone else said, pretend you have other things to do. Don't get too clingy yet, just take it easy.
Apr 13 2006 11:02PM
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ProducerXXX
Posts: 1776 - Karma: 13
BTW, is she hot?
Apr 13 2006 11:03PM
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wdbo.
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why would you say bullshit to her it you actually wanted a date
maybe it was in another tone?
Apr 13 2006 11:05PM
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ProducerXXX
Posts: 1776 - Karma: 13
Let's have an update.
Apr 13 2006 11:15PM
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jarossamdb7
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because im not just going to take that shit like a bitch. I dont know much about relationships, but what I do know is that if someone makes a mistake, and they actually care for you, you gotta call them out on it to an extent. If she was indeed into me, saying something like "that sounds like bullshit to me" would only motivate her that much more to make time to hang out and proove me wrong. On top of that, it shows I stand up for myself, a quality which most girls I know of like in men.

anyhow, its over. She talked to me roomate. apparently, she thinks that she broke my heart (whatever, slut..). And I guess she told him she has no interest. I find it funny and kind of ironic that when she did like me (its pretty clear she did at one point) we always would joke with eachother. She would always say that im so young and I would always say that mentally, she was younger then I am, but it would seem that it turns out to be true...
Apr 14 2006 1:27AM
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jarossamdb7
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humm. I would say so.

I suck at raiting girls, what would you say?:

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Apr 14 2006 1:54AM
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TMswitch06
Posts: 987 - Karma: 11
yo straight up though you got played like a fiddle. You cant be that vulnerable to girls like that or they'll own you dude. As for a "real , legit" it sounds to me like it was flirting enhanced by alcohal. If it was me I woulda said peace the night she went off with the other guy
Apr 14 2006 1:54AM
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dman1260
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man, you're pathetic. I mean its one thing to be inexperienced, but it's completely different to be an inexperienced pussy who is too afraid to do anything that will actually give the chance to do something, but it's another to be such a pussy that you rely on a website full of 14 and 15 year old stoners to help you get layed. Just grow some balls and tell that bitch to either suck your dick or get away.
Apr 14 2006 1:57AM
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jarossamdb7
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i umm, did. that was lastnight...
Apr 14 2006 1:59AM
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jarossamdb7
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in not so much taking advice as to what to do from here. Rather, im trying to see what people think about the situation. being inexpeiranced, I suck ass at reading girls. its just part of my hopeless trys to understand them (which I realize will never happen)
Apr 14 2006 2:01AM
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TMswitch06
Posts: 987 - Karma: 11
No i said I would've said Peace... as in bye, as in moving on, as in we are no longer fuckin. if she thinks she broke your heart then you obviously got too attached. end of story
Apr 14 2006 2:03AM
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dman1260
Posts: 899 - Karma: 13
well, stop trying to read them so much and just go for it. I mean, if the girl is not feeling you, you'll know it, she'll make it clear. And otherwise, if she doesn't show you any real signs that she isn't interested just go for it. I mean,what do you have to lose, other than your virginity. And it may be hard, but you really just have to go for it.
Apr 14 2006 2:04AM
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jarossamdb7
Posts: 6322 - Karma: -10
heres the thing. Me, and other people I talked to, though she was just playing hard to get, because every time I kissed her, she would kiss me back, and giggle and shit, and she just kissed me out of the blue a few times as well. Even lastnight...
Apr 14 2006 2:24AM
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Desjardins
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the same thing is happening to my friend right now, jsut find another girl
Apr 14 2006 2:26AM
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ProducerXXX
Posts: 1776 - Karma: 13
Why is everybody ripping on him? So he asked for some relationship advice. Big deal.
Apr 14 2006 11:32AM
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AwR
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bro, youve got to ask yourself what type of girl is she? like is it only you that she kisses or does she do that with everyone?
Apr 14 2006 12:12PM
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Jake...
Posts: 11976 - Karma: 296
i think you guys are "seeing eachother"
Apr 14 2006 12:28PM
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Scratch*my*Back
Posts: 8334 - Karma: 160
it sounds like she originally liked u a lot but then lost interest because you made it too easy for her. she probably knows she has u and that u are super into her and that she could probably get away with murder and u wouldnt care.
if she isnt a big whore and u actually like her..then u gotta take control of the situation somehow. show her u wear the pants and that u arent afraid to take the lead.
but also she sounds a little immature for her age so that could also be a problem.
Apr 14 2006 12:48PM
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Leckett
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your a wise one. ive learned alot from reading your posts to relationship-related issues
Apr 14 2006 1:26PM
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japie99
Posts: 2128 - Karma: 19
Jep she is right!!

But ah I should give it another try play it hard see what you feel but that u dont want that bullshit etc. If she still act like a ho you should grab like the rest of the bar (hopefully female) and have the best night ever and than u will laugh about this and think how stupid she is
Apr 14 2006 1:26PM
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ProducerXXX
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Agreed. She should start a NS column on relationship advice or something. Like Ann Landers, or something.
Apr 14 2006 1:46PM
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japie99
Posts: 2128 - Karma: 19
Haha yeh she is good, she should do it. I've learned alot from here:P
Apr 14 2006 1:48PM
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jarossamdb7
Posts: 6322 - Karma: -10
I had a little IM conversation with her lastngiht (yea, I would have rather done it in person, but it really doesnt matter at this point, plus, she started talking to me anyhow). Basically, she doesnt want a relationship (it sounds like she has been hurt in the past, I brought that up and she completly snapped at me). She just wanted sex, and realized since I have not had much sexual expeirance, that I might get clingey if it were to happen.. She kept insisting that she really liked me still, but just couldnt continue with me with the way things were going and what she wanted.

anyway, things got a bit heated, and I feel kind of bad about it, but here is what I ended with:
" oh, I got that much. Your right, I do need to move on. man what a waste of time in the last 2 weeks of school.. You think that your gods gift to man or something? All I was doing was being interested, and for a while I saw that interest back from you as well. Then you had to turn around and be a bitch about it. "Oh god he likes me, there must be a problem..." If all you want is sex, go get drunk like you do and im sure it wont be too hard, there are alot of stupid guys out there"
Apr 14 2006 2:35PM
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FUUUCK
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she's ho, she isnt hot, you wasted your time
Apr 14 2006 5:41PM
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japie99
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She is, leave the that ho. She has nothin! She isnt hot plus she is fokin bitch/ho
Apr 15 2006 6:04AM
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